06/16/2021
In the world of spring cleaning or in this case summer prep.
A society that pushes the concept of spring cleaning your house or closet.
Do you think this should be applied to a friends and family list?
This is not about ghosting your friends- it's an evaluation for deeper connections and expansions.
1. Communications
2. Giving & Recieving Energetically
3. Exit strategy
It's interesting who we spend our most time with.
My boyfriend calls me on s**z, he's very open to my ideas but he also keeps me grounded. ( classic jeans, never go out of style, cozy, dress them up or down.) grandmas heirloom.
My girlfriends. I live to dream with, visualize and make reality.( Quality, get rid of the fake stuff. My favorite sweater, sweats or cozy sweater.) my Lenny Kravitz record...duh a keeper.
Colleagues a mutual respect, unconditional support and healthy critical eye. ( some trendy pieces that match well with classics that upcycled and are earth friendly.) (A good running or workout shoe.)
My Zeppelin - My dog is my mirror, very loyal, likes sleep and a good meal. ( My fave Birkenstocks, vans or chucks.) priceless. Do I need the latest 3k shoes,can’t do it. People starving in world. Yep, you can unfriend me for that!
Think about it like spring cleaning - is the shirt so late 90’s?
As sad as it is we outgrow or relationships like we outgrow things .
In our lives we can look back on the times when we had highly is regulated and dysfunctional periods.
College or your crazy 30’s?
We love and honor those times of trainwrecky. It's what got us here.
Create a list of 5 who you spend the most time with or take up residence in your mind.
This is important to be honest and authentic.
I.e. Thinking you have to put your significant other first, even if it's not true.
Maybe your one kid doesn't make the list.
Maybe in Ex takes up residence even though you are in a current relationship.
This type of honesty should make it to your list, allow them to exist on your list.