Life Coaching With Juli

Can I share something I hear often from the women I work with?

"I've done everything right. So why does it still feel like something is missing?"

That question — that honest, uncomfortable question — is not a sign that something is wrong with you. It's a sign that you're ready for a different kind of work. The inner kind.

That's what both of my May offerings are built for.

🌿 Bloom Your Own Rules Paid Challenge May 26–28 | 1pm CDT | $47 Permanent recordings included

👉 Registration Link is in the comments. 👇👇👇

Two weeks out. If you've been thinking about it, now is the time.

🌿 Unstuck and Unstoppable: A New Way of Being 6-Week Live Cohort | 8 spots | Application only. A few spots have already been spoken for.

👉 Application link is in the comments. 👇👇👇

The first morning I woke up without a job to go to, I felt like floating. Not the peaceful kind, the untethered kind, where you're not sure if you're rising or falling.

The voice in my head had plenty to say: *See? You walked away from a stable job, and for what? To struggle financially and question everything? This was a mistake.*

I had savings. I had a plan to pursue freelance writing. But what I didn't have was the one thing that had been propping up my identity for years: external validation of my worth through professional achievement.

Turns out, that's a really uncomfortable thing to lose.

THE REALITY CHECK

My freelance work trickled in slowly. The pay was scanty. Projects were sporadic. And without the structure of office hours and meetings, I had to confront something I'd been avoiding for years:

Who was I when nobody was watching?

What did I actually care about when I wasn't trying to prove something to someone?

But beneath that harsh inner criticism, something else was happening. I was beginning to process all the years of pushing, striving, and contorting myself to fit into spaces that were never designed for me.

THE DISCOVERY

Writing, it turned out, was not just a career pivot. It was a doorway to myself.

When I sat down to really write, not just produce corporate copy, I had to access something true. I had to reach beneath the polished professional persona and find the actual human underneath.

This wasn't just a skill I was developing. This was something I'd been suppressing for years under layers of professionalism and people-pleasing.

THE QUESTION THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING

Somewhere in those months of uncertainty, I started asking a question I'd never allowed myself to ask before:

*What if there's nothing wrong with me?*

What if my inability to be satisfied with a comfortable country-club job wasn't a character flaw, but a sign of integrity?

What if my body breaking down wasn't weakness, but wisdom trying to get my attention?

What if all of this—the career implosion, the identity crisis, the financial insecurity- was actually clearing space for something truer?

For the first time in my life, I was considering the possibility that my worth wasn't something I had to earn or prove. That maybe I was already whole. Already enough. Already worthy of a life that actually fit who I was, not who I thought I should be.

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The woman who walked out of that corporate building was not the same woman who would emerge from this period of transformation.

And thank God for that.

(Final part coming soon...)

**A question for you:** What old identity or story about yourself had to die before you could step into who you're becoming? Or if you're in the middle of that death right now, what's the scariest part? Let me know in the comments. 👇👇👇

Something shifted in the Bloom Your Own Rules Challenge last week.

Women who came in feeling stuck left with something they hadn't expected — clarity. Not the kind that comes from having all the answers, but the kind that comes from finally asking the right questions.

If you missed it, or if you're ready to go through it with more intention and keep the material permanently, I'm running it again.

🌿 Bloom Your Own Rules — Paid Challenge Experience May 26, 27 & 28 | 1 pm CDT | Live on Zoom | $44 Permanent access to all recordings included.

👉 Registration Link in the comments.

And if you're ready for something deeper —
🌿 Unstuck and Unstoppable: A New Way of Being A 6-week live cohort for high-achieving women ready to change the way they think, respond, and live.

8 spots. Application and interview only.

👉 Application link in the comments

Questions? Drop them in the comments or send me a DM.

Last chance! 🌸

The Bloom By Your Own Rules Challenge begins tomorrow — April 28th, at 1 pm CDT, and I don't want you to miss it.

This is your final reminder that this beta round is:
✅ Completely free ✅ Only 3 days ✅ Only one time at this price — ever

If you've been on the fence — let this be your sign. 💛

Here's what's waiting for you:
🌱 Day 1 — April 28th: See the belief that's been quietly running your life
🌿 Day 2 — April 29th: Question where it came from
🌸 Day 3 — April 30th: Write a brand new Life Rule — entirely transmute yourself!

One belief. Three days. One new rule that actually fits who you are.

Look for the link to register in the comments 👇👇👇 — we start tomorrow! 🌸

Just a few days away! 🌸

The Bloom By Your Own Rules Challenge kicks off on April 28th, and I want to make sure you have a spot before we begin.

Here's a little reminder of what we're doing together:
🌱 Day 1 — April 28th: Identify the inherited belief that has been quietly running your life
🌿 Day 2 — April 29th: Question where it came from and whether it truly belongs to you
🌸 Day 3 — April 30th: Write a brand-new Life Rule, entirely in your own words

Three days. One honest look at a belief you didn't choose. One new rule you actually did.

And this beta round is completely free — one time only.

If you've been thinking about joining, now is the time. 💛

April 28th is just around the corner. 🌸

The registration link is in the comments. 👇👇👇

Something exciting is coming — and I want you to be part of it. 🌸

I am launching the very first Bloom By Your Own Rules Challenge — a free 3-day online challenge for high-achieving women who are ready to stop living by rules they didn't choose.

Here's what we're doing together:
🌱 Day 1 — April 28th: See the belief that's been quietly running your life
🌿 Day 2 — April 29th: Question where it came from and whether it belongs to you 🌸 Day 3 — April 30th: Write a new rule — in your own words — that actually fits who you are

This is the beta round — which means it's completely free. And it's the only time it will ever be free.

If this is speaking to you, trust that. 💛

"Comment below with the word BLOOM, and I'll send you the registration details as soon as they're live!" 🌸

You've heard the saying, "Be careful for what you wish for because you might just get it!"

My client Diane spent years seeing herself as a victim. She judged herself as not good enough. Her external reality reflected her inner perspective. She hopped around from job to job, isolated and depressed, and avoided opportunities because she feared failure.

After working with me, she was transformed; she reconnected with her authentic self. The little girl who loved creating art, who painted because it made her soul sing, had been buried under decades of limiting beliefs and saboteur voices.

She reconnected with her intuition, the quiet inner voice that had been trying to guide her all along, telling her that she was meant to share her gift with the world. Once again, she reflected her inner self, but this time she became known as an upcoming local artist, a truly talented, creative being meant to be seen. She changed the rules of her life and began living life on her own terms.

You can do the same, and I encourage you to join my free three-day Spring challenge: "Change The Rules of Your Life", on April 28th, 29th, and 30th. I will be announcing the event here in the group soon.

What do you struggle with when it comes to doing what others expect from you?
Comment below
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