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Take Time to Spring Clean Your Finances!

🗂️Declutter your financial documents: Get rid of any outdated financial documents and receipts that are no longer needed. Keep only the essential documents, such as tax returns, bank statements, and investment records.

💰Review your subscriptions: Look at your monthly subscriptions, such as gym memberships, streaming services, and magazine subscriptions, and cancel the ones that you no longer need or use.
👣Track your expenses: Keep track of your expenses for a few weeks to understand where your money is going. This can help you identify areas where you can reduce expenses.

💡Check your credit score: Review your credit score and credit report to make sure there are no errors or fraudulent activities. You can access your credit report for free once a year from each of the three credit bureaus.

📄Create a budget: Make a budget that reflects your current financial situation and tracks your income and expenses. Use budgeting tools such as spreadsheets or budgeting apps to make it easier.
⬇️Reduce your debt: Create a plan to reduce your debt, especially high-interest debt such as credit card debt. You can do this by paying more than the minimum payment each month or by consolidating your debt.

🤖Automate your finances: Set up automatic bill payments and savings contributions to make sure you stay on top of your financial obligations and goals.
✅Monitor your progress: Did you meet your first quarter goals? Keep a close eye on your progress toward the new goals and adjust as needed. Regularly track your performance and use data to inform decisions and course corrections.

✏️Write down your goals for the next quarter and put them somewhere you will see them.

By following these steps, you can get your finances in order and start the new season with a fresh financial outlook.

What else do you like to do to with your finances in the spring? Share an idea in the chat!

There are several things you can do to get ahead with money:

💰Create a budget: The first step to getting ahead with money is to know where your money is going. Create a budget and track your spending to identify areas where you can cut back.

🏦Save: Make saving a priority. Set aside a portion of your income each month in a savings account or investment account. Start small, even just a few dollars a month can add up over time.

💴Invest: Once you have a good amount of money saved up, consider investing in stocks, mutual funds, or other assets. Investing can help you grow your wealth over time and beat inflation.

🎓Educate yourself: Learn about personal finance and investing. Read books, blogs, and articles about money management, and attend seminars or classes to increase your financial knowledge.

⬆️Increase your income: Look for ways to increase your income, such as taking on a side hustle or asking for a raise at work. The more money you earn, the more you can save and invest.

☠️Avoid debt: Try to avoid taking on debt whenever possible, especially high-interest debt like credit cards. If you do have debt, focus on paying it off as quickly as possible.

😅Be patient: Building wealth takes time and patience. Stay focused on your financial goals and keep working towards them, even if progress is slow at first.

What's one thing you can do to spring ahead on your financial goals?

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Today in the United States it is Equal Pay Day - not a cause for celebration.

This is a symbolic day that represents how far into the year women must work to earn the same amount of money that men earned in the previous year. The day varies depending on the country and the gender pay gap in that country.

The purpose of Equal Pay Day is to raise awareness about the gender pay gap and to promote equal pay for equal work. It highlights the fact that women, on average, earn less than men for the same work and that this gap has significant economic and social consequences.

Equal Pay Day events and campaigns often focus on the need for policy changes, such as stronger pay transparency laws and stronger enforcement of existing equal pay laws, as well as the importance of employers taking action to address gender pay disparities within their own organizations.

I wish this day was not on the calendar at all but even in 2023 women earn just 84% of what men do.

It may be time to ask for a raise and expect pay transparency at the cooperate level.

If you're looking for cheap ideas for Spring Break, here are a few suggestions:

Take a day trip to a nearby park or hiking trail. Many state parks offer free admission or have low entrance fees.

Explore your own city or town as a tourist. Visit museums, art galleries, and other local attractions that you may have overlooked.

Plan a picnic in a nearby park or on the beach. Pack a homemade lunch and enjoy the scenery.

Have a movie marathon with friends or family. Rent or stream a series of movies, make some snacks, and settle in for a cozy day at home.

Volunteer with a local organization. Many nonprofits need extra help during Spring Break, and you can make a difference while also gaining new experiences.

Check out free events in your area. Many cities offer free concerts, festivals, and other cultural events during Spring Break.

Go on a bike ride or walk in your neighborhood. Get some exercise and fresh air while exploring your own backyard.

Remember that Spring Break doesn't have to be expensive to be enjoyable. With a little creativity and planning, you can have a fun and memorable break without breaking the bank.

What are some things you plan to do this year?

Date night doesn't have to be expensive to be enjoyable and meaningful. So don't let inflation steal your romance. In fact, there are many low-cost or free date night ideas:

🍉A Picnic in the Park: Pack a basket with some of your favorite snacks, grab a blanket, and head to a nearby park. It's a great way to enjoy the outdoors, spend time together, and have a relaxing meal. No cell phones = extra romance points.

🍿Movie Night at Home: Rent a movie or find something to binge on a streaming service, make some popcorn, and snuggle up on the couch. It's a simple but cozy way to spend quality time together.

🎲Game Night: Dust off your favorite board games or card games and have a fun night of friendly competition or find a cooperative games. So, many fun ones out there. It's a great way to enjoy each other's company and have some laughs.

👬Take a Walk: Go for a stroll around your neighborhood or a nearby park. It's an excellent way to get some exercise, enjoy the outdoors, and have some one-on-one time.

🧑‍🍳Cook Together: Plan a menu, pick up some ingredients, and cook a meal together. It's a fun way to bond, try new recipes, and enjoy a delicious meal.

Remember, the goal of date night is to spend quality time together, not a lot of money. So get creative, have fun, and enjoy each other's company!

Date night is important for several reasons:

Strengthening the Relationship: Regular date nights help strengthen the bond between partners. It provides an opportunity to spend quality time together and focus on each other without any distractions.

Rekindling Romance: Date nights can help reignite the spark and romance in a relationship.

Date nights are a fantastic way to improve communication between partners. It creates a safe and intimate environment to discuss any concerns, thoughts, or feelings

Stress reduction: A date night can help you feel less stressed. Providing an opportunity to unwind and relax from the daily grind of life.

Creating Memories: Date night creates memories that can be cherished for years to come. It allows couples to create new experiences together and strengthen their emotional connection.

What's the best date you've been on recently?

In honor of International Women’s Day, I’d like to raise a glass to three women in my life who are always there to lift me up when I’m down, believe in my dreams, and listen when life doesn't follow my plans: my sister, my best friend, and my mom. Without these strong, compassionate, supportive women, I don’t know where I’d be!

Who are you celebrating today?

International Women's Day is a global event celebrated on March 8th each year.

IWD celebrates the social, economic, cultural, and political achievements of women. The day also marks a call to action for accelerating women's equality.

IWD has occurred for well over a century, with the first IWD gathering in 1911 supported by over a million people. Today, IWD belongs to all groups collectively everywhere. IWD is not country, group or organization specific.

So, what's the difference between equity and equality - and why is it important to understand, acknowledge and value this?

The IWD 2023 campaign theme seeks to get the world talking about why "equal opportunities are no longer enough" - and can in fact be exclusionary, rather than inclusive.

This is a great time to be talking with friends and family about these issues.

For more information: https://www.internationalwomensday.com/EquityEquality

Getting Over Financial Infidelity

The most common money deceptions in financial infidelity are:

• Making secret purchases
• Hiding debts or accounts
• Lying about income
• Draining funds from savings
• Lending money without a partner’s consent.

Getting over financial infidelity can be a challenging process, but it is possible with time and effort. Here are some steps you can take:

Acknowledge the issue: The first step to getting over financial infidelity is to acknowledge that it has happened. Both partners should be honest about what has occurred and how they feel about it.

Communicate: Communication is key to rebuilding trust in a relationship. Discuss the situation with your partner and try to understand why they engaged in financial infidelity. This can help both of you move forward and avoid similar situations in the future.

Set boundaries: Establish clear boundaries and expectations around finances moving forward. This could include joint budgets, shared financial goals, and regular check-ins about spending.

Seek outside help: If you're struggling to move past financial infidelity, consider seeking outside help from a financial advisor, therapist, or counselor.

Focus on the future: While it's important to acknowledge what has happened, it's also important to focus on the future. Work together to create a financial plan that aligns with your shared goals and values.

Remember that rebuilding trust takes time and effort, but it is totally possible. The best way to get beyond the infidelity is to open lines of communication and to come up with a money plan. This spending plan should involve a hard look at your revenue and expenses.

Audit your budget and make sure you are tagging and tracking all your spending. Allow your partner to have plenty of input: Nobody wants to be in a relationship where the partner feels like they’re being put on an allowance. Treat everyone like they are adults.

***It’s important to note the difference between financial abuse - which is using money to exert control over another person. That is domestic abuse and should not be tolerated.

DM if want someone to practice with.

JRP

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Getting Over Financial Infidelity

The most common money deceptions in financial infidelity are:

• Making secret purchases
• Hiding debts or accounts
• Lying about income
• Draining funds from savings
• Lending money without a partner’s consent.

Getting over financial infidelity can be a challenging process, but it is possible with time and effort. Here are some steps you can take:

Acknowledge the issue: The first step to getting over financial infidelity is to acknowledge that it has happened. Both partners should be honest about what has occurred and how they feel about it.

Communicate: Communication is key to rebuilding trust in a relationship. Discuss the situation with your partner and try to understand why they engaged in financial infidelity. This can help both of you move forward and avoid similar situations in the future.

Set boundaries: Establish clear boundaries and expectations around finances moving forward. This could include joint budgets, shared financial goals, and regular check-ins about spending.

Seek outside help: If you're struggling to move past financial infidelity, consider seeking outside help from a financial advisor, therapist, or counselor.

Focus on the future: While it's important to acknowledge what has happened, it's also important to focus on the future. Work together to create a financial plan that aligns with your shared goals and values.

Remember that rebuilding trust takes time and effort, but it is totally possible. The best way to get beyond the infidelity is to open lines of communication and to come up with a money plan. This spending plan should involve a hard look at your revenue and expenses.

Audit your budget and make sure you are tagging and tracking all your spending. Allow your partner to have plenty of input: Nobody wants to be in a relationship where the partner feels like they’re being put on an allowance. Treat everyone like they are adults.

***It’s important to note the difference between financial abuse - which is using money to exert control over another person. That is domestic abuse and should not be tolerated.

DM if you want a worksheet to help you talk through the conversations or want someone to practice with.

JRP

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Money Habits – Give Yourself Grace:

😣The truth is we have all made money mistakes – cashed out a 401k, bounced a check, spent too much for Christmas. This year let the past be in the rearview mirror because we need the grace to look at the bigger picture through the front windshield. It is too easy to second guess past decisions. It is more important to realize that we did the best we could with the information we had at the time.

⌛When we look back, we have additional data that we didn’t know about at the time. Move forward, let mistakes of the past stay there. Avoid limiting beliefs like I’m just not good with money-math-technology or I’m just a spender so what can you do?

🤸‍♀️You don’t have to be constantly worried and fearful about money. You have choices. Focus on looking out of the driver’s seat through the windshield for the bigger picture. Give yourself grace for the past.

😚I tell my kids, clients, and friends you make the best possible decision with the information you have so there is no point in wishing you could do it over or make another choice. Maybe today you have concluded that you could have done x, y, z better, smarter, faster but that is looking back with the advantage of the full picture and additional information.

🚗Today we want to be in the driver’s seat with our finances and the best possible thing for you to do so you feel capable and worthy of that position is to educate yourself.

💪As with any new muscle you are working out, having good money habits is being purposeful and directing the flow rather than just moving with the current. It’s not a magic wand, but a deliberate attempt to step out of fear. When you do a budget, each month acknowledge what went right and wrong. It takes 90 days to make a budget really work.

🕰️ Also a budget is not a one and done thing, our lives and activities change month to month and the budget needs to reflect that. February has a holiday (heads up guys) so may need more for presents or entertainment.

Financial management is 80% behavior and 20% know-how.

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