Cherie Silas, MCC Coach, Reflective Supervision

Cherie Silas, MCC Coach, Reflective Supervision Cherie Silas, MCC is a Professional Coach, Coach Trainer, Mentor Coach, and a Reflective Supervision Provider.

Her life's mission is: To leave you better than I found you with each encounter!

One of the hardest shifts for new coaches… and honestly, for experienced ones too:Letting go of the need to be the one w...
05/08/2026

One of the hardest shifts for new coaches… and honestly, for experienced ones too:

Letting go of the need to be the one with the answer.

It’s subtle. You’re listening, you care, and you can see a path forward for the person in front of you. The instinct to help by offering it can feel almost automatic.

But coaching asks something different.

Not fixing. Not leading. Not proving your value through insight.

It asks you to create a space where someone can think more clearly than they’ve been able to on their own. A space where they hear themselves in a new way.

That takes presence. It takes restraint. It takes trust that the work is happening, even when you’re not “doing” much on the surface.

You are not the solution.
You are the space where the solution emerges.

I can usually tell within a few conversations how an organization is approaching Agile.If the focus is on frameworks, ce...
05/07/2026

I can usually tell within a few conversations how an organization is approaching Agile.

If the focus is on frameworks, ceremonies, and tools, I know where the struggle is going to show up next.

Because Agile isn’t just a process shift. It asks people to think differently, communicate differently, and make decisions differently. And that’s where things get uncomfortable.

You’re not just introducing Scrum or Kanban. You’re asking leaders to loosen control, teams to take more ownership, and everyone to question habits that have been rewarded for years.

That doesn’t happen because you rolled out a new framework.

It happens when leaders model it. When they create space for transparency. When they allow learning to take time instead of expecting instant results.

You can implement Agile quickly.
Culture takes longer.

That gap between the two is where most transformations either deepen… or quietly stall.

If you’re serious about growing as a leader, your learning can’t be accidental.The Tandem Coaching Newsletter is designe...
05/06/2026

If you’re serious about growing as a leader, your learning can’t be accidental.

The Tandem Coaching Newsletter is designed for leaders and coaches who want practical insight they can apply immediately. Each issue delivers grounded perspective, relevant tools, and coaching-informed guidance that supports real decision making in real environments.

This is not surface-level inspiration. It is thoughtful, experience-backed content from coaches who work inside the complexity of leadership every day. You will find ideas you can test, questions that sharpen your thinking, and frameworks that strengthen your leadership practice.

If you value steady growth without unnecessary burnout, this is for you.

Scan the QR code or visit tcoa.ch/PRXO to subscribe.

Balancing innovation with stability sounds simple… until you’re the one responsible for it.I’ve worked with leaders who ...
05/06/2026

Balancing innovation with stability sounds simple… until you’re the one responsible for it.

I’ve worked with leaders who are told to move faster, innovate more, and keep their teams engaged at the same time. That tension is real. And it doesn’t get solved by pushing harder.

What I notice is this: people don’t resist change because they can’t handle it. They resist when they don’t understand what it means for them. Their role. Their workload. Their place on the team.

That’s where leadership shows up.

Clear communication matters. Naming what’s changing and what’s not matters. And pacing the change so people can actually absorb it matters more than most leaders expect.

Yes, innovation requires movement. But stability creates the conditions for people to move with you.

So as you think about the changes in front of you…
Where might slowing down actually help you move forward?

Coaching grows you while you're growing others.I’ve seen this play out again and again. The moment you think coaching is...
05/05/2026

Coaching grows you while you're growing others.

I’ve seen this play out again and again. The moment you think coaching is only about helping someone else improve, you miss half the work.

The best coaches I know are paying just as much attention to themselves as they are to the person in front of them. What am I noticing? Where did I get curious? Where did I hold back?

Skill matters. Practice matters. But so does your willingness to keep learning in real time, not just in a classroom.

If you’re serious about this work, it’s not just about showing up for others. It’s about noticing how you’re showing up, period.

So I’ll ask you this… How is your coaching shaping you?

I'm hosting another Tandem Community Round Table on Using AI in Coaching, and I'd love to see some familiar faces there!...
05/04/2026

I'm hosting another Tandem Community Round Table on Using AI in Coaching, and I'd love to see some familiar faces there!

April's roundtable was a great turnout, and we'd love to see you at this one too.

I'll be facilitating a conversation about how coaches can use AI as a tool without losing what makes coaching truly effective — the human connection. We'll dig into practical tools, real concerns, and the questions we're all asking right now.

Using AI in Coaching

📅 June 2026 ⏰ 2:00 PM CST

✨ This free event is limited to 25 seats, so reserve your spot today!

Scan the QR code in the graphic or register here: https://tco.ac/uu32

Ethical leadership is not a slogan. It is a daily practice. It shows up in small decisions long before it is tested in l...
05/04/2026

Ethical leadership is not a slogan. It is a daily practice. It shows up in small decisions long before it is tested in large ones.

When ethics consistently guide your leadership, trust deepens. Accountability becomes shared rather than enforced. Reputation strengthens because people experience alignment between your words and your actions. Over time, credibility compounds.

Morals are personal. Ethics are professional. Strong leaders align the two. They do not shift standards based on convenience or pressure. They model integrity in ways that make expectations clear for everyone around them.

Leading ethically requires intention. You set the tone through your behavior. You hold boundaries even when it costs you something. You invite honest dialogue and reinforce integrity when you see it.

Culture reflects leadership. If you want a workplace people trust, start with how you show up when no one is watching.

I remember one of my earliest failures in coaching clearly. Two colleagues. One workplace conflict. I arranged the chair...
05/01/2026

I remember one of my earliest failures in coaching clearly. Two colleagues. One workplace conflict. I arranged the chairs so they faced each other and assumed the conversation would unfold productively. Instead, it escalated quickly, and I found myself losing control of the room.

At one point, I said out loud, “I don’t know how to help you. I think I’m in over my head.” It was uncomfortable. It was also formative. That experience reshaped how I approach conflict in coaching settings.

Structure matters more than we think. I now position clients facing me rather than each other to lower immediate tension. I set clear expectations about how the conversation will be facilitated and interrupt when necessary before escalation builds. I allow space for each person to vent to me first so they feel heard without directing heat at one another.

Only then do we move gradually into direct dialogue. The focus shifts from blame to understanding and forward movement. Conflict coaching requires steadiness, boundaries, and preparation.

Confidence in these sessions did not come from theory. It came from navigating failure and learning from it.

Visionary leaders do not wait for perfect clarity to arrive. They participate in creating it. In the midst of ambiguity,...
04/30/2026

Visionary leaders do not wait for perfect clarity to arrive. They participate in creating it. In the midst of ambiguity, they articulate a direction that others can see and move toward.

What distinguishes them is not imagination alone. It is the discipline to give shape to possibility. They connect ideas that seem unrelated. They communicate in ways that energize rather than overwhelm. They act thoughtfully even when all the answers are not yet available.

Visionary leadership also carries empathy. People are more willing to move toward the unknown when they feel understood and supported. Purpose is not imposed; it is shared and reinforced consistently.

If you want to strengthen this capacity, begin by defining the future you believe in. Speak about it clearly and often. Invite others to refine it with you. Vision grows stronger when it is co-created.

Vision is not prediction. It is commitment. Leaders who inspire the future do so because they are willing to embody it first.

Coaching is not one-size-fits-all. The power of the profession lies in its adaptability. Different seasons of life and l...
04/29/2026

Coaching is not one-size-fits-all. The power of the profession lies in its adaptability. Different seasons of life and leadership require different kinds of support.

Executive coaching focuses on sharpening leadership effectiveness. It strengthens self-awareness, decision-making, and influence within complex organizations. For leaders carrying significant responsibility, it provides perspective and strategic clarity.

Life coaching centers on alignment and balance. It helps individuals clarify what matters most, build confidence, and move intentionally through personal transitions. Career coaching, in turn, supports navigation through change, whether that means a new role, a job search, or redefining long-term direction.

If you are unsure which path fits, begin with reflection. What feels stalled right now? What outcome would create the greatest relief or momentum? Clarity about the challenge often reveals the right type of partnership.

Coaching works best when it meets you where you are. Identifying your current need is the first step toward meaningful growth.

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