04/04/2024
Doom boxes or boxes of delayed decisions or what if boxes? This large now empty box was all of that. π There were 5 separate bags of fabric in there. It was from the fabric restoration after the Fire 7 years ago. π π₯ As I sorted things and made the bags smaller they all fit in here. But then the sorting stopped. And the box sat in a storage unit that existed first because of my mother's stroke, then our house fire, then mom's death.
We have real and valid reasons for our feelings surrounding our boxes.
Today I sorted this box with new eyes and new words. Am I doing a service to myself but owning this item, will I ever use it, and if so when, is this a piece that I can even donate?
Categories are
Gifting,
Donation,
Keeping,
Trash & Recycling.
Gifting: Do I know someone who will use this (I then asked them & I am delivering it to them) the blue gingham is going to a new home,
Donation: the blue box is donated,
Keeping: the pile of baby is Peter rabbit and I am keeping it. I will make baby blankets out of it. (A thing I am proven to do) The white fabric is curtain lace I want to wait to decide on it till my daughter is here in case she wants me to make anything with it,
Trash or Recycling : and the last bag is trash.
It was challenging because there were stories with the fabric of my mother's stories. It is ok to feel sadness at going through and letting go of things that have memories. You can even take photos and make a memory book with the stories written with the photo. But letting things sit in boxes is not honoring the stories and it is not honoring your Peace of mind. (I am going to even use the box as a mulching layer in my garden a thing my mom would very much approve of. πΊ