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07/20/2022

she was classy now she nasty 😛

07/19/2022

Had the best bachelorette weekend celebrating with some 🔥ladies. we walked, we ate, we laughed, we spa'd, we danced, ate some more, laughed some more, my face and abs are still sore. didn't mean to rhyme but that's cool

07/08/2022

took the kids to saugatuck for a mini vacay and we only got in trouble for nudity once, first time for everything 😈

06/29/2022

What's your pattern with choosing connection to SELF over connection to others?

the discomfort of letting others down so you can continue to live in your truth.. is really fcking hard. +honestly sometimes isolating.

this year has been very defining for me in terms of staying in my own energy. especially, w/ an old pattern of people pleasing.

i've met incredible people i call "lifers," or ones u know will be around for the long haul. they don't need anything from you..they just genuinely enjoy your energy, their own energy and within that, so much gets to happen.

i've also had some really incredible lessons in terms of relationships, both romantic and platonic- in that, not every single person is going to be (nor should they be) a "lifer."

i think we have a tendency to view most relationships as something that should be forever, +this belief has us attaching to people differently than we would if we took what i'm about to share more seriously...

🔥no one owes you anything. no one needs to stick around. +you also don't owe anyone anything +ur not obligated to continue showing up either.

some connections, containers, +REAL-ationships have an expiration date. and it's our responsibility to honor the fck out of that truth +not use it as a way to discount or discredit what those experiences created for us. or for them.

there's ALWAYS a reason. every single person we encounter and choose to connect with is offering us a gift, lesson+initiation into more of who WE are.

this 👆🏻 is what i'm taking away from all the "endings," +chapters closing.

the connections were real. my heart was in each of them, fully. and sometimes my heart hurts because it's yearning for that connection- which is now my responsibility to fill.

a rupture or ending gets to be the beginning of what we create next. +it starts with our own heart.

it feels awkward at first because there's space where others were pouring in, +what a gift that was.

+now it's the gift we offer ourselves.

how are you pouring into you today?

i ask myself this when i'm longing for those connections.. because that energy is also within me.

it's not easy, but it's true, which feels important.❤️

06/14/2022

After almost a week away, I'm heading home + ready to be fed with even more joy🔥

06/08/2022

Dear Universe: allow me to be filled with the responsibility of joy🔥

Say it with me: "I continue to filter out things that no longer serve me, I am continuously blessed, thank you, thank you, thank you."❤️

Next stop: ✈️ Breckenridge for our somatic sexology in person weekend with + I hear it's gonna be a spicy one 🌶 🥵💧🔥

05/30/2022

The intimacy you’re craving is possible and most likely it’s already in your life…

Intimacy is a back and forth journey, into your own soul and that of another. It requires you to go on a scavenger hunt in some of your darkest places+ to reveal what you find to another.

It’s confronting. It’s being seen, known, and understood on a level many will never experience. Because being REALLY intimate is scary. But it’s not the actual intimacy we’re afraid of…quite the opposite.

We’re afraid of losing the connection, so instead of being really honest about ourselves and what we experience, we hide. Instead of moving towards the DEEP, fulfilling relationships we want, we turn and run the other way.

We have surface level conversations, remain polite and cordial, living up to the unaligned standards we didn’t even set… because that option creates less of a risk. But it’s draining, so draining, and while we’re wearing this mask and playing the part we start to disconnect from our truth even more.

We eat too much food, numb out with alcohol and drugs and sometimes we even hurt people. Not because we want to, but because we’re so afraid that they’ll leave, not love or accept us, or even shame us for being, well ourselves. So we keep hiding. In fear of not belonging.

But the truth is, we all experience this. We all have darker parts of us we’d rather not let others know about, but the fear of losing a surface level connection is keeping you from experiencing what you really crave.

The intimacy is already there. You already have it, you’re just still somehow making YOU wrong, which is causing you to stay closed off and guarded with the people you actually want to be closer to you.

You don’t need to change anything. You don’t need to read a book, switch careers, or find a “better” partner.

You just need to be real and reveal who you really are and claim what you really want. Because you know yourself, and they want to know you too, ALL of you. So bring it.

The more you reveal the deeper you get to go, and the deeper you go the better it gets.

so what part of you is hiding+ how can you start to love on it?

04/30/2022

You don't need permission to choose what feels good.

The belief that you're only allowed to do what feels good after xyz is not only limiting how much pleasure you can experience (which is infinite) but it's closing you off from what your heart is really longing for...

This pattern usually shows up when we're forcing things, attempting to control outcomes, or even trying to please others.. rather than ourselves. There's no TRUST that it's safe to choose what's best for us.

When we can prioritize pleasure, we shift back into alignment....Because we're communicating to the world that we matter, our desires matter, and we're worthy of receiving them. There is trust.

+there are natural shifts that occur when we're in the vibe of trust:

🌙We can be fully present for our people
🌙love feels constant
🌙We don't second guess ourselves
🌙"hard" things feel "easy"
🌙We sleep better, have less anxiety, and give way less fcks
🌙We feel passionate about what We're choosing to create
🌙our libido sky rockets
🌙sex is magical
🌙We make more money

I think we can agree that these ⬆️ are pretty common desires... +what if the way into receiving these was through your own pleasure? What would shift for you?

you have permission to do what feels good + know that we all benefit from you doing so❤️

04/23/2022

Giving thanks to the ultimate mother🌍

For holding us all and reflecting the truth in any given moment.

For showing us that, when we don't resist, change just flows.

For teaching us that moving through seasons is not only normal, but necessary.

For all your wisdom, your beauty, +your power... we are so blessed!

Feet on the ground, head in the sky. We love you mother nay nay♥️🌈

04/21/2022

That's a wrap😋

I brag, I just finished 9 hours of soul filling, paradigm shifting, body regenerating werrrrkkk with clients.

2 somatic bodywork sessions, followed by a call with one my 6 month 1-1 ladies.⚡️⚡️⚡️

I heard this quote earlier about how the only real heaven we can experience is the one inside of ourselves. Def hits.

My only job is to stay connected to my heaven ++reflect the truth🔥 so others can find theirs. Here for it, always😋🌈🔥

04/18/2022

Your presence is the gift.⚡️

This mantra has been on repeat for my clients because like myself, they’ve experienced moments where this didn't feel true.

I recently had an old romantic partner reach out, wanting to reconnect. It was as if he had forgotten about our past.

After months of building what I had thought was a beautiful journey into TRUST… it unraveled. +long story short I was basically ghosted.🤦🏽‍♀️

4 months had passed since we had any type of communication. When he decided to reach out +wanted to “meet up,” I considered it...

But first, I reflected...
I remembered:
⚡️he wasn’t truthful about his intentions
⚡️he told me what I wanted (+needed) to hear to stay interested
⚡️he kept me close enough to stay connected, but far enough away that he didn’t have to commit
⚡️I remembered how I opened my heart to him + he gave me every reason to close it off and keep it shut forever.

THIS👆🏻was exactly what I thought it was… a journey into TRUST…with myself.🔥

Because I intuitively knew that he was not for me long before I was treated like an afterthought. +This was the exact lesson I needed to lean further into myself and my desires than to give my power over to someone that isn’t a full yes for me.

Through the reflecting, I started to access all the hurt that had accumulated from past relationships- I felt it all… which gave me the option to let it go....knowing it was no longer mine to hold.

And the only thing that was left was an open heart, ready to give and receive the love that was always there all along… I had just been offering it to the wrong people.

When we get hurt, it’s easy to think that it may be easier to close ourselves off + protect our hearts. But when we do that we don’t get to experience all the love that’s waiting for us to open back up.♥️

Your presence is THE GIFT, it is more than enough, and you are deserving of the exact love you desire for yourself-so stay open…. But discern who gets to receive you. Because YOU ARE THE GIFT and not everyone deserves access.🔥

I ended up blocking this person and have no intention of reconnecting. That was all the closure I needed.

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