05/02/2021
What a picture... Shaking my Commander’s hand with my baby in the other separating with an honorable discharge — April 2018.
This picture says a thousand words: The fine balancing act of impossibility many active duty service women play between serving this great nation and serving their families. But we are models—not martyrs—for our leaders, our teams, our children, our families, our life partners, and most importantly, OURSELVES. Whatever we do to stay true to ourselves and our pursuit of happiness is our own damn business. And I salute and honor all the women who continue to serve and sacrifice wearing the uniform. And I salute the women who have separated or retired and continue to serve in their own ways... as an active duty spouse and/or civil servant like myself... or as an advocate for our military members.
It was the greatest decision to raise my right hand 11 years ago and serve as a combat broadcast journalist for eight years. It was also the greatest decision three years ago to bow out gracefully and continue to thrive and evolve as a civil servant, entrepreneur and active duty spouse.
I am so grateful for my journey. I am continually thankful for my husband, James, and my handsome “three”nager, Roman. And, believe it or not, I am excited for our next chapter in Dover, Delaware, and the personal and professional growth that will bring us all.
Honor Your Journey. Do the things that scare you. Stay true to yourself and your pursuit of happiness.
