05/28/2012
Pretend Play is such a huge part of our children’s lives. Our young children learn by imagining and doing. Have you ever watched your child pick up a twig and run around with saying watch out here comes a fast air plane? Then next thing you know that same twig is what your daughter is using to stir the mud and she says she is making a yummy pie. Your child is using an object to represent something else while giving it action and motion. But this pretend play is not as simple as it may seem. The process of pretending builds skills in many essential developmental areas. To use it seems so silly sometime but as you read this article I hope you will understand the importance of pretend play.
Helping Social and Emotional Skills
When your child engages in pretend play, he or she is actively experimenting with the social and emotional roles of life. Through pretend play with others, he or she learns how to take turns, share responsibility, interact with other children, and communications skills.. When your child pretends to be different characters, he or she has the experience of "walking in someone else's shoes," which helps teach the important moral development skill of empathy. It is normal for young children to see the world from their own cute point of view, but through maturation and pretend play with others, your child will begin to understand the feelings of others. Your child also builds self-esteem when he or she discovers they can be anything just by pretending! I wish sometimes we all thought as little children and understood what they do just pretend and we will be what we put our minds to.
Language Skills
Have you ever listened in as your child engages in imaginary play with his or her toys or friends? You will probably hear some words and phrases you never thought they knew! My daughter will have a whole conversation with herself while we drive down the road. The things she comes up with to say is beyond me. In fact, we often hear our own words reflected in the play of children. (Sometimes scary). Kids can do a perfect imitation of mom, dad, friends and the teacher! Pretend play helps your child understand the power of language. In addition, by pretend playing with others, he learns that words give him the means to reenact a story. This process helps your child to make the connection between spoken and written language a skill that will later help him learn to read.
Thinking Skills
While our children engage in pretend play it provides your child with a variety of problems to solve. Whether it's two children wanting to play the same role or searching for the just right material to make a house, or just the right rock for the door house k**b. Your child calls upon important thinking skills that he will use in every aspect of his life, now and forever. The more our children pretend play I believe the more they use thinking skills. Thinking skill are very important in everyday life.
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