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An amazing encounter with author Author Deon Harris was a surprise today. He is a transformative and inspirational voice in the city right now, setting an example that change and success is possible with God and a willing heart.

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Mastering Leadership! Bryce presents the importance and valuable lessons we can all appreciate from simple stories, including those in kids book as we discuss a plan to launch a reading club for our youngest ones.

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Join us on Sunday, March 22, 2026 for our Reading Meeting.
Reading Book: The Three Questions by Don Miguel offers a framework for understanding our true self, taming the conflicting voices we hear in our heads, and discovering the clear path towards peace and joy.
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Recognizing one's own identity is profoundly empowering, particularly during periods of ambiguity, apprehension, and adversity. This concise article underscores the significance of solitude in facilitating self-awareness and personal growth.
What other considerations should we prioritize in order to enhance our development and progress? How does solitude contribute to this pursuit?
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Kahlil Gibran on Silence, Solitude, and the Courage to Know Yourself “In much of your talking, thinking is half murdered. For thought is a bird of space, that in a cage of words may indeed unfold its wings but cannot fly.”

How do you deal with the burden of mistrust and deception?
How do you heal when the heart doesn’t want to forgive?
What does it mean then to forgive?
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I picked up Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt’s The Gift of Forgiveness during a season of quiet resentment. A falling-out with a close friend had left a cold stone in my chest, and the well-meaning advice to “just let it go” felt as useful as a bandage on a broken bone. What I found within these pages wasn’t a prescriptive self-help manual, but a collection of lanterns—stories from diverse individuals, each illuminating a different part of the long, winding path toward letting go.

Reading it felt like sitting in a circle with brave souls, listening as they passed around a heavy, shared truth. Here are the five lessons that gently rearranged my heart:

1. Forgiveness is a Journey, Not a Destination. I always thought forgiveness was a single, grand act—a dramatic tearing-up of a debt ledger. The stories of people like Elizabeth Smart and Scarlett Lewis taught me it’s more like a path you choose to walk each day. Some days you march with purpose; other days, you stumble and have to sit and catch your breath. Understanding this lifted the pressure I’d put on myself to “arrive” at a state of perfect peace overnight. It gave me permission to be a traveler, not a finisher.

2. It’s For You, Not For Them. This was my most profound shift. I’d held onto my hurt like a weapon, believing my bitterness was a form of justice. But as one interviewee powerfully shared, holding onto resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to get sick. Schwarzenegger Pratt’s compilation shows, story after story, that the first, and often only, person released from the prison of anger is you. The stone in my chest wasn’t hurting my friend; it was only weighing me down.

3. Forgiveness Doesn’t Mean Reconciliation. This lesson was a liberation. I had conflated the two, believing that to forgive meant I had to welcome a toxic situation back into my life with open arms. The book draws a crucial, compassionate line between the internal work of freeing your heart and the external boundaries you may need to set. You can forgive the arsonist without rebuilding a house for them to burn down. This allowed me to explore letting go of my anger without fear that it meant condoning the hurt.

4. It Starts with a Single, Small Choice. The scale of some hurts in the book—unimaginable trauma and loss—could feel daunting. Yet, every story highlighted a tiny, first step: the choice to consider forgiveness, to say the word in your mind, to seek a therapist, to write an unsent letter. I realized I didn’t have to climb the whole mountain at once. My first small choice was simply closing the mental loop of replaying the argument. Then, it was acknowledging my own pain without blame. These micro-choices became the steps of my journey.

5. Compassion is the Bridge. Finally, the thread weaving every narrative together was the unexpected emergence of compassion. Not necessarily for the one who hurt you (though for some, that came), but first for your own wounded self, and then, remarkably, for the shared human condition of brokenness. Seeing the perpetrators in some stories as flawed, wounded people themselves—without excusing their actions—somehow made the world feel less personally cruel. It softened the edges of my own hurt, not into something trivial, but into a shared human experience I could begin to move through, rather than be permanently stuck inside.

The Gift of Forgiveness doesn’t offer easy answers. It offers something better: relatable companionship. It reassured me that my anger was valid, my pain was real, and my desire to be free from it was possible. Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt has curated a powerful testament to the human spirit’s capacity to heal. This book doesn’t force forgiveness upon you; it simply, and powerfully, holds the door open, allowing you to walk through in your own time, lighter and more whole than you arrived.

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Hello fellow members of The R-Bookclub CR!

It has been a privilege to share thoughtful discussions, diverse perspectives, and a genuine love of literature with all of you throughout the year 2025. May the coming year bring you meaningful stories, enriching conversations, and continued connection within our community.

Wishing each member of our Book Club a very Happy New Year. Let’s continue to shine our light in 2026!

Thank you for your dedication, insight, and enthusiasm. I look forward to another year of reading and learning together.

Happy New Year to all!

Warmest regards,
Amkay Mafkil

✨ Merry Christmas, Radiant Friends and Family ✨
As we gather around this season of light, joy, and reflection, I want to extend my warmest wishes to each of you. Our club has become more than a group—it’s a community of hearts, ideas, and shared growth.

May this Christmas fill your homes with peace, your hearts with gratitude, and your days with moments that remind you of what truly matters. Thank you for the laughter, the conversations, the support, and the spirit you bring to our circle.

Here’s to a season of rest, renewal, and radiant hope.
Merry Christmas, and may the new year bring even more connection, inspiration, and joy to us all.
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