09/08/2025
"Sharing" this for all of you parents of littles.
I am often told, "My kid just won't share!"
Yep, they shouldn't really know how at their age.
Like anything else, sharing is a skill that has to be taught, but your toddler and early preschooler may literally not understand that sharing is kind, and that they WILL get that item back.
At this age, their brain says that the world is only related to their perspective. It is an ego-centric stage of life. (* Let's hope all of us adults have moved past this!*) You child's POV is:
"If I see it, it's mine."
"If I want it, it's mine."
"If I set it down, forget about it, and then come back for it, but someone else has the audacity to have it, IT'S MINE!"
Teach your child to trade. Use a timer to show when it's time for someone else's turn. Reaffirm that they will get it back, and follow through until they get another turn.
🧸 Let’s Talk About Sharing (Without Saying “Sharing is Caring”)
Toddlers aren’t “bad at sharing” — they’re just egocentric, which is totally normal.
Their brains are still learning how to wait, how to empathize, and how to understand someone else’s point of view.
✨ Best tip I can give you for a toddler classroom? Have multiples of popular toys. It’s not “spoiling” — it’s supporting development. Because when you remove the fight for one single item, you create more space for play, connection, and peace.
Model turn-taking. Acknowledge feelings. Set gentle limits.
But don’t expect toddlers to share like adults — they’re not there yet. And that’s okay. 💛 Sometimes....I don't even share! 😆