10/22/2020
THE MORE I HEAL, THE MORE I GET TO REVEAL MY TRUE SELF.
Quick Walk down memory lane on my spiritual awakening journey.
One night at a wedding 3 years ago I was sharing with I was going to be a life coach.
The woman across from me said: “Really? I thought life coaches had to be like really good and successful at life?”
I was crushed.
My deepest fear was revealed. That I had no business becoming a coach, because I had not, by anyone’s standards been a “success” in my life.
The truth is, pretty much every area of life from relationships, to addictions, to money and career had experienced some major upsets.
So, how could I possibly help anyone?!
The truth is: all of my downfalls have made me a MUCH better coach.
In many ways, I now coach all of the people I was over the last 6 years.
🌙The woman who struggles with money.
🌙The woman who struggles with Identity (as you can see I have tried in several).
🌙The woman who will lay down her life to be liked.
🌙The woman who thinks over working = being liked + validation
🌙The woman who can’t sleep at night cause she’s so worried everything she’s earned will disappear over night.
And as I’ve healed these parts of me, the survival patterns and fears I picked up in childhood, the ACTUAL childhood version of me gets to be revealed.
The child that knows she’s loved by god.
The child that knows she safe to play, sing and dance in the world.
And the child that knows it’s safe to say no and draw a boundary.
I’ve let go of MANY of the masculine identities I’ve used to protect myself from harm.
🏋️♀️The over exerciser
🧝♀️The holier than though spiritual guide
🙋🏼♂️The jock/success fiend
🧘♀️The vegan yogi preacher
In order to reveal the soft, Disney movie loving, silly dance partying, relaxed in to life version of me.
It’s not perfect but perfect is when you’re dead :)
Love ❤️ to you.
10/20/2020
The truth is my dog wears the pants in our relationship.
I adopted Melvin when he was 6 months old after having beers at lunch with my Aunt.
He cost $50 and came with food and medicine.
For some reason they gave him to me on the spot with no background check.
I rushed him home and whipped open my laptop.
Google: How long do pit bulls live??
14yrs.
Now that Melvin is 11.5 and entering his achy senior years, I can’t believe how far he’s travelled with me.
Every decision I’ve ever made professionally and home-wise has been around him and his needs.
He’s been my healer, my best-friend, my child, and sometimes has felt like a parent :)
He gets gruff when I pace back and for a half hour looking for everything I need!
Dogs can be a woman’s best friend too.
He’s my whole heart ♥️
Now 14 years seems like no time at all.
I can’t imagine falling asleep without his breathing beside me.
We don’t deserve dogs!!!
10/18/2020
It’s the one year anniversary of filing the LLC for my coaching biz and I’ve decided to do a along with my Selling with Soul team about my 1st full year in business.
Truth #1: Last year after getting let go from my job, I thought I might be delusional to try to start my coaching business again.
Honestly, this wasn’t the first start at becoming a full time coach.
🙋🏽♀️ It’s my 3rd attempt.
👉🏽 People say follow your heart and the money will come.
I have found that to be only partially true. You have to support yourself financially until your dream actually works.
👉🏽 Following your heart takes just as much work as anything else -> and the inner work is the most important thing you can do.
👉🏽 It took me years of healing my own past to be able to support others in their healing journey, and I’m so grateful I took the time.
Swipe left to see one of the business plans I wrote back in 2017!
I am doing everything in that plan now but, without laying the foundation (spiritually, mentally, emotionally) I couldn’t hold the space that I can now!!
So if you’re reading this far and you know you want to go after your dream biz, go for it!! And also know that it will kick the s**t out of you, and you’ll be happy, and weary, and tired, and excited, and mopey, and broke sometimes.
But you’ll have created something new in the world, and fulfilled your self expression, and that is worth the effort.
10/13/2020
YOUR COACHING BIZ IS NOT DOING AS WELL AS IT COULD .... WHY?
👉🏽 CAUSE YOU’RE AFRAID OF PEOPLE.
Story time:
I WISH you could see from my side of the zoom screen how many AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL + TALENTED people come through with the same problems:
⭐️ “If I put my business out there on social media, I’m afraid I’ll be judged, or will fail and then will be permanently humiliated.”
⭐️ “If I sell to someone and ask for thousands of dollars, what if I disappoint them?!”
⭐️ “If I actually decide that I have a business and get clear on my offers - what If someone says I’m crazy and laughs at me or tells me I’m doing it wrong?!”
Guys what if?!
💥Who are these people lurking in the shadows of social media waiting to tear your dreams down?! 💥
The essence of this problem is that we are replaying a scenario from childhood, either where our parents scared us or criticized us, or some middle school bully shattered our confidence, and now we project this trauma out in to our WHOLE WORLD.
👉🏽 Swipe Left to Read the entire caption!!
⚡️⚡️Selling with Soul Course Starts Friday!!⚡️⚡️
Sign up for your Disco Call at the Link in my Bio!!
10/08/2020
I hate to say it, but what changed the game for me in my coaching business was hiring a good coach.
I know it's EXTREMELY cliche.
+ But, I didn't have the confidence to ask for high-ticket payments from clients until I did it myself.
+ I didn't actually know ANYTHING about how to market my coaching business online, even though I had been a marketing director at 2 different companies.
+ My consistency in showing up on social media was absolute Sh*t before I hired a coach to help me work through my mindset blocks around being seen.
Here's the truth.
+ I was getting in m own way because I thought "I could handle everything myself" - a lifelong motto.
+ I was going broke doing it my way (my first 2 months in business I made a wopping $800/mo).
+ I was honestly sinking in to depression and scanning job listings wondering if I made a mistake.
Then I took a chance on myself and decided to invest the equivalent of my rent payment in a coach.
I was s**t scared.
But I made that money back in 48 hours of signing with her.
Then, I turned around and had my best month in sales ever during a pandemic.
Lesson here: It takes doing the OPPOSITE action when you are afraid and backed in to a corner to have a massive breakthrough financially.
My mind made up every excuse in the book as to why my choice to invest in myself was irrational.
So if you are out of excuses and you are ready to close out 2020 with a BANG as a coach, would you join me for my coaching Sales Accelerator Course starting next week?!
Selling with Soul is the group course for coaches ready to break out of scarcity and in to ease + flow with their money + show up with confidence in their sales.
If this sounds like you, join my my Free info class this Saturday at 1PM!
Link in Bio!
09/24/2020
What does a fight you had with your sister in the 5th grade have to do with your Sales as a coach?
Actually, everything.
Story time: our subconscious limiting beliefs about what we deserve to have in this life in the way of abundance are created EARLY on in life.
If you look at our education system, we are never taught personal finance, it’s not required high school or college curriculum.
So all the beliefs you’ve gathered about money, on a subconscious level, are rooted in childhood.
That’s right!
Other coaches might tell you that what you’re lacking in your is strategy, and while strategy is important, it is 10% of the actual game when it comes to showing up confidently and asking for what you deserve in terms of pricing for your work.
The other 90% comes from what you believe you get to have in your relationship with money.
Don’t take if from me:
🔮 Laura L. Hit her first 10k month after we unblocked a memory she had stored about abandoning her brother if she reached too much financial success.
🔮 Kate F. Tripled her sales in Real Estate within 30 days of us discovering that she had developed a fear in childhood that her dad wouldn’t love her if she became one of the Rich people he so often despised!
🔮Kyley C. 3x’d her sales bringing in 15k in 2 weeks time once we discovered that she had a childhood belief that being wealthy made you a bad person.
👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼
None of these women thought they had any limiting beliefs around money on a conscious level!
So - if you’re ready to unblock your money mindset and double your sales this fall, I have a program for you!!
It’s called:
Selling with Soul💸
During this 3 mos course you will receive deep money + success unblocking methods, premium sales training for high ticket + so much more.
Get on my cal if you’re ready for your sales uplevel!
Link in Bio!!
09/04/2020
Hi Loves!
Join me tomorrow, Sat, September 5th for a Group Channeled Reading!
We will start at 1PM ET.
This month’s collective message is on the energy of Freedom.
Link in Bio to Register!
08/03/2020
LIGHT WORKERS LEADERSHIP PROGRAM STARTS TOMORROW!!!
I’m so freaking psyched for this high vibe group to start to scale their dream work online!!
I’ve poured every ounce of knowledge I’ve gathered into this jam packed premium course.
We will be covering:
💥IG for Ideal Client Attraction
💥FB Strategies for Quick 🤑 Scaling
💥Attracting High-Ticket Clients
💥Crafting + Pricing Your Offers
This course is designed specifically for the challenges that Intuitives, Energy Healers and Coaches may face in calling in what they’re worth online!!
So if you or someone you know is ready to start their freedom based business:
What are you waiting for?!
Sign up for a Discovery Call at the Link in my Bio!!
@ Brooklyn, New York
08/02/2020
CLASS MEMBERS FOR THE LIGHT WORKERS LEADERSHIP PROGRAM ARE LOOKING 🔥
Swipe to view 2020 Enrollment!
⏱There’s less than 48 Hours To Register for this Magical 8-Week Program that will Kick Start Your Online Money Making Career as a LightWorker!
⭐️ Do you feel called to lead in 2020?
🌟 Do you have a special gift that you have been hiding from the world that needs to be shared in these times of chaos and unrest?
⭐️ Can you help someone cope with trauma, stress, depression or anxiety during these times?
I’ve created a program specifically for you to get support with all the fears that come up with coming out of the spiritual closet + super practical online business strategy advice to get you growing and scaling your beautiful work online!!
Check the link in my bio to learn more!!
💗
@ Brooklyn, New York
07/30/2020
IF YOU FEEL CALLED TO STEP UP AND LEAD IN THESE TIMES, PLEASE COME TO MY TALK TONIGHT AT 5PM WHERE I’LL BE SHARING MY STORY AND VISION WITH MY PUBLIC SPEAKING COMMUNITY, FEARLESS FORCE!
I used a black and white photo on the spirit of the current Instagram wave. I resisted doing this challenge because honestly, posting a photo is too easy!!
We as women in America have the luxury of speaking up, sharing our voice and starting businesses that can change e world.
And that is what I invite you to lean in to i these times!
This photo below is the MOST embodied I’ve ever been. In recline mode. In my overalls. Grass fed. Running my own business. Newly an activist and an activator.
Leading from a place of Love both for myself and others.
This is NOT where I started.
Swipe to read the preview for the talk! @ Brooklyn, New York