Korrabells Playhouse, Preschool and daycare

“Children who are apologized to, learn how to apologize.” J. Milburn ⁣⁣
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I am asked quite frequently how we teach children to feel remorse. I don’t think we really teach remorse, I think it’s intrinsic. I think we can be taught shame and guilt which looks a lot like remorse but is much harder on us from a psychological perspective. Offering genuine apologies to your children, letting them see you apologize with grace and humility, when you hurt someone else, is how we teach what to DO with our feelings of remorse. They will experience feelings of remorse, it’s what meaning they make of it, what they do with it. Do they feel so much shame they shut down, struggle to express their remorse? Do they become a puddle of shame, apologizing and apologizing, fearing upsetting others? Or do they feel and then express genuine remorse? Able to move on… rupture and repair. ⁣⁣
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Finding Your Calm: A Responsive Parents Guide to Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation⁣⁣
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HAPPY 18 BIRTHDAY to MY NEFEW KEIN

Some of us are watch the boys at Edgewood play baseball

Playing with legos helps s children develop fine motor, cognitive, and social skills not to mention it strengthens their imaginary play. Josie is building a car garage with a slide, Trace is building a dinosaur park. And Zoe is just learning to snap them together

Watching a scrimmage baseball game at Edgewood High School

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