07/13/2026
Most sessions with our clients start too fast.
The client arrives carrying everything from their day. The traffic they encountered this morning, the difficult conversation with a spouse or co-worker, the thing they haven’t resolved yet but were up thinking about at 3AM on a dreamless night.
The whole day has been urgent and in our work, we reinforce that by moving straight into it as if they have already landed in a space ready to open up.
They haven’t and to be honest, neither have we. We too have been caught in our own traffic, our own difficult conversations, and our nervous systems carry in the baggage alongside our clients.
The nervous system, theirs and ours, needs a moment to register that it is safe enough to be here.
That it can set down the vigilance it has been carrying. That this room, this person, this hour is different from everything that came before it.
Orienting is how we give it that moment. A genuine invitation for the body to arrive before the work begins.
When a client’s eyes move slowly around the room and their breath deepens on its own, something has shifted in their autonomic state that no amount of talking could have produced.
The session that follows that moment is a different session entirely. If you want to understand what is actually happening in your clients’ bodies before you say a word, the August cohort of Attachment + Somatics begins August 7th.
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