Arya Yaguareté

Do you struggle to show up in your biz? And hold back on sharing what you really want to say?

This whole entrepreneurship thing is super confronting. You have to face yourself in so many ways...the insecurities, the self-doubt, the trying to stay motivated and make all the decisions!

So yes, there's the strategy and knowing what to do, but imagine you felt confident and trusted in all your decisions?

Imagine that instead of hesitating and overthinking what to post, you created what you felt inspired to and then released attachment to the results?

This Wednesday I am hosting a *free masterclass* to take you through how to move through the self-doubt and sabotage into showing up more confidently and freely in your business and life.

Strategy is 20% of what will make your business succeed...your inner world is the other 80%.

Save your spot 👇
https://arya.myflodesk.com/unapologetic

✋ I had to interrupt the pattern

When I declared that I am ready to receive and be in abundance, I could not continue my scrappy work-my-ass-off ways.

When you declare that you want something in your life, the Universe is ready to abide. 💫
�And what you’ll often have to be faced with in the process of receiving it are all the ways you block yourself from receiving exactly what you want.

Some call it self sabotage, I call it a gift. 💝

If you are calling in more love, but as it approaches you criticize it and wish it looked different…then you are not letting in what you desire.
�If you desire more adventure and play in your life, but then prioritize work and responsibilities over going out into the world…then you are blocking what you want.

If you’ve asked the Universe for more wealth and expansion in your life, but refuse to show up in making it happen…then it won’t.

{{You manifesting is a collaborative dance with the Universe.}}

It shows you and tries to give you what you want, but it’s up to you to say yes to it…to accept it. 🤲

I have been calling in a trip for my birthday for 4 years. This year it showed up as a gift to me, and I said, “no” because it felt irresponsible to go.

Luckily through the wise support of my friends and my own awareness that I actually really wanted to be there, I was able to change my mind and still get to go.

And with that trip, I experienced so much joy, connection, clarity, healing…❤️‍🔥

And although my mind thought it was a financial irresponsible decision to go, when I committed, two new 1:1 clients came through. 🍇

Your job isn’t to become more responsible, because you likely already are. (No matter what your ego says.)

Your job is to live more fully, let go of the reigns of control and trust that everything you desire is coming your way.

You get to step up and bring into the world what your heart feels called to…AND let go of how your goals and dreams will manifest.

The more you LIVE, the more your business will grow, because true wealth and freedom are generated from within. 💃🏻

And when you access those within yourself by being a YES to really living freely and expansively, then your outer world becomes a match for it.

I am offering 8 complimentary 1:1 Breakthrough Sessions for Soulpreneurs.

Bring a block / situation that you’re facing in your business and we will create an aligned and abundant solution you can implement immediately.

COMMENT “I want a breakthrough!” to book yours! 🚀

What if the reason you’re not showing up consistently online isn’t that you’re lazy, but it’s because there’s a part of you who’s terrified of rejection.

(I know, it sounds deep, but your resistance to posting isn’t due to a personality flaw, but something much deeper.)

Luckily, there’s a way to change this ↓

The best investment I ever made in my business was the work I did on myself.

❤️I never ever would have been able to sell an $11k offer…
❤️Have people travel across the continent for a retreat…
❤️Take massive risks, go broke and then bounce back…
❤️Pay for my own travels to different parts of the world…
And so much more.

I’ve seen the coolest things from women who have trusted me enough to go on their own reclamation journeys.

I’ve watched them:
🐆 Launch their own businesses
🐆 Become attuned to their own bodies and emotions
🐆 Create more time and wealth freedom in their lives
🐆 Choose themselves over draining relationships and situations
🐆 Follow their passions unabashedly and watch their followings grow

❤️‍🔥They’ve embraced their truth and become more confident in their own abilities, gifts and intuitions.

THE EXACT STEPS FOR OVERCOMING SELF-SABOTAGE:

1️⃣ Identifying where you lack trust + confidence in yourself

2️⃣ Reclaiming your power from your toughest life’s experiences

3️⃣ Letting go of what’s been blocking you + creating new possibilities

4️⃣ Meeting and embracing your most authentic self

5️⃣ Owning your needs + allowing your emotions to heal you

6️⃣ Embracing your pleasure + freeing yourself of the hold of shame

7️⃣ Rising your vibration in becoming a magnet for your desires

8️⃣ Feeling in your body what it’s like to be the woman who has it all

In the Reclamation of You, I lead you through this exact process ⬆️ that transformed my own life, plus the lives of many other women. 💃

You in your confidence + radiance will bring your biz to a level you’ve never seen before!

✅ COMMENT “CONFIDENCE” and I’ll send you access on how to do this for yourself and break free!

Can’t wait for you to join a community of women who are reclaiming their power, inspiration and making big positive impacts in the world!

What helped me create consistency in my biz…

I bet you wish you posted more often, but instead you remember the last time you tried and it took you hours to create one reel that then flopped…and you don't even know what to talk about or how to do it in a way that will actually get people engaging and/or buying from you.

Social media can be a mind f*ck for entrepreneurs and yet, there's a ton of opportunity in it.

Majority of my clients have come through organic social media content. They haven't come from me showing up as some perfect got it altogether brand, but as a human who has lived the transformation she offers.

Creating a social media presence that makes you money while fitting your lifestyle IS possible and that freedom you're craving, you can have now.

Tomorrow I will be teaching a small group of badass entrepreneurs how to get the attention, engagement and investment of their dream clients.

You'll walk away with 30 content ideas, clarity on your pillars and how to use your channel to sell.

There are a few remaining spots left. Claim yours.

👉Comment below to get the details👈

things you can do right now
TO FEEL MORE CONFIDENT
as an entrepreneur:

↓↓↓↓

Do this when you’re feeling insecure…

You are upholding yourself to some serious high standards…
you know that right?

When you keep comparing yourself to Kelly who’s been doing this for years and has a photography background…

Or over focusing on how you didn’t sell out your recent offer.

Now that’s just setting yourself up for a nervous system freeze aka an evening of doom scrolling.

If I went from cringing every time I went live to speaking on stage in front of 50 people…you can too!

(If that’s what you want.)

The key to boosting your confidence levels and being your own freaking cheerleader is:

🐆001. Being in the GAIN. In other words, not comparing yourself to where you want to be, but looking at how far you’ve come. Your journey to getting here is what will make people want to work with you, because you can help them do the same!

💃002. Start an ego booster note in your phone. Put every nice text, customer testimonial and anything that makes you feel good (including hot pics of yourself) in that note. Then when you’re feeling low, you go spend time in it. And yes, this includes screenshooting positive comments or sales notifications you’ve received.

🔥003. Get grounded in reality through your body. Notice what happens in your body when you resist showing up. The sensations + emotions are clues showing you what you’re really afraid of. Is the catastrophe you’re imaging really going to happen? If nobody buys, will you actually end up on the streets? Connect with reality and soothe your scared inner child.

In my course The Reclamation of You, I take you through a felt body-led experience of connecting with your true self and bringing her confidently forward. ✅

There is a past version of me who’d never believe that I help women embody their confident fierce selves.
�That version of me has braces,
A protruding belly (still got it),
And listens to hard rock.

She hates her body…
Wants to hide as much as she can…
And her only solace are the fantasies in her head.

There’s another version of her…
The one that decided that if she could look good,
Then she’d be good.

She has extensions in her hair,
Layers of makeup,
And counts every fry she ingests.

Then there are the many versions in-between.

The ones who’s emotions ran the show…
Who chased boys and external validation to somewhat feel worthy.
�There’s the high achiever who pushed to grow faster and faster, although secretly never feeling good enough.

All these versions visit me often.
Whispering their stories of why I should hide, quit or adapt.

I welcome them with warmth,
Hold their tender broken hearts in my hands,
And tell them, “I love you as you are.”

You likely have these same versions within you.
Perhaps one of them feels more present at the moment.

Now the trick is to love these versions of yourself without letting them take the steering wheel.

Because there is also a version of you that knows she’s good at what she does.

That has seen evidence of people’s lives being positively impacted.

She knows what she wants and her purpose on this planet.

And when you let that expanded version of you lead, then life changes into a game of expansion and growth.

What was once unachievable is now where you’re headed.

And instead of labeling dreams as too big, you’re more concerned about living a life that’s too small.

Remember to love all versions of yourself, for they are all a part of who you are. ❤️‍🔥

📸 alexandrareillyphoto

There’s something profound that happens when you embrace your BIG VISION SELF...

You stop settling.

You stop letting your needs run the show.

You step into an existence that is activated by your desires and wants.

What used to feel “too big” is now what you plugged into your life’s navigation.

Your biggest dreams become probable.

You shift everything you do to take you there.

You stop worrying about “safe” and “easy”, and instead focus on “exciting” and “provocative”.

And with that your life begins to shift…

Miracles and unexpected surprises come seemingly out of nowhere.

Things that at one point you didn’t think were possible become your norm.

You begin seeing yourself in whole news ways.

Your dreams grow even bigger and more expansive.

📸 by Andrea Helleman

Don’t know what to post today?

I bet you didn’t think it's because of this this…

I was shocked too….

Creating content for Instagram only sometimes comes easy for me…

I am highly sensitive, very emotional and super attuned to my body.

�What does that mean?

�It’s very hard for me to show up, when I am not feeling good or grounded.

I used to think there was something wrong with me…

But what I know the truth.

The ease at which any of my marketing comes up for me changes, depending on where I am in my menstrual cycle.

�When I bleed…I am creative af and the ideas just flow.
When I am ovulating…I just want to make talking head videos.
When I am in my luteal stage…I rather do voice over content.

Your hormone levels impact all of these things…

AND here’s the good news:

The more you can plan your content WITH your cycle and its various stages, the easier it’ll all feel.

It works for me and it works for my clients.

Because the second you throw out the expectations around how society tells you to show up and instead embrace your unique rhythm…you will finally feel in flow!

COMMENT “IN FLOW” and I’ll send you free access to my live training on marketing WITH your cycle.

Lots of love,
Arya

Hear me out…

Do you ever have those days or weeks where you just can’t show up online? 😥

You want to market yourself…
Share your offerings with the world…
But something stops you?

Maybe it’s low energy, not feeling good enough, overwhelm…😵‍💫

But then there are other days and weeks where you feel like it comes easier to you? 💃

Where what kept you from acting before, is not an issue anymore?

➡️ This is because you’re on a infradian rhythm aka a monthly cycle.
�So every day, as the month progresses, your hormone levels are changing, and with that, your physical, emotional and mental functions are impacted. 📈

As your estrogen increases, as you approach ovulation, you feel more confident, it’s easier to create content, show up live…

Then your progesterone goes up, and you get more sensitive, begin doubting yourself and marketing (not to mention life) just feels harder.

🕰️ Meanwhile our society (and men) are built around a circadian rhythm, which is on a 24-hour clock.

So as women, we’re expected to show up the same every day.
And that’s just not possible…

So THIS is what you want to do:
✅ Track your menstrual cycle - get clear on where you are in it at all times, so you can better understand YOURSELF and your personal rhythm

✅ Notice how you feel when (physically, emotionally, mentally), so you can work with these stages

✅ Build your marketing strategy around your cycle - this means, you’ll get to show up when your hormones are supportive of it (and don’t worry there are benefits to all parts of your cycle)

✅ Download my free Conscious Marketing Calendar (to help you plan your marketing around your cycle)

✅✅✅ COMMENT “IN FLOW” to get access to my free LIVE training on how to get in flow in your marketing and finally seeing the results you’ve been craving!

The year is almost over and while everyone is worrying about what Christmas gifts to buy, I am building a stellar marketing strategy for 2024.

Join me.

Imagine how much more restful and enjoyable the holidays will be knowing you have your 2024 plan on lock?

These are the steps you want to take to get yourself prepared for the year to come 👇

1️⃣Get super clear on who you’re here to help and how. The nitty gritty of what they lose sleep over, what they make Pinterest boards for, where they dream of vacationing, what they complain about to their friends).
�The better you know your dream clients, the more effectively you’ll be able to sell to them.

2️⃣Write out your goals. I have been studying manifesting, just as long as I’ve been in the marketing world, we’re talking 20+ years. The CLEARER you are on what you want, the REALER it feels to you…the sooner it’ll come.

You want to know what your financial goals are (monthly, quarterly, and yearly), how many clients you’ll have, what people will experience by working with you). This is where you want to include the IMPACT you’re here to have.

3️⃣Why YOU are the answer. Connect the dots for yourself (and eventually for them.) How can you relate to your dream client’s experiences? How did you move through the same challenges they’re having and what solutions did you create?

4️⃣List out your offerings. What are your products and services? What are you launching this year? What will you charge?

(Remember your income goals, as well as your capacity. Make sure what you build is supportive of YOU.)

5️⃣Create a calendar you can follow. This calendar should have everything you plan on doing this year.

Your personal plans come first…(vacations, birthdays, etc.)
Your business plans come second…

It’s where you lay out each launch, the frequency of your content (i.e. 1 x podcast per week, 3 x emails, 5 x posts)

SAVE this and put it into action.

Want to make this even easier on yourself? Do 1 or both of these things:

✅Comment “EASY” for my 2024 customizable marketing calendar

✅✅Message me to inquire about booking a 1:1 2024 Marketing Strategy Session with me, from which I can guarantee you’ll walk away feeling psyched and clear af for your 2024 plan.

👁👁👁👇

Hello light beam,
�You’re over here trying to share your magic with the world, but when it comes to inviting people to buy, you get awkward…

Your voice stutters..
You question yourself…
You wish you could just avoid selling altogether.

But you also know that if you don’t sell, then less people will invest.

And if less people invest, then less people are getting the help they need and desire.

So the next time you feel like you might throw up 🤢 before promoting your services online, try this approach…

⚡️ Remind yourself that you have EVIDENCE that you know wtf you’re talking about (your own journey is one key example of that)

❤️ Get yourself pumped around the value you offer by thinking of a recent time where that was validated and then…

⚡️ Speak directly to the person you’re here to help.

❤️ Speak to their pain, their desires and show them that you understand them by…

⚡️ Sharing a vulnerable story of how you’ve shared a similar experience…

❤️ And how show them how you overcame it by using your expertise and knowledge, then…

⚡️ Invite them into a journey where they can experience this for themselves...

❤️ Through an exercise, tip, freebie or paid offering.

There is a formula to heart-led selling that works and doesn’t feel gross.

COMMENT “YES” to attend my free masterclass (happening 9/13) to learn how to sell in a way that feels like a yes in your body and theirs.

Did you save this post? You’ll likely want to come back to it in those 🥺 scary selling moments.

You got this!

Xoxo
Arya