Untamed Intimacy

F*ck doing relationships the way they tell us we “should…”

manian and I decided to make our own rules and do what works for us.

Recently, we moved out of the big, beautiful house we shared and decided to live separately – a move that completely upends the conventional trajectory of relationships.

Why?

1). Because we fkn felt like it

And

2). Because we both knew with every cell in our bodies that this was the next right move to take our intimacy, play, and adventure to the next level.

We’ve spent the last 3 years doing some intensely transformative work on ourselves and our relationship, and now it’s time to integrate these lessons in our own spaces, as we reignite the energy of novelty, flirtation, and affection.

By no means was this an easy decision to make…

Together, we’ve felt grief, sorrow, sadness, anger, excitement, joy, and total alignment

We’re mourning the loss of one life and way of living and relating to each other, while authoring the next chapter of our lives minute by minute, hand in hand.

I feel beyond the moon GRATEFUL that we’re moving through this transition with such sweetness, tenderness, and curiosity.

I gotta be honest, for such a major move, we’ve navigated it with a hell of a lot of authenticity and elegance. I’m so proud!

Y’all, we’re doing things a little “out of order…”

We’re 3 years into our mad love affair and we’re honeymooning hard!

I’ve never felt more adored and appreciated by my man, as I find myself in a pleasure-filled space of deep devotion to myself, to him, and to our relationship.

Our love has transformed my life into a poetic ballad, full of every emotion and sensation…

I’ve never felt more attuned to my body and emotions and I’ve never been more TURNED ON!

Get ready babes, cuz a woman who’s turned on lights the world on fire!

XO,

.manian and I are the kind of couple that likes to KISS & TELL…

We want to let you in on everything that’s been happening behind the scenes in our love life & with exciting upcoming offerings!

And more importantly, we want to show you how to create Untamed Intimacy in your relationship, so you can experience:
✔️ Open, authentic communication
✔️ Less conflict & more harmony
✔️ More connected, pleasure-filled s.ex
✔️ The feeling of being appreciated & recognized
✔️ A relationship that refuels you (vs. drains you)
✔️ & SO much more!

We are beyond EXCITED to announce exactly how you can create all this (and more) in your relationship!

Stay tuned over these next few weeks for more juicy details!❤️

Who here has ever experienced a challenging dynamic in their relationship? 🙋🏽‍♀️

If you’re currently in or have been in a deeply connected romantic partnership, then you know that along with the wonderful moments, there are also moments where you feel frustrated, angry, and annoyed. It can seem as if your partner knows exactly what buttons to push…

In this episode, I’m going to walk you through a powerful process that allows you to single-handedly overcome challenging dynamics in your relationship, no matter how long you’ve been together or how many times the same dynamic has repeated itself.

Ready to walk beyond the challenge and into open-hearted love??

▪️ Here’s what you’ll get the scoop on:
▪️ How to collapse an old relationship dynamic & create a completely new one (all by yourself)
▪️ The mistake that most people make (that you may be making too) that keeps people stuck in conflict and separation
▪️ A new mindset that will shift everything in your relationship
▪️ The 7 key steps to overcoming a challenging dynamic

LINK IN BIO TO GET ALL THE JUICE!

Coming in hot this week to talk about what a conscious power partnership ACTUALLY means and how to create it. No buzzwords or vagueness here; we’re giving you a roadmap you can use to create this for yourself RIGHT NOW!

One thing you can bet on with a conscious partnership is that it’s going to bring everything to the surface...The purpose of this kind of relationship is to shine light on the aspects of you (and your partner) that have been sitting in the shadows, so they can be loved on and integrated. Thus, a conscious partnership doesn’t necessarily mean you never have conflict or challenge. In fact, this kind of connection will call you forth to your highest potential, which can sometimes feel challenging.

This episode is packed full of tools and examples that will help you transform the way you handle conflict and challenging situations. You’ll have the perspective you need to begin to shift the way you show up in your relationships.



What you’ll learn from this episode:

❤️ What a conscious partnership IS and IS NOT: we debunk the myths about it being “sunshine and rainbows” all the time
❤️ How to intentionally navigate challenging situations in order to create more intimacy
❤️ How to recognize, create intimacy with, and resolve your triggers
❤️ Powerful practices Ani and I use to stay connected, even when conflict arises
❤️ A roadmap for creating your very own conscious partnership, even if you’re single!

Buckle up, because in this episode, we spill the beans on some of our most challenging moments and how we ultimately figured out how to transform our conflict into connection.

What you’ll learn from this episode:

❤️ How our relationship dynamics with our parents led us to create dysfunctional patterns in all of our romantic relationships, including our relationship with each other
❤️ The core beliefs each of us held that kept us from creating a healthy, functional relationship + kept us stuck, frustrated, and feeling like we wanted to give up on relationships altogether
❤️ How we used each other and our relationship to resolve the core wounds from our childhoods that was ruining our relationship
❤️ Radical reframes that will completely shift how you view yourself and your partners, so you can create a relationship by design vs. recreating old, unhealthy patterns
❤️ The exact methods we used to overcome our deepest relational struggles and create the power couple partnership we have today

We're excited to announce we're starting up the episodes again! To kick things off, we are going to tell you the story of how we met and how I knew, on that day, that he was the man I had been asking for....

This isn’t just any love story...we’ve gone through a MASSIVE transformation full of ups and downs, in order to create the deep and powerful love we have now and we use that journey + decades of studying, learning & coaching to support others in creating a power couple partnership of their very own!

listen to the Untamed Intimacy podcast via the link in our bio or anywhere you listen to podcasts

𝗪𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘀𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗹𝘆 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱-𝗯𝗹𝗼𝘄𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁-𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗲𝘅? 🤯💓⁣
⁣
Start by cultivating deep emotional & psychological safety within (& with partners)…⁣
⁣
𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗮𝗳𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺:⁣
⁣
❤️Treating yourself  with grace & compassion⁣
⁣
❤️ Inviting yourself into growth & expansion (vs. using judgement or criticism as a way to force a change)⁣
⁣
❤️ Developing deep levels of presence & unconditional love with your thoughts & emotions⁣
⁣
❤️ Becoming aware of your needs, boundaries & desires⁣
⁣
❤️ Clearly communicating your needs, boundaries & desires⁣
⁣
❤️ Being unwavering in your commitment to the above⁣
⁣
We all want the “sexy, feel-good sex…”⁣
⁣
And I’m telling you, the way to get there is by creating safety. ⁣
⁣
𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘴𝘢𝘧𝘦, 𝘸𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯. ⁣
⁣
𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯, 𝘸𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘧𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘦. ⁣
⁣
Here’s to your pleasure & mine! 💦 ⁣
⁣
XO,⁣
⁣
Lee

𝗜𝗳 𝗜 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝘂𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁, 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗯𝗲 𝗺𝘆 𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗶𝗴𝗻 𝘀𝗹𝗼𝗴𝗮𝗻…⁣
⁣
I’m pretty sure it would work and that you would absolutely watch me cause a ruckus in the White House 😂 ⁣
⁣
In all seriousness though, I honestly feel that this idea is more profound than it seems…⁣
⁣
What if we lived in a world where people were connected to their sexual energy, their desires, kinks, preferences, needs, boundaries, fears & insecurities…?⁣
⁣
What if we didn’t have to hide parts of ourselves or feel ashamed about our pasts or the kinds of things we like? ⁣
⁣
What if we celebrated our pleasure and used it as a way to connect with ourselves and others?!⁣
⁣
Pretty radical idea, right…?⁣
⁣
But really, it’s not…⁣
⁣
It’s such an ordinary thought, that it becomes the “best kept secret” that’s hiding in plain sight…⁣
⁣
manian and I are here radically resurrect this idea, as we invite others into their deepest pleasure, love & connection. ⁣
⁣
So here it is folks, the best advice I could ever give…⁣
⁣
“F*CK MORE. ARGUE LESS.” ⁣
⁣
💥 ⁣
⁣
Ladies, if you’re ready to drop the complexity of all the inner work you think you “need” to do and are ready CLAIM yourself, love, intimacy, connection, pleasure, and PARTNERSHIP [𝗡𝗢𝗪], visit www.BecomeTheHP.com or click the link in my bio to learn about how we can help you do just that! 💋 ♥️🌹