08/20/2021
Lessons from the 64 squares...
"It is the greatest achievement of a teacher to enable his students to surpass him."- John G. Kemeny
I am a NOTORIOUSLY competitive individual, especially when it comes to chess. When I'm giving lessons, I want my students to understand what we are studying and how to get the win, so I play loosely and not as harshly. However, once it is test time and they have to play with no assistance, I take the gloves off and play as competitive as I can. I do this, not to embarrass or belittle them or to puff my chest out. No, I want them to EARN the win.
My students know early on that 1 of 2 things will happen when they sit at a chess table: you will win...or you will learn. We all take "Ls". It's a part of life. But when they finally get that W. When they can look across the table as I lay my king down, they will know that they have earned every molecule of the pride that they are feeling.
Don't shirk the lessons. Don't duck the hard work because you don't wanna feel the sting of the "L". Remember: that win you so desperately seek is right behind that "L" you are scared to take.
This post is dedicated to one of my longest running students who, after numerous Ls, got...no, EARNED her first solo checkmate against me the other day! TC, I am extremely proud of you! You are NOTG personified, on AND off the board.