01/09/2022
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Messages about consent and bodily autonomy start early, before the conversation is even about s*x.
It happens in how caregivers and strangers interact with a child— whether they demand affection from them or ask permission.
It happens when siblings play— Are their screaming no’s and stop’s respected or ignored?
It happens when they’re told to take another bite of food or not leave the table until their plate is empty— even though they’ve expressed what their body has told them, that they’ve had enough.
It happens when they observe boundary violations between others— parents, characters on television, in video games, or on YouTube.
Kids are learning everyday about consent. It’s important that parents and caregivers are initiating talks, being responsive to curiosities, modeling consent, and using teachable moments as opportunities. It’s not too early or too late to better understand, via actions and words, what healthy consent and boundaries should look and feel like. What they internalize carries forward in how they perceive their voice, their body, their rights, and in how they receive and respect the boundaries of others.