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You aren’t a problem.

You don’t have to accept a 6/10 life.

ESPECIALLY, when Christ died for your to experience so much good on earth.

When you bravely share your truth, that you believe there is more for you, I’ll meet you there.

I’ll stand with you.

Then we will go get more-together.

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EXHALE.

"The best space to grow is in my purpose."

After I read this - I stopped the audio book and I fact checked Sue. It hurt when I found out that what she shared was accurate. Why didn’t I know this? Why wasn’t this addressed in Women's Bible study? In any Bible Study?

I knew God’s Word was used to enslave black people. And I knew intuitively that it had been used to subjugate women but not exactly how.

I didn't know how much I internalized this. I didn't know my fear came from this subconscious belief that something is wrong with me because I am a woman.

And while Christ had set me free - society and toxic church culture was hell bent on keeping me bound.

I do not intend on throwing baby Jesus out with the bath water. But I do intend on coming for every system that would hinder women from being all that we are. And that starts with every system within me.

Ladies - let's take our seat at the table.

If you're ready for change - share this with a woman you love.

So check this - If a picture lacks contrast - it's hard to see aka there is a lack of clarity.

So anything you have where you don't have clarity - it's because it's lacking contrast.

If your dream relationship doesn't include the contrast of disagreements, different values and schedules - it's a fantasy and you will never be able to have it. Because by nature - fantasies don't exist.

If your dream job doesn't include the cost of gaining the experience and learning, making mistakes and working hard. It's a fantasy.

I have been disappointed with goals, purchases, accomplishments. Not because they weren't great or even what I wanted - but when I dreamed them up - I made created illusions. I created all fun, good, glitz, glam and I didn't account for other side of the experience.

I didn't consider the parts of the same experience that would create impatience, agitation, frustration, struggle, and vulnerability. I didn't consider those parts because I didn't account for the part of me that would feel those. I didn't account for my own humanity.

So then how do you cultivate clarity? You go to war against illusions.

How do you do that? You get specific about what you want, what it will take, and what it will actually be.

If what you want isn't all glamorous (cause it won't be) - do you still want it?

Leave some 🔥 if you want it no matter what. Bonus points for commenting on how you'll experience something other than the glam.

If you were raised Christian, in pursuit of “rightness” “right-standing” even “righteousness”…three areas of your humanity were closely managed.

They all start with an “a” so it’s easy to remember.

1. A W A R E N E S S

2. A T T I T U D E

3. A C T I O N S

Surprise. All the places where our humanity shows up loud and clear 📢

So you learned to control that part.

Make it fall in line.

Then if you’re like me, you hid the parts you couldn’t stop.

It shows up as overeating, overdrinking, self-criticism, judgmental-ism (I just made up that religion 🤪) , people pleasing, insecurity, shame, anxiety—shall I go on?

It stops you today with all the same tactics but now it’s eroding your marriage, dismantling your motherhood, and making you silence the message you are here to share.

First let me say, your response to an impossible expectation is normal.

Whoever sold you on being Godly minus your humanity was wrong and confused.

It is not The Plan for you to be anywhere other than where you are right now.

There is no need to rush growth.

Second, the 3 areas fall within your responsibility today. Bc now, you are able to self-advocate. Now you can learn how to release vs manage.

Now, you get to decide if your humanity is a problem to manage or your power to release.

Which one is it?

Are we holding back?

Or are we showing all the way up?

Let me know your choice in the comments.

Your life is either made up of projections or projects.
You are always choosing.

Projections are your best estimates on what will likely happen based on what you remember. Memories are tricky, friends, very tricky.

Projects are actionable goals that have next steps and projected timelines. In other words, a project says, “Based on what I understand today and where I want to go, this is my next turn. I think it will take this long.”

Tuesday night | Feb 1st at 8pm EST, we are going L I V E right here to help handle your business.

Secret: “The art is in the start.”

I’ll explain that on the LIVE.

Oh snap!

I just realized that PROVISION was in the garden BEFORE WORK🤯

It’s time to divorce the belief that if we don’t work, we don’t eat.

Especially…as women.

1. Because the CREATOR provides for the CREATION.
2. Because work has a different purpose.
3. Because it’s not true.

We get to eat because we are here.

Yes, I’m talking also talking about your financial, spiriTual, emotional, and physical food. You get to EAT in all the ways!

We get to have our needs met because we are here.

AND when you feel under-nourished, it simply means you aren’t here—you’re not present.

Most likely, you are past-focused or future-pacing.

This obviously needs a conversation.

It’s happening tomorrow night, TUESDAY at 8pm EST.

L I V E on this page.

If you struggle with waiting for permission to be powerful, you are not alone!

Catch the REPLAY of our live from Tuesday Night. We give you a way out of this trap!

“I’ve seen plenty of powerful women squander a chance at power simply because they waited for someone else to give them permission to have power. There is no permission slip — you just have to BE powerful.” - Shonda Rhimes

Tonight at 8PM EST!

We are teaching why you aren’t really going after your goals! And What to do about it.

Let’s deal what holds you back and get you moving forward!

We're told to follow our dreams.

But we are afraid to dream.

We try not to focus on what we want because we think we can't have them.

It hurts to want something you don’t think you can have.

So we stop wanting. We stop dreaming. We silence ourselves.

If you start to dream, you’re will hear your doubts and fears.

You’re going to hear how someone like you, with your past, and your shortcomings can’t do it.

BUT to keep dreaming, you will have to ignore it.

And that is the power in dreaming.

Dreaming is a revolutionary act.

Join us LIVE on Tuesday at 8pm EST to learn how to start you’re own revolution.

22 Jesus said to him, “If it is my will that he remain until I come, what is that to you? You follow me!”

It's time for us to stop waiting for everyone else to change.

Our growth is not dependent on anyone else.