11/16/2021
It’s about to get realll unapologetically transparent around here...
Bc I have to be honest about something: I’ve spent the past few months wrestling with God about how to operate as a coach. I felt a push to niche down, but I initially resisted bc the topic wasn’t all that appealing.
Sure, this topic is what I chose to study in college & yeah-- I earned the "bizarre" degree that came w/ that. Yes, it naturally & unexpectedly showed up as the common denominator in my coaching work; the hidden link between my otherwise wildly diverse clients. Sure, all of this came after years of working through this complex topic in my own private life. SO WHAT??
I still had no interest in attaching my name to it publicly! 🙅🏽♀️
I wasn't ready.
It felt too taboo. Too messy to touch. Too big to tackle. Too pervasive to make an impact. Too embarrassing to be transparent about.
But God repeatedly showed me that this was simply the lane I’m supposed to operate in:
Hookup culture- casual s*x, dating, & situationships 🔥
“Really God?!?! WHYY?? Who wants to hear or talk about that?? Women are perfectly fine getting d*cked down by whoever they want without me coming to ruin their fun! I’ve already done my healing in those areas. Can’t I just be a personal development coach, or ANYTHING less controversial??”
After enough complaining to God about my assignment, I got quiet & sat still.
What I heard back was, “the minds, bodies, hearts, and souls of other women are still suffering in these areas. I’ve built you for this. Your work is just beginning.”
So, yeah. We're really doing this! 💁🏾♀️
If any of the above resonates with you, come on, girl! Let's go...
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