Matriarch of Mayhem

Matriarch of Mayhem An unapologetically loud advocate for the survivors and those who struggle with mental health �

✨ WELCOME TO THE MAYHEM. ✨This year, our little family is stepping into a brand-new chapter.Tre is entering Kindergarten...
08/20/2026

✨ WELCOME TO THE MAYHEM. ✨

This year, our little family is stepping into a brand-new chapter.

Tre is entering Kindergarten. 🎒📚
Minnow is entering Pre-K. 🚌❤️

And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that motherhood doesn’t have to be perfectly organized, perfectly planned, or perfectly pretty to be beautiful.

Sometimes it’s backpacks by the door, tiny shoes that somehow disappear, school papers covering the counter, big feelings before breakfast, snacks everywhere, and two little boys growing faster than my heart is ready for.

It’s loud.
It’s messy.
It’s exhausting.
It’s hilarious.
It’s beautiful.

It’s MAYHEM. 😂❤️

But this Mayhem is safe.

This is a home where we learn.
Where we make mistakes and try again.
Where emotions are allowed.
Where kindness matters.
Where responsibilities are taught alongside imagination.
Where we celebrate the little victories.
Where childhood gets to be childhood.

I’m not raising perfect children.

I’m raising good humans—and giving them the space, love, structure, and freedom to become who they are meant to be.

So here’s to Kindergarten. 🎒
Here’s to Pre-K. ✏️
Here’s to new routines, new adventures, new milestones, and probably a whole lot of chaos along the way.

This is our new chapter.

This is our ERA.

And I’m proud to be the Matriarch of Mayhem. ❤️‍🔥

There comes a point where you have to decide what parts of your pain you’re going to carry forward—and what parts you’re...
08/20/2026

There comes a point where you have to decide what parts of your pain you’re going to carry forward—and what parts you’re going to leave behind.

I will never excuse the behavior I endured. I will never pretend the hurt, manipulation, or chaos didn’t happen. I will continue to speak my truth, protect my children, and hold people accountable for the choices they make.

But I refuse to let that negativity become the inheritance my children receive.

My children do not need to understand adult conflict. They don’t need to carry my anger, my hurt, or the weight of what happened between adults. They deserve to be children. They deserve laughter, safety, love, stability, and the freedom to grow into good human beings without being burdened by battles that were never theirs to fight.

So I’m choosing something different.

I’m choosing healing over bitterness.
Growth over resentment.
Peace over spite.
Presence over dwelling in the past.
And most importantly, I’m choosing their childhood over my pain.

That doesn’t mean I’m weak.
It doesn’t mean I’m forgetting.
It doesn’t mean accountability disappears.

It means I refuse to let someone else’s actions dictate the person I become or the childhood my children experience.

We have survived the mayhem.

Now we’re going to grow through it.

This is OUR ERA. ❤️
Our era of rebuilding.
Our era of growth.
Our era of becoming.
Our era of turning mayhem into something beautiful.

And through all of it…

I am the Matriarch of Mayhem. ❤️‍🔥

We are having a Pokemon Rave to celebrate Quinton turning 5 and Tre turning 6!!! It going to be a blast, literally a glo...
08/10/2026

We are having a Pokemon Rave to celebrate Quinton turning 5 and Tre turning 6!!!
It going to be a blast, literally a glow in the dark foam blast 🤣 if there is one thing that I am great at, it’s causing mayhem.

I keep telling myself that the constant conflict over control is going to end soon, that it can’t possibly continue; eve...
07/29/2026

I keep telling myself that the constant conflict over control is going to end soon, that it can’t possibly continue; eventually he will understand that I am no longer accepting his definition of me or the toxicity that ensues when he doesn’t get his way. BUT NOPE!! He always surprises me with new and innovative ways to start drama where it never should have exsisted.

I don’t even get mad anymore, honestly I don’t have the time. I’m too busy raising sons that will absolutely NOT turn out like him.

In times of need, and in times of tears, in times of joy and in times of fears… there is M.O.M
07/20/2026

In times of need, and in times of tears, in times of joy and in times of fears… there is M.O.M

07/04/2026

Tonight me and the minions went to see minions and monsters!! The world nor the theatre were ready for us! We had THE BEST TIME ❤️

Got all painted up and went to see some fireworks ❤️🤍💙
07/04/2026

Got all painted up and went to see some fireworks ❤️🤍💙

If you are in the thick of it, keep fu***ng going! Fight everyone who says no, get louder everytime they tell you to kee...
06/13/2026

If you are in the thick of it, keep fu***ng going! Fight everyone who says no, get louder everytime they tell you to keep quiet and never forget who the f**k you are.
It may take weeks or months but I promise you will be seen.
To many ladies are collapsing under the immense non stop pressure, too many ladies are losing their lives as victims. We are fighting for everyone who never got the opportunity to be heard.

The hardest part of surviving the abusive ex, is parenting it out of his children. These are not typical behaviors for a...
06/01/2026

The hardest part of surviving the abusive ex, is parenting it out of his children. These are not typical behaviors for a 5yr old child as he was grasping my throat and posturing with his fist to hit me “I hate you, I’m gonna kill you” the parenting books have a chapter for this, family courts and horrible lawyers are of the opinion that just because I was the victim doesn’t mean that he’s unsafe for my children. MY CHILDREN!!! The only way he can get to me is through MY CHILDREN!!! I refuse to be another sad headline, a 15 minute blip highlighting the misses in the broken family court system.
I may only be one mother, but I am going to be so fu***ng loud that no one can ignore me.

To all my solo parenting DV victims; never be afraid to speak your truth no matter who it upsets. When we stay quiet they mistake us for compliant.

My solace through all of this; is knowing that I am raising his sons to be real men; with passion, strength and courage ...
05/28/2026

My solace through all of this; is knowing that I am raising his sons to be real men; with passion, strength and courage that will unapologetically dog walk guys like him. 💜

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