McMinn & Meigs - Alzheimer's/Dementia Support Group

12/24/2025

🗣️ NOTICE: The McMinn/Meigs Alzheimer's & Dementia Support Group will be meeting at LIFE CARE CENTER OF ATHENS, located at 1234 Frye Street in Athens. Phone (423)745-8181

✅ We ALWAYS meet on the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 7:00 pm. So, the next support group meeting will be held on January 13th at 7:00pm at the Life Care of Athens, in their Dining Room.

As a caretaker rest assured others have gone through similar trials/tribulations with their own relatives, and are always willing to share their own lessons-learned with others in attendance.

Whether you’re looking for some basic guidance (i.e., Power of Attorney vs. Conservatorship, etc.), general assistance with cooking and/or housekeeping, or the available resources in the area like the “GUIDED BY GRACE” program this is certainly a great place to start. 👍

Realize you are not alone, as others have served as caregivers for their own loved ones and come together each month to offer their support and advice concerning particular issues. (i.e., Bathing, Cooking, Driving, Incontinence, Short-term Memory Loss, etc.)

We hope to see you there.
Sincerely, A.D. Wade
(for Linda Garza, Support Group Leader)

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07/19/2021

🗣 For everyone's information, the McMinn/Meigs Alzheimer's & Dementia Support Group meets at the Starr Regional Medical Center, in the Physician's Lunch Room at 7:00pm, on the 2nd Tuesday of each month.

While Alzheimer's/Dementia is certainly a debilitating disease, there are many caretakers (myself included) that have been through dementia with a loved one. If you are a caretaker you are not alone, and there are many ‘Lessons-Learned’ that are often shared in support groups. 👍

07/18/2020

Just a brief peek of what it can be like, to live with Alzheimer's.

"I walked to the mall and on my way home a sweet lady asked me where the nearest medical clinic was.
While giving her directions, she seemed overwhelmed so I told her I’d walk to the clinic with her.
On our walk, she told me she had Alzheimer’s and forgets things easily.
She told me her name, Mary, and that she was from Scotland.
She told me about her grumpy daughter and her helpful son.
She told me about her life before Alzheimer’s took away her memory.
She told me jokes.
She told me why she needed to go to the clinic.
She showed me her crazy loud finger whistle and that she could whistle just as well with her thumbs!
She could tell me many things, but had already forgotten where we were walking.
At this point I realized the clinic would probably not see her without family but we went anyways and waited a half hour to see the doctor.
She realized she didn’t have her phone with her after searching everywhere so we couldn’t call family.
The doctor told me a family member needed to come along and that he could not treat her today.
Mary said she knew how to get home from the mall and invited me to have a tea with her at McDonald’s.
She said everyone knew her at the mall because she went there every day.
She walks from home to the mall the same route so it’s now in her long-term memory so she can remember it.
At McDonald’s everyone called her by name.
At one point when she was coming back to the table she didn’t recognize me and asked if we were sitting together.
I explained how our afternoon had gone.
She told me her daughter’s phone number, so I phoned her and told her I was sitting with her mother at the mall and would wait until she came to get her as I wanted to ensure she made it home safely.
No thank yous…daughter asked to speak to her mom.
She wasn’t coming to get her.
Mary cried after she got off the phone with her daughter.
She could not remember her son’s phone number.
After digesting the fact that her own young adult daughter was not coming to get her mother I told Mary that I’d walk home with her.
We talked some more while we drank tea.
Mary is kind, sweet, confused, friendly, chatty, and so starved for human connection.
She was thankful to have someone to talk with and spend time with.
She told me that she really liked me and that she doesn’t give out a compliment like that often.
She asked why we were walking together.
She asked how she got to the mall.
She’d completely forgotten.
I walked her to her door; her daughter came out, and rolled her eyes as I explained that I walked home with Mary as it was on my way home and I wanted to make sure she got there safely.
I also told her about the clinic and how Mary and I had been together for a few hours.
I was greeted with more eye rolls and no warmth whatsoever.
There was no thank you, nothing.
I don’t live with someone with Alzheimer’s so I am sure it’s complicated and difficult.
I thought about what kind of a life Mary must have now.
The not remembering.
The dependence on others.
The impatience of caregivers.
The losing of the memories.
The loss of short term memory.
The difficulty going somewhere new.
The scary feelings.
The nervous feeling she told me about when she knows she should remember something but doesn’t.
Her shaking hands.
Her feeling stupid because she doesn’t remember like she should.
The way some people treat her, even family.
The sadness she feels.
How she holds onto the pride she felt when she once drove a huge bus to Arizona and the whole group made it there alive.
I didn’t want to leave.
I wanted to stay there with Mary.
I wanted to protect her and make her feel loved and needed and appreciated.
Mary smiled and I gave her the biggest hug and told her what a lovely afternoon I’d had.
As I walked away, leaving her with her daughter, I burst into tears and cried all the way home…25 minutes, I cried.
I’m still crying as I write this.
Mary won’t remember me.
Mary won’t remember the talk we had, why she went to the clinic or that she went to the clinic at all, or that we spent three hours together this afternoon.
Mary won’t remember…but I WILL."

Credit: Melinda Howlett Gill

04/15/2020

The Tennessee Commission on Aging and Disability (TCAD) would like for us to share a new COVID-19 initiative, ”Care Through Conversation: Telephone Reassurance Program” for older adults (60+). For those that sign up for the program, they will receive a weekly call from a TCAD volunteer. During these calls, the volunteer will check-in, assess their needs, and see if there is any way TCAD can better assist the individual. At minimum, the volunteers will conduct one call a week, but the individual can request more if needed.

For more information: visit TCAD’s website at:

04/15/2020

As of April 14th, we had our very first online VIRTUAL McMinn & Meigs Alz/Dementia Support Group meeting! In actuality, it went pretty well and during our discussion we decided it was time to start a page in order to better organize and coordinate amongst one another.

That said, WELCOME to our new page and stay tuned for updates and news in the future...as we navigate this new world, with the COVID-19 virus now present.