Alex Loveland

Availability Update 2026!

My heart is sooo full!! 6 more of you said YESSS today to coming in this year for your Soulstace Experience which means we are officially at 80% capacity for the year and the first quarter of 2027 is also filling up quickly!

Here’s how the rest of the year is looking:

May: 2 spaces available

June: 2 spaces available

July: 1 space available

August: 4 spaces available

September: 3 spaces available

October: 2 spaces available

November: 4 spaces available

December: 3 spaces available

These are going to go fasssst! I anticipate 2026 being full within the next 4 weeks, so if you want a shoot this year NOW is the time to reserve your space on the calendar! Only $250 down is needed to secure your spot.

Comment “more info please!” below if you’re interested in one of these so we can connect! 😍

Have I mentioned how excited I am to be back at it?! Guiding each and every one of you through this transformative experience gives me LIFEEEE!!! 😍😍😍

50 lbs down!

Today I’m celebrating 50 lbs down from my highest 🥹

What I’m most proud of isn’t the weight loss itself. It’s how patient and loving I’ve been toward my body since I gave birth nearly 5 years ago.

I didn’t rush my body. I didn’t do anything crazy to drop the weight. I’ve never used GLPs (absolutely no hate or judgement if you do, tho!! Whatever works!!)

I just allowed my body to heal by herself without judgement or pressure. I loved her every step of the way.

And slowly, very slowly, I’m 13 lbs under pre-pregnancy weight and feeling better than I have in many years.

To my body, I love you. You are precious to me. Thank you for your strength which allows me to do all of the things I love to do.

To me: well done 🙌🏻 you’re doing it 🥹

Lingerie Upgradeee 🤩

Just added 60+ pieces to my Client Wardrobe!!

I have well over 600 pieces in all different sizes, shapes, colors, styles and sizes XS-6X for my clients to choose from for their sessions!

If you’ve had a shoot with me, drop a photo of your favorite outfit from your session that you used from the Client Wardrobe 😍 Let’s see them in action!!

Finding lingerie you’re going to feel and look amazing in can be extremely daunting, which is why I’ve streamlined this process to take all the stress out of it.

When you come in for your session, I pull 7-8 pieces that I know will work for you, you try them on, narrow down to your favorites and then we get to work 💃

All you have to show up with on your shoot day is a skin-colored thong and a black thong to wear under my garments then we are good to go!

2026 dates are filling FAST and 2027 is starting to fill too!

If you’re ready to get on the calendar and reserve your space to embody your Goddess energy, type “more info please!” and I’ll be in touch 😍

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⭐️ LAST MINUTE OPENING - RARE WEEKEND DATES THIS WEEKEND! ⭐️

I’m looking for two beautiful souls who have been considering a Bo***ir Session but haven’t taken the plunge yet!

Weekend dates almost *never* happen, but I’m in the US and child-free for the next 10 days and that means I have the time!

I’m still testing some things in the new studio space, so I’d love to have two people come play this weekend in exchange for a waived Session Fee (normally $500!)

Details:

Location: Stafford, Virginia

Timing: 10 am - 2 pm on Saturday or 10 am - 2 pm on Sunday!

Included: Professional hair and makeup, access to my full Client Wardrobe with over 600 pieces in all different sizes, shapes, colors, styles, etc! Professional posing guidance, the photoshoot itself and professional retouching of all your final images (hellooo our bff Photoshop hehehe)

You don’t have to have any experience! Just bring a n**e thong and a black thong to wear under my garments and we are good to go!

Comment “More Info Please!” below if you’re interested so we can connect and walk through the details together!

So excited to see who grabs these spots!! The calendar for 2026 is about 80% full at this point, so this may be the last opportunity for something like this for a long time.

Here’s an “every day to slayyy” from Jeanette’s recent shoot in the new studio - leave her some love bc SHE DID THAT!!! 😍😍😍🙌🏻

The best part of having status with United is being able to change my flight 50-leven times the same day as the flight then ultimately cancel it because ultimately I was gonna miss bag drop 😂

I couldn’t run my lil butt fast enough today to get everything done at my house I wanted to but I did speak to 4 beautiful souls to book their Bo***ir Sessions!! The spaces are filling up so fast 🥹🥹 I missed you guys so much!

I booked a very last min ticket for 25k points on Air France and away we go! They just said it’s a quick one tonight - only 6 hr 25 min to Paris. Then a short layover, a 90-min flight tonight to Marseille and an hour drive home 💗

Imagine doing this every 2-3 weeks? GOODNIGHT 😂😂😂 😌

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Congrats to everyone who has already grabbed a space on the 2026 calendar!! We are over 25% booked so far so if you’re thinking about a session and want more info - do NOT hesitate!! Comment “more info please!” below and I’ll send you a message so we can walk through the details!

And if you already requested more info please check your message requests folder because I’ve sent quite a few that haven’t been read yet.

Spooky season photo I created with AI this morning to grab your attention 😍😍

It's finally time. Introducing... Soulstace Studios

Two years ago, my life burned to the ground.
The kind of unraveling that shakes your soul at its core.

A brutal divorce that didn’t just crack my heart wide open… it tore through my sense of safety, identity, purpose… and it cost me more than 7 figures in the process.

But money wasn’t the greatest loss.
I lost myself.

And not just in the divorce, but four years before that, too, when I became a mother for the first time.

Motherhood came like a wave. Beautiful. Life-altering. All-consuming.

But somewhere between the feedings, the fear, the milestones, the meltdowns… I started to disappear.

I battled postpartum depression, severe insomnia and anxiety in silence; smiling on the outside, unraveling on the inside.

I questioned whether I was doing any of it right.
I lost touch with my body, my needs, my wildness, my fire.

It didn’t happen all at once.
It happened in the small, slow ways women are taught to forget themselves:
By loving everyone else more than ourselves.
By surviving instead of living.
By shrinking to stay safe.
By saying “I’m fine” when we’re anything but.

But here’s the thing about fire:
It doesn’t just destroy. It purifies. It awakens. It makes space for the version of you who could never have existed in your old life.

And from those ashes, Soulstace Studios was born.

Not just as a brand. But as a sacred container for rebirth.

This is for every woman who lost herself in a relationship she outgrew.
Who questioned if she’d ever feel sexy, radiant, or seen again.
Who poured everything into her family or business and left nothing for herself.
Who is healing from betrayal, heartbreak, invisibility, trauma, or numbness.
Who is tired of performing and is ready to be witnessed in her truth.

This isn’t just a Bo***ir Session. It’s a return ceremony. A soulstace - a sacred pause between who you were and who you are becoming.

It’s sensual. It’s vulnerable. It’s divine. And it’s yours.

I created Soulstace Studios for women like me.

Women who are not broken, but becoming.
Women who are reclaiming their bodies, their stories, and their voices.
Women who want to feel like themselves again. Not the watered down version, but the wild, radiant, sovereign one who’s been waiting underneath.

We rise through remembering.
We rise when we stop hiding.
We rise when we choose to be seen.

So if you’re standing in your own fire right now…
If you’re aching to return to yourself…
If you’re ready to step into the woman you were always meant to be…

I’m here to witness you.
I’m here to hold that moment.
I’m here to help you rise.

Soulstace Studios is open. And so is the portal back to yourself.

Now booking Bo***ir Sessions for 2026. Type "more info please!" in the comments if you're interested in learning more + getting on the calendar for 2026. Availability is *extremely* limited since Jack still isn't in school full time, so you'll definitely need to plan way ahead!

With love, reverence and fire,
Alex Loveland
Photographer. Phoenix. Priestess of the Rise.

What if your imaginary friend when you were younger was really a future version of yourself going back to find you in meditation to keep you company, love you and heal you 🥹

Today’s Eclipse marks the ending of the Eclipse Season window.. a perfect time to release everything that’s no longer aligned.

That’s why I’m letting my education store go.

In my coaching calls with you all you may have heard me use what I call “the monkey bar analogy”.

You know how when you’re on the monkey bars… in order to move forward you have to release the bar behind you and use that hand to reach to the next bar in front of you?

Life is a lot like that.

If you allow yourself to stall and not let go of what’s behind you, what happens? You lose momentum. The energy comes to a stop. You’re just… hanging there!

Life is a series of releasing, clearing space, and using that space to allow what’s next to come in.

That’s what I’m doing now by closing the store.

You can get everything for 60% off until midnight PST on 9/24, then this chapter closes after 6 years and tens of thousands of guides sold 🥹

Thanks for being along for the ride! 🥂

If we could all learn to express and release our feelings like toddlers I think humans would be a lot healthier.

Holding space for Jack as he expressed and experiences the full range during a meltdown makes me completely understand how stuffing down your emotions can manifest as physical illness.

It is energy, it has to go somewhere! Better out than in as they say 😂

It’s so important to validate, stay calm, stay present and let the emotions run their course. Then we focus on regulation, connection, and I reassure him emotions and feelings are ok and that he’s safe with me and there’s nothing he could do that would make me not love him and do my best to help him and keep him safe.

I read once that a toddlers emotions last for about 90 seconds if they’re allowed to be fully expressed, and have found that to be true for us.

This one was the longest at right about five minutes but he needed to get it out.

Once he’s regulated we walk through appropriate ways to express sadness / anger that don’t include hitting people or throwing things. He is making great progress and I’m really proud of him.

I know most of us didn’t have that space held for us and our emotions as little humans, and I know how dramatically it still affects us to this day. You can reparent yourself and do these techniques for yourself now, and be the parent you always needed.

Sending hugs to all of you and your inner children 💗

This made me laugh a little too hard 😂😂