The secret behind Campus Figure

*VALUE ADDING WIFE (VAW)*

Many think that Jacob loved Rachael because she was beautiful....Noooooooo! Beauty only attracts a man to a woman but what determines his true love for a woman goes beyond beauty. *Rachael was not just beautiful, she was also industrious per excellence!*

Why do we have a lot of beautiful ladies today yet no husband? Because beauty without value and virtue is like a smoke. What impressed and attracted Jacob to Rachael was her industriousness.

While her brothers and elder sister Leah were at home, Rachael singlehandedly brought her father's flock to the well to give them drink. That was where Jacob met her for the first time. *"No sensible man can resist a woman who is beautiful and industrious".*

What would have made a man worked for *seven years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for seven days? ........ Value!*

My man doesn't respect me, it's because you are not a Value-Adding-Woman (VAW).

Do you realize that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price? They gave him Leah as bonus. Because she has no value. This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he set them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother.

*If you force yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you. If you are not adding value to his life, he will never respect you.*

Even after marriage, Leah had to be begging and buying the attention of her own husband while on the other hand, Rachael was practically *in control of Jacob*, nor be jazz oooo, it's *Value!*

Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, *a profession meant for men.* She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her.

*Gen 29:9* *_Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherd._*

How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the house for that matter) be the one to tend her father's flock and fam

Kyambogo University Makerere UniversityGulu UniversityMuni UniversityLira UniversityKabale UniversityMbarara University of Science and Technology

A LETTER TO GRADUATES
Whether you got first class, second class, pass, whether you studied law, software engineering, production, chemical, actuarial, education... THERE ARE NO JOBS.

The first thing you need to do as a graduate is to separate yourself from that sense of entitlement, that thinking that you deserve the best because you worked hard in school. Life out there is different.

Secondly as a graduate, for a moment don't be fixated on what you studied, most people are employed in fields that they did not study, they end up doing well and pursuing it as a career. I studied BA in Sociology and Linguistics in my Undergraduate and would probably be a senior Administrator in the Ministry of Interior and Coordination of Government by now. But I got a kibarua at the Nation Media Group as a Marketing Assistant three months after leaving KU. I did the job so well that after completing the three months contract the bosses wanted to retain me. There was an opening at the Editorial Department and I was interviewed for it. I made it and ended doing Nine Years at the NMG and honing my skills as a journalist. You won't always get a job in the field you trained in.

Third, when you graduate don't limit yourself to the big companies you read in the newspaper because everyone is applying there and they can't absorb every graduate.

Trying your luck in the so called funny, small organizations that are down town could see you a manager in two years, unlike being an intern at PWC, KEMRI or those so called blue chip companies.

Fourth, getting regret or no response does not mean you stop applying. I know someone who made more than 1000 applications over a period of one year before they got their first job "Intern" then retained in the same organization.

Fifth, the attitude you display when doing your first job will determine your growth. At a car wash, you may strike a conversation with a CEO of a company, as a waiter, as a cleaner.

I know of a friend who picked a messengers job in Unga Limited, today he is a senior manager in production right from the other managers sending him to buy Mandazi, and one day they asked what he studied.

When you are in sales, you could be selling loans, insurance, utensils to your next employer. The concept of getting such a job is to get you out of the house, interact with people and connect you to the next level.

Sitting in the house as a graduate will not change your life, complaining on Twitter will not bring a job. Sending 1, 2, 20 applications is not enough until you get an opportunity.
If you find a company or someone willing to absorb you as an intern even if you have a masters take it, that 3 months on job training can change your life.

Going for a masters in the same field you studied that has made you jobless is a mistake, employers start seeing you overqualified for junior position and unqualified for senior position because you don't have work experience.

Getting a job before masters opens your mind beyond textbook knowledge and you start seeing which careers you can pursue that suit your experience.

Finally, all you need is a job (employed or self-employed) to enable get money to print your CV, buy nice clothes for the next interviews to your dream job.

Muni University student Chess club rehashing

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so so sad for the lost friends at Lake Victoria. Heartfelt condolence to the bereaved families Makerere University Kyambogo University Entebbe

TIPS TO HELP YOU SURVIVE AND THRIVE AT THE UNIVERSITY
1. Go to all orientations.
Do you really need to go on yet another campus tour? Yes. The faster you learn your way around campus — and around all the red tape — the more at ease you’ll feel, and the better prepared you’ll be when issues arise.
2. Get to know your roommate and others in your residence hall.
The people you live with, most of whom are going through similar experiences and emotions are your main safety net — not only this year, but for all your years. You may change roommates after the first semester or you may stay roommates for all three years — just take the time to get to know your fellow first-year students.
3. Get organized.
In high school, the teachers tended to lead you through all of your homework and due dates. In University, the professors post the assignments — often for the entire semester — and expect you to be prepared. Buy an organizer, use an app, or get a big wall calendar — whatever it takes for you to know when assignments are due.
4. Find the ideal place for you to study.
It may be your dorm room or a cozy corner of the library, but find a place that works best for you to get your work done — while avoiding as many distractions as possible.
5. Go to class.
Obvious, right? Maybe, but sleeping in and skipping that 8 am class will be tempting at times. Avoid the temptation. Besides learning the material by attending classes, you’ll also receive vital information from the professors about what to expect on tests, changes in due dates, etc.
6. Become an expert on course requirements and due dates.
Professors spend hours and hours preparing course syllabi and calendars so that you will know exactly what is expected of you — and when. One of the lamest excuses a student can give a professor: “I didn’t know it was due today.”
7.Meet with your professors.
Speaking as a professor, I can assure you there are only upsides to getting to know your professors, especially if later in the semester you run into some snags. Professors schedule office hours for the sole purpose of meeting with students — take advantage of that time.
8.Get to know your academic adviser.
This is the person who will help you with course conflicts, adding or dropping courses, scheduling of classes for future semesters, deciding on majors and minors. This person is a key resource for you — and should be the person you turn to with any academic issues or conflicts. And don’t be afraid of requesting another adviser if you don’t click with the one first assigned to you.
9.Seek a balance.
University life is a mixture of social and academic happenings. Don’t tip the balance too far in either direction. One of my favorite former students always used to say her motto was to “study hard so she could play hard.”
10.Get involved on campus.
A big problem for a lot of new students is a combination of homesickness and a feeling of not quite belonging. A solution? Consider joining a select group (and be careful not to go overboard) — student organizations, clubs, sororities or fraternities, or sports teams. You’ll make new friends, learn new skills, and feel more connected to your school.
11. Strive for good grades.
Another obvious one here, right? Remember the words of the opening paragraph; while good grades could have come naturally to you in high school, you will have to earn them in college — and that means setting some goals for yourself and then making sure you work as hard as you can to achieve them.
12. Take advantage of the study resources on campus.
Just about all Universities have learning labs and staff available. If you’re having some troubles, these resources are another tool available to you. Another idea: form study groups.
13. Make time for you.
Be sure you set aside some time for activities that help you relax and take the stress out of your day or week. Whether it’s yoga, watching your favorite television shows, jogging, or writing in a journal, be good to yourself. And give your brain a break.
14. Don’t feel pressured to make a hasty decision about a career or a major.
It doesn’t matter if it seems as though everyone else seems to know what they’re doing with their lives — believe me, they don’t — university is the time for you to really discover who you are, what you enjoy doing, what you’re good at, and what you want to be. It’s not a race; take your time and enjoy exploring your options.
15. Take responsibility for yourself and your actions.
Don’t look to place the blame on others for your mistakes; own up to them and move on. Being an adult means taking responsibility for everything that happens to you.
16. Make connections with students in your classes.
One of my best students said his technique in the first week of classes was to meet at least one new person in each of his classes. It expanded his network of friends — and was a crucial resource at times when he had to miss a class.
17. Find the Career Services office.
Regardless of whether you are entering a university as undeclared or have your entire future mapped out, seek out the wonderful professionals in your career services office and get started on planning, preparing, and acting on your future.
18. Don’t procrastinate; prioritize your life.
It may have been easy in high school to wait until the last minute to complete an assignment and still get a good grade, but that kind of stuff will not work for you in university. Give yourself deadlines — and stick to them.
19. Stay healthy/eat right.
A lot of problems first-year students face can be traced back to an illness that kept them away from classes for an extended period of time that led to a downward spiralling effect. Get enough sleep, take your vitamins, and eat right. If you haven’t heard the jokes about food, you soon will. And without mom or dad there to serve you a balanced meal, you may be tempted to go for those extra fries or cookies..
20. Learn to cope with homesickness.
It’s only natural that there will be times when you miss your family, even if you were one of those kids who couldn’t wait to get away. Find a way to deal with those feelings, such as making a phone call or sending some email home.
21. Stay on campus as much as possible.
Whether it’s homesickness, a job, or a boyfriend or girlfriend from home, try not to leave campus too soon or too often. The more time you spend on getting to know the campus and your new friends (and your new schedule), the more you’ll feel at home at school. And why not take advantage of all the cultural and social events that happen on campus?
22. Seek professional help when you need it.
Most universities have health and counseling centers. If you’re sick or feeling isolated or depressed, please take advantage of the many services these offices provide students. You don’t have to face these issues by yourself.
23. Keep track of your money.
If you’ve never had to create a budget, now is the time to do so. Find ways to stretch your money — and as best you can, avoid all those credit solicitations
24. Don’t cut corners.
University is all about learning. If you procrastinate and cram, you may still do well on tests, but you’ll learn very little. Even worse, don’t cheat on semester papers or tests.
25. Be prepared to feel overwhelmed.
There’s a lot going in your life right now. Expect to have moments where it seems a bit too much. As one student says, be prepared to feel completely unprepared. The trick is knowing that you’re not the only one feeling that way

S*X IS FOOD!!!!!!!read

S*x is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don't always allow your husband to ask for S*x, there must be no timetable for s*x. Be creative, don't be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you loose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Be part of your husband plans.
Don't have too many children, you wanna sell them ? Allow your husband to check in and out anytime.
When a man is s*xually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying, is it food ? Yes, s*x is food !!!
As a wife, try to invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as his prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life. Don't allow your husband to provide all your needs, he is not a money making machine. Iron sharpens iron, try to reciprocate.
You are meant to support each other spiritually, financially, physically and morally through thick and thin. You are a builder....Wise woman buildeth her home. Women need wisdom to build their homes. Do not be too outspoken, know when to talk, when to listen and when to be quiet.
Love your husband with all your heart, never tell him, if not because of my children, remember you've known him before the arrival of those children.
Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and pray for him. Give him unannounced kiss from the back.... mwahhhhhh, don't be too holy to kiss in the public. He is your husband for God sake. Be romantic joooo, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you're happy in that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you hold him. Don't look 50 while you're still under 40, it drives men crazy. Always keep fit regardless of your age or body.

To men:
Do not take a woman who does all these for granted!
Pamper her, pray for her, cherish her, love her, support her financially, make her feel like your woman! God bless you and your marriages.

Sound tactics that will bail you from campus brokeness

Running broke is not your fault because you have needs and you need to spend that money but staying broke for a long time is definitely your fault. You should not allow this to happen most especially if you have a sharp mind. There are many things campusers do that bring in quick money and most of these are illegal, disgracing etc. allow me take you a little lower into some of the easiest ways that bring you at least a ka 3k for your supper. The slay queen in you will die for a moment but she will resurrect the moment you have your 5k. Here are tactics to help you bounce back from being broke at campus.

Before we get into anything serious, you need to cut back on unnecessary spending. Some of y’all do the things you do because your best friend is doing them. Your best friend has enough money to take her through the week, you need to grow balls and cut the lavish life till you are financially kawa. If you can cook, why do you have to eat out? Tone down this massape for a moment.

Sell handouts. Y’all usually minimize the people that come to your classes selling handouts but they are better off knowing they are going to sleep with some money at the end of the day than you sitting in your room corner wondering what you are going to eat next. Campus has very many lazy peeps, all you need to do is have your notes photocopied and do the math, add alittle extras and you will have your supper and next day’s lunch done.

Tutor. This is the most legit way of earning your self money. All you need is your brains and some notes. We all know campus has so many people with different responsibilities. Some actually fail to attend class due to this, if you are good in class or can explain leave no stone unturned to your peers; you are a great asset towards course work tests and examination time. Charge a little fee for your effort.

Run errands for people. You are covered up in your beddings very hungry and hopeless yet your neighbor needs someone to run her errands because she is busy, sick, cramping or even lazy. Offer to do it as long as she is giving you transport and an appreciation fee. Stop being lazy! Go knock at that door. Some of you have busy relatives that need stuff done for them over the weekend, present yourself as an extra hand and get paid.

Utilize your skills. Am sure every child that studied IPS and PAPE acquired a skill. Some of you acquired skills through training from relatives and friends. You need not sit on that skill. Get up and make anything crafty sell to the stranger in your class. Make it known that you do these things, it pays off. Some of you have great computer skills, get up and work on people’s reports and dissertations. That’s how campus hustlers chiller make money.

If you can access a car, be an uber of sorts only cheaper especially on weekends. Very many people go out of their hostels every night throughout the week. Take advantage of the weekends. Your father’s car has been parked in the compound for long, borrow it and let them know you are going to make money with it. Start with your friends, pick up your drunk friends, drop the bar hoppers, put your friendship aside and be paid for your services. You will thank me later.

Business. This is for the sharp mind. You do not have to first smell brokenness creeping outside your room door for you to think of doing something. Put up something that will bring in money daily when you are still financially ok so that you have your black days covered.

WHY DIVORCE AND INFIDELITY are more among AFRICAN COUPLES*👉

*Whoever says "most African couples' a re not romantic is absolutely telling the truth*.....

*Many marriages are just about sleeping, waking, eating, cooking, raising the kids, working and ageing together till death comes*.....

*Many couples only hug each other when they receive a good news*....

*They only kiss each other during copulation*....

*The husband only puts food in his wife's mouth when she is terminally ill and unable to feed herself*....

*Many wives only buy gifts for their husbands when he is hospitalized*.....

*The only time couples race together is when there is danger somewhere and everyone is running*....

*The only thing that makes couples go for an evening stroll is when they have something vital to discuss and they don't want the children to hear*......

*The only time some couples eat together is when their in laws are around*......

*The only thing that makes couples bath together is when they have a flight to catch and they are running late already*.....

*The only thing that makes an African man touch his wife's neck is when she complains of fever, afterwards he won't touch it again, till her next fever*.....

*The only thing that makes an African woman look closely into the eyes of her husband is when he complains of dirts in his eyes*.....

*The only thing that makes an average man carry his wife on his arms is when she is in labour and he is rushing her to the hospital*......

*The only thing that makes an average woman stroke her husband's beards is when she is removing dirts from it*.....

People do say:
*If you see an African couple sitted in front of their house in the evening, you may think they are romantic, but they are only waiting for the smell of the insecticide to vanish*....

*If you see a man opening the door of his car for his wife, its either the car is new or the wife is new*....

*How won't the rate of divorce and infidelity increase when most marriages have no sweetness*?

*Think about it .......and bring romance and sweetness back to your relationship/marriage*. 👆🙏👆🙏👆🙏👏👌😘