Nèlšőň Ølîhä Åŕķáñģêłô Ābêļ

15/09/2026

🎓 HOW TO BEGIN ONLINE TEACHING — EVEN IF YOU ARE STARTING FROM ZERO

You don't need a big office.
You don't need expensive equipment.
And you don't need thousands of followers.

If you have knowledge, a phone, internet access, and learners you can help, you can start.

Here is a simple roadmap:

1️⃣ Choose WHAT you want to teach

Don't start with “I want to teach online.”

Start with:

👉 What exactly can I teach?
👉 Who needs this knowledge?
👉 What problem can I help them solve?

For example:

• English Language
• Reading and phonics
• Mathematics
• Exam preparation
• Igbo Language
• Teacher training
• School management
• Parenting/learning support

2️⃣ Choose WHO you want to teach

Be specific.

Instead of saying, “I teach everybody,” you could say:

“I help primary school pupils improve their reading skills.”

Or:

“I help teachers improve classroom management.”

A clear audience makes it easier to attract the right learners.

3️⃣ Start with the tools you already have

You can begin with:

📱 Smartphone
🎧 Earphones or simple microphone
💡 Good natural lighting
📚 Your teaching materials
🌐 Reliable internet connection

You don't need a sophisticated studio to teach your first learner.

4️⃣ Choose your teaching platform

You can teach through platforms such as:

• Zoom
• Google Meet
• WhatsApp
• Facebook
• Other learning platforms

Start with something you and your learners can use comfortably.

5️⃣ Create a simple lesson structure

Don't enter an online class and start talking for one hour.

A simple structure could be:

5 minutes: Introduction/revision
15–25 minutes: Main lesson
10 minutes: Practice
5 minutes: Questions and feedback
2 minutes: Assignment/next step

Keep learners involved.

6️⃣ Create a simple teaching timetable

Decide:

📌 Days
📌 Time
📌 Duration
📌 Number of classes per week
📌 Class size

Consistency makes online teaching look professional.

7️⃣ Start promoting your class

You don't need to shout:

❌ “REGISTER NOW!!!”

Instead, demonstrate your expertise.

Create useful content such as:

“3 reasons your child still struggles to read.”

Then show parents how you can help.

Your content becomes your advertisement.

8️⃣ Start small

Don't wait until everything is perfect.

Start with 3–5 learners.

Teach them well.
Get feedback.
Improve your system.
Then grow.

9️⃣ Decide how you will charge

Your fee should consider:

• Your expertise
• Class duration
• Number of classes
• Individual vs group teaching
• Age/level of learners
• Materials provided

Don't simply copy another teacher's price.

🔟 Make the experience professional

Send parents/learners:

✅ Class timetable
✅ Learning objectives
✅ Required materials
✅ Class rules
✅ Payment information
✅ Progress updates

Parents are more likely to trust a teacher who has a clear system.

Don't wait until you have everything before you start.

Your first online class may not be perfect.

Your lighting may not be perfect.
Your background may not be perfect.
Your delivery may improve with time.

Start with what you have, teach what you know, solve a real problem, and improve as you grow.

Teachers, if you were to start online teaching today, what subject would you teach? 👇

Ølîhå Ñëlsöñ

28/08/2026

1. A good book can change your life.

2. A good mentor can change your direction.

3. A good decision can change your future.

4. A good habit can change your daily life.

5. A good friend can change your perspective.

6. A good conversation can change your mind.

7. A good opportunity can change your circumstances.

8. A good question can change the way you think.

9. A good lesson can save you from repeating a mistake.

10. A good idea can become the beginning of something great.

11. A good example can inspire you to become better.

12. A good apology can repair a damaged relationship.

13. A good attitude can change how you experience difficult situations.

14. A good skill can create new opportunities.

15. A good environment can influence your growth.

16. A good investment can improve your future.

17. A good word can encourage someone who is struggling.

18. A good opportunity can appear when you least expect it.

19. A good change can begin with one small step.

20. A good book can change your life.

Encouragement:
Never underestimate the power of something small. A single page can introduce a new idea, one conversation can open your mind, and one decision can send your life in a completely different direction. Keep learning, stay curious, and remain open to the little things that can create the biggest changes in your life.

25/08/2026

When the system is built on lies, telling the truth isn't just difficult—it is a massive liability. We love to praise integrity in theory, but in reality, those who refuse to play the dirty games of a corrupt environment are usually the ones who pay the heaviest price.

It makes you wonder if absolute integrity is a luxury only a few can afford. As the classic observation goes, "Such unfortunate people: Those who are honest in dishonest societies..."

Is it actually possible to reach the top of your field today while remaining entirely honest, or does survival in the modern world require a level of calculated compromise?

— Voltaire

22/08/2026

“And it hurts that teachers often get a lot of insults and blames, than the actual credit they deserve; for pouring out everything for their profession, for managing numbers of students, and for giving knowledge and direction for a better future.
The disrespect is so LOUD”.

Ølîhå Ñëlsöñ

17/07/2026

This book shows you how to think, by staging a debate between a philosopher and a young man over the course of five conversations. The philosopher represents the ideas of Alfred Adler, a psychologist who broke with Freud, arguing that we are not determined by our past, but by the goals we choose in the present. The young man is frustrated, cynical, and convinced that his past traumas are holding him back.

The Courage to Be Disliked is structured as a dialogue. It’s an accessible introduction to Adlerian psychology, and it’s a book that will fundamentally shift how you view yourself, your relationships, and your potential for happiness. Through the back-and-forth, the young man is forced to confront the beliefs he holds about his past, his relationships, and his own inability to change.

The philosopher’s arguments are challenging. He argues that your past does not determine your future. That trauma is not a cause, but an excuse we use to justify our current unhappiness. That all problems are interpersonal relationship problems. And that the only way to be truly happy is to have the courage to be disliked.

The prose is simple, but the ideas are profound. The dialogue format makes what could be dry philosophy feel like a conversation you're a part of, making you the third person in the room asking questions and challenging the teacher.

5 Lessons from The Courage to Be Disliked:

1. Your Past Does Not Determine Your Future (Trauma Is Not a Cause)
Adlerian psychology rejects the idea of "trauma" as a deterministic force. The philosopher argues that your past experiences are not the cause of your current unhappiness. They are simply facts. What determines your current state is the meaning you assign to those facts, a meaning you choose in the present to serve your current goals. The book argues that we do not change because we are afraid of change. We invent excuses (like our past) to avoid the risk of being different. The courage to be happy is the courage to let go of your story and create a new one.

2. All Problems Are Interpersonal Relationship Problems
This is a bold claim, but the philosopher argues that the feeling of inferiority, anxiety about the future, and the desire for recognition are all rooted in how we relate to others. True happiness, he argues, is found when you can separate your own tasks from the tasks of others.

3. The Courage to Be Disliked Is the Foundation of Freedom
Most of us live our lives in fear of being disliked. We tailor our choices, our careers, and our relationships to gain the approval of others. This is a primary source of suffering. The philosopher argues that the only way to truly be free is to have the courage to be disliked. This doesn't mean being deliberately provocative; it means accepting that not everyone will approve of your choices, and that's okay. When you no longer need the validation of others, you are truly free. It's a simple idea, but as the book makes clear, it requires immense courage.

4. Happiness Is a Choice, Not a Destination
The philosopher argues that happiness is not something that happens to you when you finally achieve some goal. It is a state of being that you choose in the present, regardless of your circumstances. You don't have to wait until you're rich, famous, or loved to be happy. You can choose to be happy right now. It is about living fully in the present, contributing to others, and accepting yourself.

5. "Lifestyle" Is a Choice You Make
Adlerian psychology calls your worldview your "lifestyle." And the book argues that you choose your lifestyle. You are not a victim of your temperament. You are not a victim of your parents. You are not a victim of your past. Your lifestyle is a choice you make, and you have the power to change it, starting now. That is the ultimate message of the book: you are not a passenger in your life; you are the driver.

The Courage to Be Disliked is a book that can change how you think about your life. It isn't a collection of tips, tricks, or affirmations. It's a philosophical challenge. It invites you to rethink your most deeply held assumptions about yourself, your past, and your potential. It's not always comfortable, but it is a path to a kind of freedom that is rarely taught in our therapeutic, victim-centric culture. This is a book for anyone who is ready to take radical responsibility for their own life.

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17/07/2026

ME: "I'll solve just one question before sleeping."

The question: 🥵🤯🥱

27/06/2026

17/06/2026

The foundation of every society is built in its early years — in what children are taught, how they are guided, and what values are instilled in them. Education is not just about books or knowledge; it is about shaping character, discipline, empathy, and understanding.

When children are properly educated, they grow into adults who understand responsibility, respect laws, value others, and make better choices. Many problems that appear in adulthood — crime, injustice, ignorance, and conflict — often begin with a lack of guidance in childhood.

Punishment addresses consequences, but education addresses the cause. One tries to correct behavior after damage is done; the other prevents the damage from happening in the first place.

A well-educated generation reduces the need for control, discipline through force, or correction through punishment — because understanding replaces ignorance.

So ask yourself — are we investing enough in education today to prevent the struggles of tomorrow?

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16/06/2026

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