21/09/2025
Fifteen years ago, I decided to take singing lessons 🫣 I was 20 and went to the “first” vocal teacher in the area. What can I say, it wasn’t a hit 🤭 The methods she used, from where I am now, were, to say the least, hurtful – singing with a corkscrew (my joint still pops out, and I’ll never change it). She made me hyperventilate while singing and put a chair behind me so she could fall to if I fainted 🤡 Not to mention she wouldn’t let me sing my own repertoire, which took a lot of the fun out of the lessons. I lasted six months 💩 I was determined. But then, for the next seven years, I didn’t go to any teacher, even though it was my dream.
The lesson is this: SEARCH – not every teacher will be right for you. Not every method will appeal to you. Or maybe you feel you don’t like the way the lessons are conducted. Singing lessons – besides being valuable and developmental, they should be enjoyable! They should bring joy and be the time of the week you look forward to – not an unpleasant chore.
My second experience with a teacher – seven years later – was that after listening to one song, he told me I wouldn’t be anything good. 🫠 It hurt. Now I know – he just didn’t know how to teach me.
I’m glad I found the courage to try with someone else – again, and that I managed to find someone who helped me spread my wings. 🪽
I wish the same for you, if that’s your dream. ✨