Qazi-Muhammad-Humayun

You can never change the behaviour of another person, so dnt even try.
You are wise when you understand that you can only change your response by not inviting some people into your circle of life.
You have to meet people where they are and some time you have to leave them there

Normalize apologizing after you were wrong instead of being defensive and disrespectful because you are embarrassed۔

مجھ کو معلوم ہیں پِیرانِ حرم کے انداز
ہو نہ اخلاص تو دعوٰئے نظر لاف و گزاف
اور یہ اہلِ کلیسا کا نظامِ تعلیم
ایک سازش ہے فقط دین و مُروّت کے خلاف
اس کی تقدیر میں محکومی و مظلومی ہے
قوم جو کر نہ سکی اپنی خودی سے انصاف
فِطرت افراد سے اغماض بھی کر لیتی ہے
کبھی کرتی نہیں ملّت کے گُناہوں کو معاف

زندگانی را بقا از مُدّ عا ست
کاروانش را درا از مُدّ عا ست
زندگی در جُستجُو پوشیدہ است
اصلِ او در آرزو پُوشیدہ است
آرِزو را در دلِ خود زندہ دار
تا نَگردد مُشتِ خاکِ تو مزار

ترجمہ
زندگی مقصد سے ہی قائم ودائم ہے ،اس (زندگی) کے کاروان کے لئے مقصد ایک گھنٹی (کی طرح) ہے۔
زندگی جُستجُو میں پُوشِیدہ ہے،
زندگی کی بنیاد آرزو کے اندر (ہی) پُوشیدہ ہے۔
اپنے دل میں آرزو کو زندہ رکھ ، تاکہ تیرا جسم (ایک) قبر نہ بن جائے۔

حوالہ :اسرارِخودی
ڈاکٹر علامہ اقبال

I know you have been hurt
You have cried endless tears
And you have broken in ways that you cant even explain.
You have always wiped away the anguish found your smile and laughed again somehow.
Your ability to smile through the tears makes you that much more beaitiful.
You have always found a way to rise from the ashes of a broken heart.
Try as they might they could never clip your wings,
Those tears that rolled down your ivory cheeks... they werent for you, were they ?
You wept for them, as you knew they were lost more than you ever have been.
They didnt deserve you on their best day and you didnt deserve that on your worst.
You embodied all the ideals that no one quite ever understood about you,
They couldnt get past the smiles and laughter,
You played your part and played it well..
You did it to protect your heart and stay strong for every one else
You have fought to become who you are and its a marvelous tribute to your courage, dignity and inner beauty.
You have never looked back but some times i know the loneliness can be overwhelming,
Some time you stop laughing because you are just trying to survive.
The night may be beautiful but in the silence of twilight is a defeaning silence of worries thoughts.
I see you
I feel you
I habe never been the same since.
Neither of us is perfect but we can be perfectly imperfect together.
You dont have to be afraid, sad or lonely and more.. im not leaving, now or ever.
You are never too old to start believing in magic...
I know im not...
It wont be easy
It wont be fast
Bit with love in our heart and courage in our soul, we can take one step at a time.
This is only our journy !!!
I cant promise not stumbling or losing way....
But i will face it and i promise it will always be worth it.

Every farmer knows that sowing different types of seeds means that the harvesting day and the outcome is going to differ also. So comparing our every day results is actually useless. Why ? Because what i sowed yesterday might be the first seed to ripe before what has been sown last week or last month or last year. The struggle i made in present might give me output late than my expected time. This doesnt mean i/you have been failed. Dont mind what is happining arround you. Believe in yourself and Almighty Allah and you do the right way it obliviously will work out for your good.

We all worry. For some reason we worry, knowing that it doesnt help and often makes our mood anxious and stressful. But we continue to do it any way.
Understand deeply worry takes away your energy, affects your mood, keeps you feeling helpless and at the mercy of the outer world and above all steals your opportunity to make decisions and take actions in the present moment that will bring you a sense of calm and peace.
Since we know worry doesnt help, when worry creeps into your being, pause amd take a few deep breaths and ask yourself what action can i take in this moment to stop worrying !