Ramadan

Pakistan is facing a huge flash floodings in different parts of Sindh, Balochistan, KPK, Gilgit and many areas. Many people have lost lives, lost their wealth, their possessions and are homeless. Kindly remember them in your prayers and help them through registered people as much as possible. May Allah(SWT) helps us , forgive our sins and make things easy for us and the people suffering from the disaster 🌙
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"And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient…Who, when disaster strikes them, say, ‘Indeed we belong to Allah, and indeed to Him we will return.'” (Quran, 2:155-156)

Eid Mubarak to each and every Muslim residing in different parts of the world having their Eid Ul Fitr Tomorrow.🌃🕌
May Allah (SWT) accepts our fasting in the holy month of Ramadan and bless us on this occassion.🎉🎆

All the FOUR daughters of the Prophet salallahu alaihi wassalam had to return back to their father's house at some point in their marriages, He welcomed them back with open arms, listened to their plights and resolved it. Many fathers of today consider it a taboo for their daughters to return home once they are married off.

Zainab radiAllahu anha, the first daughter of the Prophet had to return to her father's house with her two children since her husband refused to embrace Islam, their marriage was terminated and her father welcomed her back and took care of her bills again for another two whole years before her husband Abul Aas finally embraced Islam, so they got married again for the second time.

The second and third daughters of the Prophet, Ruqaiyah and Umm Kulthum were both divorced on the same day by the sons of Abu Lahaab, do you know what it means for two of your daughters who recently got married and made you proud, to be divorced and sent packing with their luggages at once ? Yet, their father welcomed them back home until they were later married one after the other by a man who was better than their two previous husbands.

Fatima RadiAllahu anha never suffered a broken marriage, but she once came to her father complaining about her husband Ali, she said:
‎ﻳَﺰْﻋُﻢُ ﻗَﻮْﻣُﻚَ ﺃَﻧَّﻚَ ﻻَ ﺗَﻐْﻀَﺐُ ﻟِﺒَﻨَﺎﺗِﻚَ، ﻫَﺬَﺍ ﻋَﻠِﻲٌّ ﻧَﺎﻛِﺢٌ ﺑِﻨْﺖَ ﺃَﺑِﻲ ﺟَﻬْﻞٍ
(It seems your people think that you don't get angry on behalf of your daughters, that is Ali, he wants to marry the daughter of Abu Jahl)
Her father listened to her, and took up the matter immediately and addressed the people saying:
‎ﻻَ ﺗَﺠْﺘَﻤِﻊُ ﺑِﻨْﺖُ ﺭَﺳُﻮﻝِ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﻭَﺑِﻨْﺖُ ﻋَﺪُﻭِّ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﻋِﻨْﺪَ ﺭَﺟُﻞٍ ﻭَﺍﺣِﺪٍ ﺃَﺑَﺪًﺍ
(The daughter of the messenger of Allah and the daughter of the enemy of Allah would never be co-wives under one husband)
He further said:
‎ﺇِﻻَّ ﺃَﻥْ ﻳُﺤِﺐَّ ﺍﺑْﻦُ ﺃَﺑِﻲ ﻃَﺎﻟِﺐٍ ﺃَﻥْ ﻳُﻄَﻠِّﻖَ ﺍﺑْﻨَﺘِﻲ ﻭَﻳَﻨْﻜِﺢَ ﺍﺑْﻨَﺘَﻬُﻢْ
(Except if Ali wants to divorce my daughter for me, then he can marry their daughter)
He salallahu alayhi wassalam didn't mind if his daughter was going to be divorced, her comfort was His major priority.

This is not to say, women should walk out of their marriages for flilmsy reasons, rather for genuine reasons only, and her family should be her first arbitration point. However, when many father's give out their daughters today, they say:
'You are now a married woman, you have no space in this house anymore, whatever happens in your marriage, good or bad, remain there like that, else you will never be welcomed here anymore, don't shame us before the society'.

Such statements make women think that divorce is a bad omen or an abomination, hence they don't wish to suffer it's stigma, they'd rather silently get perished under their husband than confiding on her family, for she knows she won't be welcomed anymore. Marriage isn't a life sentence.

So, an average wife sticks to her husband even if she suffers oppression, humiliation, deviation in her Eeman or even if her husband goes astray, for she feels she has no safe haven to go, so she stays put silently till she is destroyed too or she ends up asking admins to hide her identity up and down all over social media which yields no positive result.
May Allah rectify our affairs. ameen

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Samura b. Jundub said:
When the Prophet prayed he turned his face to us and asked, “Who among you had a vision last night?” If one of us had had one he told it and he would interpret it as God willed. One day he asked us, “Has any of you had a vision?” and when we replied that we had not he said:
“But last night I saw two men who came to me, took me by the hand and brought me out to a holy land. I saw a man sitting and a man standing with a hooked piece of iron in his hand which he was inserting into the other man's jaw and cleaving it till it reached the back of his neck, and doing the same with the other jaw. This jaw was recovering, and then he would do the same again. I asked what this was and they told me to come away. So we went on till we came to a man who was lying on his back over whom a man was standing with a stone the size of his hand, or a rock, with which he was pounding his head. When he struck him the stone rolled away and he went after it to get it, and did not return to this man till his head was healed and restored to its former condition. He then went back to him and struck him. I asked what this was and they told me to come away. So we went on till we came to a hole like an oven, narrow at the top and wide at the bottom, under which there was a fire. It contained naked men and women who when the fire rose mounted till they almost came out, but who returned into it when it subsided. I asked what this was and they told me to come away. So we went on till we came to a river of blood in the middle of which a man was standing and on the bank of which there was a man with some stones in front of him. The man who was in the river came forward and when he wanted to come out the other threw a stone into his mouth and sent him back where he came from; and as often as he tried to come out he threw a stone into his mouth and he returned to where he came from. I asked what this was and they" told me to come away. So we went on till we reached a green garden containing a huge tree at the foot of which were an old man and some boys and near which there was a man in front of whom there was a fire which he was kindling. My two companions took me up the tree and brought me into a house in the middle of the tree more beautiful than any I had seen in which were old men, youths, women and boys. They then took me out of it and brought me up the tree and took me into a more beautiful and more excellent house in which were old men and youths. Telling them that they had taken me round this night, I asked them to inform me about what I had seen, to which they agreed.
They said that the man I had seen having his jaw cloven was a liar who told lies which were reported from him and carried to the ends of the earth, so what I had seen would be done to him till the day of resurrection. The man whose head I had seen being pounded was a man whom God had taught the Qur’an but who had slept at night and neglected it and had not acted according to its teachings in the daytime, so what I had seen would be done to him till the day of resurrection. Those I had seen in the hole were fornicators and the one I had seen in the river was the one who devoured usury. The old man I had seen at the foot of the tree was Abraham, the boys around him were the children of men, and the one who was kindling the fire was Malik the guardian of hell. The first house I entered was the abode of the generality of believers, but this house was the abode of the martyrs. One of them informing me that he was Gabriel and that the other was Michael told me to raise my head, and when I did so I saw something like a white cloud (a version giving cumulus cloud) and they told me that would be my abode. I asked them to let me enter my dwelling, but they told me I had still some time to live which I had not completed and that if I had completed it I would have entered my dwelling.”

Mishkat al-Masabih 4621