GUSTO KO NGA BA TALAGA O MAS GUSTO KONG GUMAWA NG EXCUSE?
(mahaba tong kwento ko, kasing haba ng excuses na inipon ko all my life char 🤣)
Few months ago, I had a strong nudge to try pottery, but trying out something new had always been scary for me. Gusto ko pero di ko ginagawan ng paraan, instead may nakaready akong excuse.
Sabi ko sa sarili ko, “next time na lang, wala pang budget, saka dagdag gastos lang yan ngayon.”
All of a sudden, biglang lumabas sa newsfeed ko yung ads ng free pottery class kapag naka 500 pesos sa isang mall.
Pagkabasa ko nun, biglang bumilis yung tibok ng puso ko, at parang pinipilipit yung tyan ko. If you have been with me on my personal and spiritual journey, alam na haha lagi akong may physical symptoms kapag may nireresist ako.
So sabi ko okay to, di ganun ka mahal, unfamiliar yung place pero within Las Pinas lang naman. Pero may problema.
Yung schedule nya is 3pm, may Christmas party kami ng friends ko ng 6pm.
Naisip ko yayain ko na lang sila, pero di naman sila pwede sa oras na yun. Nabanggit din ng friend ko mahirap ng magbook ng grab kasi holiday season tska sobrang traffic daw sa Las Pinas.
Well, sabi ko, more reason not to go. Yes, may excuse na naman ako!
Pero di ako mapakali, kaya sabi ko try ko iask kung hanggang anong oras yung event. Aba, ang sinabi sakin, limited slots lang daw kasi 30 pax lang kayang Iaccommodate.
Edi napressure naman ako 😆
And that’s when I realized, “ah gusto ko pala talaga to, why am I limiting myself?” Then, naalala ko yung sinabi ni Coach Aj, I SHOULD FREE MYSELF FROM MY OWN PERSON.
Kaya nasabi ko na lang sa sarili ko, may ganto kong dilemma kasi this is something important for me, and may gigil ba haha kaya alam ko pagsisishan ko to kapag na miss out ko.
At nung naging decided ako to go, nawala yung sakit ng tyan ko at biglang gumaang yung pakiramdam ko.
Sabi nga ni NFG, EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE REGULARLY.
Sabi ko pa naman sa sarili ko, next year ko na yan sisimulan. The analyst in me says pplanuhin ko muna yung mga gusto ko gawin every month. 😂
Pero bakit ko pa papatagalin kung andito na yung pagkakataon?
So ito na nga ang aking adventure haha
I call it adventure kasi dami kong nabreakthrough dito.
- I went there ALONE. Introvert ako and I prefer to have friends with na magiging spokesperson (thanks friends! 😆)
- Maayos yung naging comfortable yung pag commute. Atttt walang traffic! Kung gugustuhin kaya ko naman pala, makakarating ako kahit anong mode of transportation pa yan haha
- Sobrang aga kong dumating, 11am pa lang andun na ko (competitive sa slot 😅) Sa totoo lang umiinit ulo ko kapag matagal nag aantay but surprisingly I was very chill kahit na nabagot ako ng slight kasi wala masyadong maikutan, buti na lang dala ko yung Switch.
- Vague yung paalam ko kay mami, sabi ko lang mag aadventure ako haha pero pagdating ko sa grocery, umamin dn ako sakanya para matanong sya kung anong gusto nyang ipabili kasi wala akong mapili. But I’m glad I told her kasi inoffer nya to meet me before ako pumunta sa party para wala akong mabigat na dala. (thanks mom! 💜)
- At 2pm, nakareceive ako ng chat from the mall kung sino mag jojoin, sabi ko ako, ang reply sakin, mostly daw kasi for kids. Tapos nakit ako yung wheel na nilabas, pang bata. Na anxious ako, sabi ko uwi na lang kaya ako.
Kaso andun na ko eh, konti na lang. Sabi ko, kung pwede adult, go pa rin ako kahit mga bata kasama ko. Kid at heart naman ako HAHA. Tska iiisipin ko na lang, club activity lang to with my students, walang nakakahiya dito.
I’m selling the idea to myself para wag ako magback out.
Then bigla ko na lang naisip, Shocks! This is actually me trying to heal my inner child.
Konting affirm affirm sa sarili habang nag aantay until nagstart na yung registration.
Yung ginather na kami sa table, aba lahat kami adults haha! Mostly mothers ang kasali.
At nung sinimulan ko na, mahirap ng onti sa una, pero gulat ako bakit parang ang natural sakin, at ok naman pala yung texture ng clay..akala ko mandidiri ako haha
then bigla akong nag flow state 😂
I created the pot the way I wanted it to be without any do-overs.
Ilang tao yung nagtanong sakin kung first time ko ba talaga.
Yep and definitely not the last! 🙌
The whole adventure was so liberating for me.
I am free to create the results that I wanted and it’s possible because of Universe’s love and guidance. (thanks Universe! 💜)
Now, every time I see the pot, it reminds me that I am co-creating with the Universe.
You are too.
You are love.
You are supported.
You are worthy.
If you know any pottery class (for adults haha) near Paranaque/Las Pinas please pashare! 😊
Parining din ako ng kwento mo. Ano yung mga bagay na takot kang subukan pero ginawa mo pa rin? 😍
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01/12/2023
Wishing you all a wonderful month filled with love and happiness. 🥰
Be the light,
Arjoy
24/11/2023
PAG NASA SALES KA, JINUDGE NA AGAD KITA NA MAPILIT KA. 🤷
Nung empleyado ko, never ko narining na may nag enganyo sa’kin na maghanap ng mentor. Hindi ko nga alam bakit mahalaga yun eh.
Ang alam ko lang, maideliver ko yung nasa job description, sinusunod yung utos ng boss ko, paminsan minsan magtatanong ako sa ktrabaho ko ,at siguraduhing maganda yung evaluation.
Akala ko yung pag aattend ng seminar, pag collect ng CPD points, at eventually magMA, eh okay na.
I didn’t know that I didn’t know, wala sa culture eh.
Pero nag iba lahat nung napunta ko sa sales. ✨
Dito sa pinasok ko, leader ang meron ako. At bawat kilos ko, walang evaluation, makikita ko na lang sa results.
But those results are the byproducts of who I became along the way.
And I only understood sales, and myself, because of the mentor that I had. Yung mentor na sabay hinulma sa’kin professional and personal growth.
Iba pala pag may mentor nu?
Nakakareceive ako ng genuine feedback, natutulungan ako magkaron ng direction, namamaximize yung strengths ko, and he was betting on me kahit paminsan pinagdududahan ko yung sarili ko.
And actually, having a mentor in sales, mas nainlove ako sa ginagawa ko. 💖
Natutunan ko kasi kung pano gawin na parehas kami ni client ay masaya. And that’s through adding value by being authentic and caring.
Kasi kahit ako as a client, gusto ko din yung tipong ramdam ko na may pakialam sa’kin yung kausap ko. Na I’m heard with all of my concerns. Hindi yung puro kwento sya (with intrusive questions pa) tas didiscussan ako tapos pag bayad na, bbye na.
At ang pinaka ayoko pa, yung sobrang makulit at mapilit. Grabeng pag ka taker yern? 😅
Buti na lang din talaga nag invest ako sa knowledge and skills. Thanks to SUPERCHARGED, natuto ako ng strategies na happy ako gawin at may results.
So ngayon, instead na umaattend ako ng seminar para sa CPD points, I’m investing on courses and meeting mentors na aligned sa values and principles ko.
And SUPERCHARGED is one of the best investments for salespeople.
If you want to learn more about it, I’d be happy to help. Comment ka: SUPER!
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23/11/2023
I WON'T GATEKEEP THIS KNOWLEDGE.
I just want to add value sa inyo, lalo na sa mga nagsisimula pa lang sa industry.
I learned that we should make our clients feel that
- they are heard and acknowledged
- they are never forced to do anything they're not ready for
- we only talk about what matters to them now
- they are well guided into the process of choosing
- what's recommended to them is the best fit to their needs
- basically the convo is about them and nobody else
- magkakampi kami dito sa journey na ito
Lahat ng yan natutunan ko sa SUPERCHARGED and definitely it brings results. ✔️
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Goal ko din kasi magkaron ng maraming friends sa industry kahit iba iba tayo ng company, ang saya ng maraming kasabay mag learn at kakwentuhan hehe
20/11/2023
SA GUIDANCE NA LANG KAYA KO ULI?
Kelan ba huling pagkikita ng GUIDANCE fam ko? Hmmm.. di ko na matandaan, pero ang alam ko ilang taon na rin lumipas.
Sa ilang taon na yun, kanya kanya kaming changes sa buhay. Gaya ko, nagdecide na sumubok ng ibang field, meron din sakanila nag MA, merong naging boss na, merong bagong baby, dalaga't binata na mga anak nila na parang kailan lang student ko pa, at merong mag mimigrate na. 🥹
Kahit ang dami ng nangyari, isa lang ang di nagbao - malala pa rin cases sa guidance. CHAR HAHAHAHA. What I really mean, is that, sobrang laki ng puso ng mga counserlors to come from love to genuinely serve the students, kahit gano pa kahirap at stressful.
Galing! Namiss ko tuloy yung mga students ko.
Pero napareflect ako, tinanong ko yung sarili ko, babalik ba ko?
Ang totoo nyan, dahil sa dinner na to, mas napatunayan ko na nasa ailgned path na ko ngayon.
This path still allows me to help people solve their problems. And yung income, exponential pa HAHA
But what I really like the most is that it allows me to focus on my growth as a person.
And I don't have much resources to the world, but i'm always willing to be vulnerable and share my ups and downs if it will be a story of inspiration for others.
Bakit yun mahalaga sakin?
Kasi ang imaginin mo na lang katulong ng counselors ang society na mamodel at inurture ang bata sa environment na puno ng taong nag eembody ng may resilience,love, dreamers and action takers, may radical self responsibility, living the life that they want and deserve.
Mas happy dba?
Possible? Yes!
Pero bago ang lahat, it all starts with the self. 💜
Kaya kahit counselor, coach, teacher, mental health professional pa, personal development journey will greatly help you para di ka maburn out.
Pwede kitang tulungan kung pano magsimula. Send me a message.
To the Queen of GC , Canada na irerepresent mo ngayon sa Miss Universe, di na PH :( char haha Wishing you abundant blessings and joy sa bagong chapter ng buhay nyo in the new home country. 🤗
Be the light,
Arjoy
07/11/2023
Inunahan ko na silang ireject yung sarili ko.
Maganda yung topic ng training.
Pero mas pinili kong ischedukle today ay clearing, cleaning and connecting.
Cleaning kasi yung mga libro ko nung college hanggang ngayon nasa shelf pa rin. Sabi ko sa sarili ko, halos mag isang dekada na nung huli ko tong nagamit, baka outdated na to tska wala na kong pag gagamitan.
Habang hinahalungkat ko yung mga dati kong books and notes, para kong biglang narinig yung tanong ng isa kong team mate, kung “di daw ba ko aattend”.
Naalalala ko tuloy nung college, kung gano ko kacompetitive sa pag aaral. Gusto ko nakakakauha ako ng magandang grades, di ako nakakamiss out ng mga dapat isubmit, takot ako magka absent, gusto ko yung alam ng mga classmates ko, alam ko rin.
May FOMO ba.
Dala ko pa rin yun hanggang sa nagwork ako, lagi akong na attend sa mga trainings na alam kong makakatulong sa’kin. Di ako takot mag invest ng paulit ulit sa mga trainings.
Pero bakit wala ako sa training?
Kasi what’s aligned for me today is itong mga inischedule ko kahit na maganda at free pa training mas Nakita ko yung sarili kong pagpawisan at maglinis.
Tinatanong ko yung sarili ko kung tama ba tong pinili kong gawin or baka naman dapat pinagpaliban ko na lang.
Pero bahala na, andun na eh, hawak ko na yung pamaspas.
And bigla ko na lang narealize, shooocks! Wala na kong pake HAHAHA. Na sila nagttraining at di ako takot makamiss out.
Narealize ko na lang, isa na kong “make it happen person” HAHA
Di na ko nagdwell kung tama ba o mali yung decision, what I know is, I’m responsible for my own decision at gagawin ko lahat para maging tama yung decision.
And suddenly, parang nagconnect connect sakin lahat. Grabe talaga alignment ni Universe.
The person who showed up is Arjoy 2.0.
Kaya pala gusto ko iclear yung stuck energy, kaya pala mas courageous ako na piliin yung mga bagay na aligned for me, kaya pala decisive ako.
Nung October, nakaramdam ako ng intense pressure since feeling ko nastuck ako sa mga goals ko tapos malapit na matapos yung taon, pero dami ko pang gusto maachieve.
I encountered this action taking course. Di pa ko enrolled pero grabe yung pag kastretch sa pagkatao ko. As in. tapos yung investment fee, sobrang stretch din HAHA
Pero, I took a leap of faith.
And I’m glad I did. Kasi dito ko naintindihan na kaya pala ko stuck kasi nakafocus ako sa DOING pero di nakakasabay yung BEING ko so ang ending, di ko rin nakukuha yung mga gusto ko.
Kaya kahit madami akong course na pinaginvestan ng time, money, effort, and brain cells, parang feeling ko kulang pa rin.
Kasi kahit natutunan ko na, nangingibabaw pa rin yung fear, doubt, and worry para ma implement ko yung mga natutunan ko. And ending, wala, pinrocrastinate ko dn. Or di ko na lang ginawa kasi kino convince ko yung sarili ko na baka di para sakin. Inunahan ko na, ako na nagreject sa sarili ko.
Pero having to meet Arjoy 2.0, ganda ng shift sa energy ko.
Parang ang dali na lang ng ease and flow. Kahit pa sobraaaang out of comfort zone yung mga tasks ko.
Di na po ko course hoarder, action taker na din. Yay!
Soooo I wonder, pano ka nagiimplement ng learnings from the trainings lalo na pag sobrang dami na? Would love to hear tips too 😊
Be the light,
Arjoy
26/10/2023
**Don’t ask help from a friend.**
Just when akala ko smooth sailing na yung mga plano ko sa buhay, unexpected problems and challenges pop out here and there hanggang sa magpatong patong na.
Hanggang sa feeling ko I’m a prisoner of my own thoughts.
Kaya may mga araw na parang sobrang drained yung energy ko kahit kakagising ko pa lang mula sa mahabang tulog, kaya ayokong gumawa ng kahit ano, or kumausap ng kung sino, gusto ko lang magkulong sa kwarto.
Kasi nakakapagod na. Ginawa ko naman lahat pero di mo pa rin naabot yung results na gusto ko.
Habang tumatagal sa state na yun, lagi kong tinatanong yung sarili ko “pano kung di mag work?
Tama pa ba yung ginagawa ko? Pano kung di naman talaga ko para dito?”
And worst, always doubting myself - “kaya ko ba talaga?”
At dahil sa continuous fear, doubt and worry, napaparalyze ako, dami tuloy lumampas na opportunities.
Sayang. 😓
Buti na lang mas malakas yung drive ko to live out my purpose.
And despite the fear, I took a leap of faith.
I considered the scariest thing I could ever do— ang maging vulnerable. 😨
Syempre, sino ba namang hindi matatakot iexpose yung weakness nila dba?
Lalo na kilala ko yung sarili kong ma ego – the need to be comfortable and to be liked by others.
As it became clear to me na mahalaga na mag seek ng support, I know not everyone ay kakampi ko.
Kaya I didn’t ask support from a friend who:
- Pity parties with me
- Lagi na lang may unsolicited advice
- Is emotionally unavailable
- Enables my negative behaviors
- At ang sikat na, Marites. 😅🚫
So, kanino ako lumapit?
I chose someone who
1. Is grounded and Can emphatize, pakikinggan ako at is available to give emotional support.
2. Shares similar values
3. Hindi ako binigyan ng mga kung ano anong advice, but rather, encouraged me to find the answers within me through self-reflection.
4. Comes from love to tell me what I needed to hear kahit masakit pa yan
5. Is in the same journey of personal and spiritual development.
Hindi madali to ask for support, at di rin ibig sabihin nagawa ko yun, okay na lahat. There are still times na nagddoubt ako, but I had made a crucial shift sa support system ko.
And through my friends, mentors, coaches’ guidance, I started to believe not only in the possibility of my dreams but also in myself.
This time, napapasmile ako when I ask myself "In the realm of possibilities, what steps can I take today to bring me closer to the realization of my dreams?"
I truly believe na lagi tayong pinapadalhan ni Universe ng mga tao to light up our path and guide us towards growth. In turn, we must also share our light to others.
Ngayong October, Mental Health Awareness Month, let's remember that asking for support and offering it is an essential part of our collective journey toward better mental health. Hindi lang to guide and inspire each other pero let’s extend our support to those who may be struggling in silence.
Kaya para sa’yo to. – Know that you are loved,you are supported. Don't hesitate to ask for help when you need it. Universe has your back. Reach out, because your well-being matters, and you deserve the support and love you require. 💜🤗
Be the light,
Arjoy
06/10/2023
Share your word and appreciation on this Teachers' Day! 📚🙌👩🏫
06/10/2023
To my fellow educators & coaches, your unwavering commitment and passion light the way for generations to come. Let's keep inspiring, learning, and shaping a brighter tomorrow, together. 📚✨🌟
NAKACLAIM AKO 1000 PHP KAY UNIVERSE! 😍😍
Naexperience mo na ba na may unexpected na perang pumasok sa bank account mo? I recently encountered something truly remarkable - bigla na lang may extrang 1000 PHP sa bank account ko.
Okay hear me out. Kasi laki ng ngiti ko dito.
Today, ilang beses na ko nag check ng bank account ko dahil sa mga binabudget ko. Sure ako sa naiwang pera sa bank account ko. Meron din akong ineexpect na papasok na pera so nung nag notif na pumasok na, chineck ko at kinross check ko pa mula sa screenshot ni sender, sakto sa ineexpect ko yung pumasok. Buttttttttt... There was an additional 1k that I couldn't account for. Inisa isa ko sa lahat ng data, transactions, listahan, pero wala talagang logical explanation for it. 🤷🏻
So napaisip ako, may mali lang ba ko, sinwerte ba ko but I like to believe na paramdam to ni Universe. Parang reward for my unwavering commitment to my personal growth journey. Nitong September 1 lang, chinallenge ko yung sarili ko to a 30 day self care routine, with the Universe as my accountability buddy. I documented my journey on Reels, and grind talaga ako sa career and business (which was another surprise form Universe pero next time ko na kwento). I rode the wave of September's heightened energy forecast, may "go" portal kasi nung mga nakaraang araw, which means manifestations are amplified tska napapabilis. Totoo nga naman! May biglang pa express delivery si Universe! Kakakilig! 💕
I decided na ikwento to para share share tayo sa energy and lessons. ✨
I realized that when we take inspired and aligned actions in our lives, great things can happen.Di madali, pero pinaglaban kong maprotektahan at masustain yung high vibrations ko throughout the past weeks. I chose to live in the now while trusting and surrendering.
And imaginin mo na lang kung ano result sa mas level up na actions. Grabe nakakaexcite!🤩
Ikaw, anong kwentong manifestation mo? Parinig naman para mahawaan din kami ng masayang energy!👂 Tara? ☕
Day 8/30
10/08/2023
Congratulations to all the dedicated and determined individuals who have successfully passed the board exams for psychometricians and psychologists! 🎉 Your hard work, resilience, and commitment have brought you to this momentous achievement.
By choosing this path, you've shown your dedication to understanding the human mind and making a positive impact on mental health. As you step into this important role, remember that your compassion, empathy, and expertise will shape lives and uplift spirits.
May your journey in this field be fulfilling, enlightening, and full of growth. Your dedication to enhancing the well-being of others is truly commendable, and the world needs more professionals like you. Embrace this new chapter with open hearts, knowing that you hold the power to make a real difference. 🌟
Congratulations once again, and may your future be as bright as the positive change you bring to those you serve. 🙌🌈
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