09/02/2026
Starting today until February 14, we’ll be sharing quotes from Supreme Court decisions that talk about love—sometimes romantic, sometimes complicated, and often painfully real. Kicking off the series is one of the most talked-about cases in Family Law: Chi Ming Tsoi v. Court of Appeals (1997).
The story of Chi Ming Tsoi is unusual, awkward, and unforgettable. Chi Ming Tsoi and Gina Lao-Tsoi were married on May 22, 1988, at the Manila Cathedral—grand, traditional, and very public. But what was supposed to be a joyful beginning unraveled almost immediately. On their wedding night, instead of consummating the marriage, the couple slept back-to-back.
Things didn’t improve during their honeymoon in Baguio. It wasn’t exactly private or romantic—they were joined by the groom’s mother, uncle, and nephew. During their four-day stay, there was still no sexual intimacy. Back in Manila, the couple slept in separate beds, and this pattern continued for ten months. Gina claimed she made several attempts to be intimate, but her husband consistently refused, despite being physically capable. Relatives eventually urged them to seek medical help.
On January 20, 1989, both underwent medical examinations. Doctors found Gina healthy and still a virgin, and Chi Ming physically capable of sexual activity. In short, there was no physical problem—only a complete absence of marital intimacy. Left with no other option, Gina filed a case to have the marriage declared void on the ground of psychological incapacity.
The RTC ruled in her favor, declaring the marriage void. Chi Ming appealed, arguing that his refusal was simply personal reluctance, not incapacity. The CA disagreed and affirmed the ruling. The case eventually reached the Supreme Court, where it became a landmark decision on psychological incapacity and what marriage truly demands—not just in form, but in substance.
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