Richer Life Ahead by Daddy Eman

Ang mahalaga, mahal kayo ni ninong at ninang

(RM Sunday Reflections🙏)

I, (state full name),
TAKE (state full name),
TO BE MY LAWFULLY WEDDED WIFE/HUSBAND,
"FORSAKING ALL OTHERS".....

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Anu ung “Forsaking All Others”?

In the marriage seminar we attended,
“FORSAKING ALL OTHERS”
covers 4 areas.

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1. FORSAKING OTHERS ROMANTICALLY

Saying this line “forsaking all others”
in your church wedding means WE MAKE A VOW to God,
that no matter what happens,
even if we are tempted,
Kahit pogi or maganda, kaibigan, or officemate, or chat mate,

God, I WILL FORSAKE OTHERS ROMANTICALLY,
to be faithful to my spouse.

Forsaking others romantically means
EXCLUSIVE TAYONG DALAWA LANG FOREVER AND EVER,
sa hirap o ginhawa:)

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2. FORSAKING OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS & FRIENDS

We remember in the marriage seminar,
it was said na IF YOU PUT YOUR PARENTS, BARKADA,
ABOVE YOUR SPOUSE..
Sure trouble will happen daw.

We believe this is true,
kase most who write us here sa RM na hurt,
ARE NOT THE TOP PRIORITY SA MARRIAGE NILA.

Forsaking others DOES NOT MEAN
WE DO NOT CARE FOR OUR PARENTS/RELATIVES.
It is more of THE ORDER OF PRIORITY.
Sino ba ang top talaga?
Spouse or parents?
Spouse or barkada?

Pag feel ni SPOUSE TOP PRIORITY SIYA,
grabeng support yan sa iyo in hard times.
Pero pag feel ni SPOUSE, LOWER PRIORITY SIYA,
he/she CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY.

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3. FORSAKING OTHERS ALSO INCLUDES CHILDREN

“Forsaking others” is also NOT TEACHING us
to NEGLECT THE TREMENDOUS NURTURING & CARE
FOR CHILDREN.

Forsaking all others, says that INSPITE
OF CARING FOR CHILDREN….
WE ARE NEVER TO PUT children IN HIGHER PRIORITY
THAN THE SPOUSE.

Sabi nga nung Pastor namin,
“When you married ba in church,
DID YOU MAKE VOWS TO EACH OTHER?
Or did you make vows to your children?”

“Huwag niyo baliktarin.
Marriage vows MADE TO GOD
are directly made TO THE SPOUSE.
Having children is just an offshoot RESULT
of that marriage vow.”

Sadly, sabi ng Pastor,
maraming couples na hurt and with affairs,
KASE NGA IN REVERSING THE PRIORITY,
SA KAKA-TAKE CARE NG CHILD,
NAWALA NA YUNG TOP PRIORITY NA
INGATAN ANG ISA’T ISA BILANG SPOUSES…

Kaya nawawasak emotionally or nagiging marupok ang under-appreciated at HINDI PRIORITIZED NA ASAWA…

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4. Lastly, FORSAKING EVEN ONE’S SELF.

Sabi sa marriage seminar, if you forsake yourself,
BOTH OF YOU WILL PRIORITIZE THE OTHER…..
IMBES NA UNAHIN MO ANG GUSTO MO,
AT IPILIT MONG IBIGAY ANG GUSTO MO….

by forsaking yourself,
ILE-LET GO MO YUNG IKAW LAGE,
UUNAHIN MO YUNG KABILA….
UUNAHIN MO SI PARTNER MO…

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SIYA DIN SA KABILA,
IMBES NA UNAHIN NIYA GUSTO NIYA,
AT IPILIT ANG GUSTO NYA…
by forsaking oneself,
ILE-LET GO NYA ANG SIYA LAGE,
UUNAHIN NIYA NEEDS MO….

So if done by both people in a relationship,
ANG GANDANG TINGAN!

Bigayan, at super positive,
KASE DAHIL INUNA MO SIYA,
SOBRANG SAYA NI PARTNER MO NA
IBIGAY DIN ANG GUSTO MO!❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Pero PAANO MALAMAN
PAG HINDI NAFORSAKE ANG SARILI SA MARRIAGE?

Maririnig mo lagi—na inuuna ang sariling gusto,
at hindi na open sa gusto ng kabilang partner …

Maraming ganito na nagsusulat sa amin.
Hindi napapakinggan,
hindi top priority,
hindi open sa kabila.
BASTA AYAW… AYAW..😔
WALA NANG USAP-USAP.🥺

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Hope this helps you dear in understanding the line,
“FORSAKING ALL OTHERS” sa marriage vows natin
when we marry and receive HIs blessing!☀️☀️☀️

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