Tammy Horn

Why I left !! How in the hell would vote for him

Absolute fascism in Florida by the repubs

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Leaving beautiful Mexico !!

Beautiful day on Isla Bolaños on Panama. Anyways find the joy in everyday. Make your dreams come true

If you arent their everything - move on!!

Time to go into the bat cave

I used to think it was weak to need a time-out

Us type As know you confront your problems and SMASH THEM

You take care of everyone around you

You take care of business

Along the way - you take care of you

Until the fu***ng train hits you and *smash*

You’re down - can’t breathe - can’t move - paralyzed- and there is NO ONE there

Can’t tell anyone - because you are the one everyone turns to - you fix everything - make it okay

So what do you do when you need a time out - a refuse - a safe place - and no one is there to hold your hand ?

You can’t “fold” - give up -

So it’s time to go into the bat cave

To rejuvenate - to be alone - to find peace - to be safe- to come out stronger !!!

Bat caves are fu***ng awesome !! I hope you find yours !!!

My whole life - people have been expecting things from me - parents - school - work - husband - children

I have sacrificed my career - my ability to make money - my future - my dreams -

Because I wanted to - because I was supposed to - because it’s what you did

Then I hear - you weren’t there for me ? Seriously ? I have lived in the same state my entire life because of my family - so my children could be raised around their grandparents - uncles - aunts - so they could live connected to a family

Like I did

What does it mean that no one has ever sacrificed for me ? I never asked for sacrifices from my family - I turned down great jobs - making LOTS of money - to stay here - for everyone else - because THEY were important - sacrifices I made willingly because I loved them

I have never asked my children or my family to give up anything for me - that’s not how this works - you don’t sacrifice so you can get something in return - you sacrifice because others are important

But I think I don’t want that to be the way it works - any more -

I’m tired of doing for others and giving up - sacrificing for them

- it’s not that I didn’t enjoy my life - I regret NOTHING

BUT ....

Why am I not allowed to ask others to sacrifice for me ? Why am I not allowed to experience the love I showed others ? Why am I not allowed to be the most important - for a moment ?

Meeting my mom today at a local funeral home to make arrangements for my sister

My sister is 55 with Down syndrome and late stage Alzheimer’s

She has been in an assisted living facility for a couple years and just moved to a nursing home because she got a feeding tube - she has forgotten how to eat

My parents have only seen my sister once in 7 months - when she was in the hospital - because of the restrictions due to covid

It’s a difficult thing to plan to bury your daughter - my mom has been doing great

Don’t ever take a day for granted - tell the people you love - you love them everyday

Fix the broken relationships (if they can be healthy)

Live the life of your dreams

Never regret

Learn something new everyday

Tomorrow is not promised - only this minute in this day

Change your thoughts - change your future