18/05/2026
Lokuta da dama yara suna yiwa iyayensu tambayoyi na goge hadda - sai kaji kamar ma ka bar musu garin.
A irin wannan yanayin wasu iyayen sai suyi faɗa, wasu su biyewa yaro baki.
Sai dai yaro yana da wani abu - duk amsar da baka gaya masa ba zai cigaba da nemanta a inda bai dace ba, har sai ya gamsu an gaya masa gaskiya. Domin ƙwaƙwalwar tasa irin taka ce - wadda take son sanin abinda aka ɓoye mata.
Don haka duk lokacin da yaro yayi maka irin wannan tanbayar to ka bashi amsa ta gaskiya - a sigar da ta dace da shekarunsa.
Misali -
Shekarunsa 5, sai yayi tambaya - "Mama meye fyaɗe?
Amsa - Idan wani mutum mace ko namiji ya taɓawa yaro al'aurarsa ko kuma ya sa yaron ya taɓa masa al'aurarsa shine fyaɗe.
Ba abu ne mai kyau ba. Allah baya so, wanda yayi idan ya mutu wuta zai shiga, kuma a nan duniya ma ƴansanda zai kamashi su kai shi prison.
Shikenan fa.
Idan yaro me wayo ne zai ma cigaba da yi maka tambayoyi, because to some children every answer lead to another question.
Amma duka dai amsar bata wuce wannan ba.
Shekararsa 8 - Mama menene balaga?
Amsa - Idan mutum yana yaro ko da yayi kuskure a ibada to Allah ba zai rubuta masa zunubi ba, saboda Allah ya san yaro ne yanzu yake koyon ibada. Amma idan mutum ya fara girma ya koyi ibada to ya balaga. Sai Allah ya fara rubuta masa zunubi. Idan bai yi Sallah ba yayi zunubi tunda a lokacin ya iya Sallah. Shi yasa ma kullum nake koya maka Sallah don ka iya kafin ka balaga - sai muyi ta Sallah mu shiga aljanna tare.
To Mama ya za ayi mutum ya gane ya balaga?
Amsa - zai ga ya ƙara girma, kuma zai ga gashi ya fara fito masa a hammatarsa.
Mama ke ma kin balaga?
Amsa - eh. Shi yasa zaka ga kullum ina Sallah kuma bana saɓawa Allah, don ina son Aljanna.
Mama ya naga hammatarki babu gashi?
Amsa - Askewa nake yi. Ana Askewa saboda idan yayi yawa yana tara gumi da dauɗa. Idan aka sake aka wanke sai wani ya fito.
Shikenan.
Yanzu ya gamsu zai iya tattauna komai da kai - ko da abu ne mai nauyi.
Ya san menene fyaɗe - duk
