26/11/2025
Today, while revising terms with my students in preparation for their upcoming exams, a conversation unfolded that became more than just academics, it became a life lesson for all of us.
One student called out, âTeacher CBK, do you forgive people?â I responded, âYes, I do.â
Then another student asked, âDo you forgive and forget?â I said, âI forgive, and I let go, but I donât forget. I donât hold what people did against me, but I remember, not to dwell in hurt, but to be wise and careful so I donât allow the same offense to happen again.â
What began as a single question soon had the entire class curious: âDo you trust people?â My answer was honest: âI trust people, but not completely. I trust in fractions. Only God deserves my complete trust.â
I shared with them a simple truth about life and relationships. I told them that there is profound wisdom in walking and working with people. Be friends, smile, and be open, but always strike a balance. Being careful does not mean closing your heart, and being kind does not mean inviting hurt. True wisdom lies in learning to protect your peace while nurturing meaningful connections.
So, to everyone reading this, let your heart be generous, but let your discernment guide you. Love, forgive, and build bridges, but never at the cost of your inner peace. Life is about walking gracefully with others while holding your values, boundaries, and trust in the right place.
I am Teacher CBK