Before doing

When you tell someone “I love you”. Here's what you actually mean:

“I have a never-ending desire to care for you. Amongst others, I choose you and you will always be my only option. I will give you my best, and I’ll treat you not just the way I’d love you to treat me, but the way you want to be treated. Your pain will be my pain, your problems will be my problems; it’s about sharing everything and making you feel included. There’s more to gladly accept about you than to change. I give you grace on your bad days. I respect and honour you as a person. There’s nothing I can’t do just to serve you. I see, feel, hear and understand you in a way the world doesn’t, and that makes you special. I share everything I have with you because I want you to partake in my little world.”

“ARE YOU GOING AGAIN?”

Oh, did you see the drama at the Garden of Eden? Did you see the drama? When the Serpent deceived the woman and all that happened. You know my first surprise was that when God came. He said, Adam where are you?

That question, I have not been able to overcome it.
WHERE ARE YOU, WHEN THE DEVIL RAVAGED YOUR HOME?
WHERE ARE YOU, WHEN YOUR WIFE BEGAN TO HAVE DISCUSSION WITH SERPENT?
WHERE ARE YOU WHEN SHE BECAME THE SOURCE OF INFORMATION?

You know, I was just thinking that the whole problem would have been solved if that woman just did one thing. I've always been telling women wherever I preach to them; I said there's only one thing that you will do, and your life will be correct. They asked, what is that? I said, SUBMIT YOUR OWN HUSBAND, DEFER TO HIM, LET HIM HANDLE THE MATTER.

I wish that the woman simply told Serpent, regarding that issue you are asking, ask my husband, discuss with him. He has details. Do you know that the matter will have been settled? Do you know that all that Adam would have simply done that day was to tell the Serpent, what's your concern about that? Do you know that I called you who you are? Do you know that Adam had power to discipline the serpent. Where was he? He was not on duty. The Bible said, he said the woman whom thou gave to be with me, gave me, and I did it. THE WOMAN “GAVE ME” DID YOU SEE THE CHANGE OF ORDER?

Now.
I was watching what God will say, whether God will say well since you are not the one who did it? But you see, when you listen to what God said, God said ‘in Genesis 3, he said, since you have harkened to the voice of your wife rather than what I have told you to do; cursed be the ground for your sake.

HIS PUNISHMENT? LISTEN, IS NOT JUST THAT HE ATE. GOD ASKED A QUESTION; WHO TOLD YOU? WHOSE INSTRUCTION ARE YOU TAKING NOW? Men, yes, I'm not advocating that women should be silent. That's not what I'm preaching about today. Don't go home and say all women should be silent in church. I've not said that. I've not said that. I'm saying something that would have made that possible. IF THEY WILL BE SILENT, WHERE ARE THE MEN WHO ARE TEACHERS IN THEIR HOME?

IF THEY WILL ASK ANYTHING THEY WANT TO DO FROM THEIR HUSBANDS AT HOME, IS HE AT HOME? Does he not dash in the night. Once he finishes his food, the next thing is television. And when he is tired, he crossed to the bed. When he is moved, he asks for s*x. When he gets it, he sleeps.

4:00 am, 5:00 AM, he is up. Oh, I have to catch a flight. Oh, and the wife has a permanent question:” are you going again?” So, but you know I have to go. “Are you going again?”

Let the church say amen 🙏🏾😇

Talmabout "I can change her, i can change him" 🥲🥲 Pele.. Unchangeable changer 🚶🏽🚶🏽 #Kingdommemes