ICON HEAL

The Unseen Hurt....

When you hurt genuinely kind people, the wound often goes unnoticed. They won't scream, shout, or make a scene. Instead, they'll carry their pain silently, masking it with the same warmth and compassion they've always shown.

But beneath the surface, something has shifted. They'll begin to create distance, not out of anger, but in quiet acceptance. Slowly, they'll slip away, leaving without a dramatic farewell, and they won't look back.

These are the people who cherished you, who trusted you without condition. When that trust is broken, it doesn't shatter; it fades away, leaving them no choice but to safeguard their peace. They'll remain kind, gentle, and compassionate, but they'll never perceive you in the same light again.

Losing a kind heart is a loss like no other. It's a void that can't be filled. Treasure these precious souls while they're still within your reach, for once they're gone, they're truly gone.

Their quiet departure leaves behind a haunting reminder of what could've been, if only care and compassion had been shown.

I know it hurts.

It’s a very strange feeling how someone can be in your life for months or even years and then one day ... all of a sudden not be there anymore.

Maybe the relationship ended on good terms.... or maybe it was completely catastrophic.

Either way .... it’s so bizarre how relationships can change so vast and rapidly.

And you know what .... you may not be at peace with what happened between the two of you ... and thats perfectly fine.

Sometimes the end of a relationship can literally be one of the hardest things we go through in life.

I want you to know it’s okay that your heart still hurts because of what happened.

You have made alot of memories with this person.

And these memories that you have made is something you can’t erase no matter how hard you try.

Whether you like it or not, they are a part of your story.

I know looking on these memories can be hard, and you may wish you could forget them.

But instead of forgetting, maybe we should try to focus on what came from the relationship.

You two joined paths for a particular reason.

Maybe you walked through some of the hardest times together.

Maybe you understood each other in a way no one else ever did.

Maybe you encouraged one another to be strong or to embrace who you genuinely were as a person.

Or maybe your relationship with them opened your eyes to what you truly needed in your life.

Regardless of what the reasoning was, it’s okay to acknowledge that .... that person meant a lot to you.

And it's okay if they still do.

It’s also okay that they aren’t in your life anymore.

What alot of people dont understand is, not every relationship we encounter will last a lifetime.

You shouldn't be lingering in the past questioning why everything happened the way it did.

What you need to do .... is to take what you've learned from that relationship and move forward in your life.

Knowing there are other relationships that will give you exactly what you've always dreamed of and more.

I need you to know that you're not going to feel this way forever.

You will continue to move forward and you will continue to grow with everyday that passes.

Take my advice and remember ....

Sometimes the people you wanted as part of your story, are only meant to be a chapter.

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STOP CLAIMING A MEMBERSHIP WHEN YOU CANNOT CONTRIBUTE TO THE SUCCESS OF THAT STRUCTURE YOU ARE IN (BE IT C0MMUNITY, UNION, CLUB, ASSOCIATION, WORSHIP PLACE, PLATFORM E.T.C).
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LIFE IS A CIRCLE OF CONTRIBUTIONS

I CONTRIBUTE, YOU CONTRIBUTE,
WE CONTRIBUTE.

WHEN any party ceases to CONTRIBUTE, the circle will be broken and leakages will be discovered.

WHATEVER you are enjoying today is someone else's CONTRIBUTION.

WHATEVER you are lacking today is because someone who is suppose to CONTRIBUTE didn't.

DON'T be that person, who because he refuses to CONTRIBUTE, causes leakages to the circle.

EVERY person on earth is here to CONTRIBUTE to make the world a better place.

CONTRIBUTION IS THE ESSENCE OF LIVING.

YOU can CONTRIBUTE anything useful.

YOU can CONTRIBUTE in KNOWLEDGE, UNDERSTANDING, WISDOM, LOVE, PEACE, RESOURCES, and FINANCES.

ALSO, you can CONTRIBUTE PHYSICALLY, SPIRITUALLY, INTELLECTUALLY, MORALLY etc.

WHEN you CONTRIBUTE, people will eat, when people CONTRIBUTE you TOO will eat.

ASK YOURSELF:-

WHAT is my CONTRIBUTION in that place that I am?.

WHAT have you CONTRIBUTED to make progress?.

WHAT is lacking as a result of your refusal to CONTRIBUTE?.

What is the way forward?.

THE answer explains the scarcity or abundance in that place.

YOUR presence is irrelevant if you have NOTHING TO CONTRIBUTE POSITIVELY.

CONTRIBUTION IS THE WAY TO GO...

IN the church or mosque, CONTRIBUTE...

IN the organisation that you are, CONTRIBUTE...

IN the school, CONTRIBUTE...

IN the house, CONTRIBUTE...

IN the market, CONTRIBUTE....

IN the society, CONTRIBUTE...

IN the village, CONTRIBUTE...

IN the community, CONTRIBUTE...

IN the family, CONTRIBUTE...

IN your street, CONTRIBUTE...

IN your Club / Union CONTRIBUTE...

EVERYWHERE try and CONTRIBUTE...

WE all have something to CONTRIBUTE....

CONTRIBUTE IN LOVE...

INSTEAD of complaining, CONTRIBUTE.

INSTEAD of destructive criticism, CONTRIBUTE.

INSTEAD of being embittered, CONTRIBUTE.

INSTEAD of watching, CONTRIBUTE.

CONTRIBUTION is the right use of energy...

NOBODY destroys where he has CONTRIBUTED to build.

THE WORLD WILL BE WORTH LIVING IF EVERYONE CONTRIBUTES MEANINGFULLY / WISELY.

CONTRIBUTE OOOOO OOO !!!

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