04/01/2015
IT IS THE MAN'S FAULT
First of all, merry Christmas and I wish y'all a health filled and prosperous 2015.
I will start this article with a proverb I heard last year that says "when a car filled with people has an accident, it's the driver that's questioned on what really happened". This simple, common sense adage made me realize that the driver of a car is the most important person in a moving car and that doesn't mean the passengers ain't important but it means the passengers are dependent on the actions of the driver while in that moving car and the actions of the driver directly or indirectly affect the passengers.
That said, applying this to the relationship between a man and a woman, the man is meant to play lead and the woman is to play the supporting role, using Christian doctrine as "The" yard stick.
The Christian manual/guide aka The Holy Bible has instructed husbands( and I will say men in general) to deal with their wives with understanding and I think this may be the key men have been looking for to unlock the great puzzle called "women or woman".
To understand means to know and comprehend the nature of or meaning of something and it can also mean the ability to perceive mentally an idea.
From this definitions, I deduced that
Men are required by Christian doctrine to study and research the woman to have a clear picture of her nature. In light of these, I can confidently say that most divorces and broken/failed relationships between a man and a woman are caused by the man. The man is the one that sees a woman, gets to know the woman, request to meet the woman's parents and ask her hand in marriage.
While writing this article I concluded that a man is required by God and common sense to study to know the woman so as to be able to make his choice on the woman he will spend his life with. Just as the driver decides what happens while driving, the man is responsible for what happens while in a relationship with a woman.
I am not exempting the woman from her responsibilities as the supporting act/passenger, all I'm saying is that the driver has the power to make the passenger comfortable and useful even when the passenger tries to cause an accident by dragging the steering wheel with the driver; the driver can choose to stop the car and resolve the issue(s) so as to have a safe trip together or he can choose to allow them to crash in the struggle for control of the car.
I tried my best to make this gist succinct but there's so much to say so I couldn't. I hope this helps in your life's journey.
Blessings!!!
