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Sometimes it is so tempting to bring up the past, but it is so not worth it. Not only because it puts a strain on your marriage but also because God never does that to us.

Here is a question we must always ask “is it worth it?”

Is it worth robbing the moment or even the day of its joy because you are still thinking about past offence? 

Do not use the past as ammunition, leave it where it is, in the past. Thank God for today and show your spouse how thankful you are that you get to spend it with them.

Happy Sunday peeps...
Trust you had an awesome service like i did?

Another Virtual Hangout with my authority figure Dr Seun Loading 😁 🎊🎉
with loads of activities lined up for you, from healthy relationship tips to controversial topics that are shaking tables on our social media space.

Mark the date on your 🗓️ Saturday, 26th September 2020 by 9am
You don't want to miss it!
Venue: page & YouTube Page: His and Hers with Dr Seun

Let's make some noise about it together. 🎉🎉🎉
Feel free to share on all your social media handles😍😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

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What better way to start the week than understanding exactly how to respond to trials that are bound to arise sometime in the course of marriage.

Because life is in cycles and phases, at a certain point in your marriage, the full weight of your commitment is bound to hit you. Then, you will need to decide whether or not you will check out of marriage-mentally, emotionally, or physically. In the seasons of trials, it seems a lot easier to give in than to push through the pain. Here is a call saying DON'T QUIT

Pride keeps many couples from getting help when they need it. You need to have a wise and trusted authority figure you respect and seek counsel from.

Other people’s experiences are just as good to learn from. Don’t wait for problems to arise before seeking out mentors. Find them early and build a circle of strength and accountability around your marriage.

if you have been nasty to your spouse, you know better than to ask for a favor five minutes later.

This is to say you can cash an emotional cheque when you have emotional credit with your spouse. However, if you don’t feed your spouse with positive emotional energy, your emotional cheques will bounce!

Are you non-expressive when it comes to love but extremely expressive when it comes to anger? its time to learn to manage your emotions for the good of your marriage. Let your positive attributes shine and minimize the effects of the negative.

Most importantly, ensure that the primary emotion your spouse feels from you is love.

Do share with us in the comments how you intend to minimize negative effects this weekend. Do have a super awesome weekend ahead family

...and its a wrap
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Many thanks for being a part of the decision making process for our new logo.

We had lots of persons rooting for this image and seeing you all are a huge part of us, we have decided to go for this...
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Here we are, taking you on a ride 🚘🚘🚘🚘 as we unveil what our new logo symbolizes.

The two interwoven heart shape signifies two beautiful hearts coming together to become one, interwoven and eternally inseparable, while the gem on each heart symbolizes how honourable marriage is.

Many thanks once again for doing this with us.
We love, celebrate and honour you all happily 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

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It seems like so many times the attention we put on a problem turns out to be a bigger problem than what we thought the actual problem was. How many times have you been so worried or stressed out about something, just for it to work out fine? 

Its indeed time to stop giving so much time worrying about something you cannot change and start praying about it to the God that Has the ability and also willing to change it.

When things are lawful or your entitlement, it is easy to take them for granted while the things that have the "OFF LIMITS" tag gets very thrilling and intriguing.

This is true for s*xual intimacy in marriage and affair.

The key to keeping your s*x life vibrant for decades in your marriage is being vigilant about disallowing familiarity because familiarity is the killer s*xual chemistry.

EXCITING NEWS!!!
We are re-branding
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Just because you are a huge part of us and our well being. We will like to hear your opinions and your most preferred of our logo options.

Swipe👉👉👉 to see all the options we have and kindly drop your comments, suggestions and your most preferred option in the comment section👇👇👇👇 using slide 1, slide 2, slide 3 or slide 4 to indicate your preference.

We sure will be at the comments waiting to read from you.
Love and celebrate you greatly 🤩🤩🤩😍😍😍

Marriage is about letting your spouse see all of you, the good and not-so-good parts. It’s about opening up to each other without shame.
What we all really want is someone who knows our worst flaws but chooses to love us regardless...

Share with us in the comments👇👇👇👇 steps you are taking to love your spouse unconditionally.

A friend is someone who is honest with you, who wants the best for you and has the courage to tell you areas where you need change. Someone who you trust, talk to, share life’s experiences and interests with; someone you feel confident enough to be honest and vulnerable with.

Marriage doesn't automatically build friendship. Love and friendship in marriage are choices which requires a huge investment in the process of building.

Unlike passion, friendship is the foundation of a true and lasting relationship. Friendship trumps passion because in a crisis, s*x may not cut it and if for some legitimate reason the passion fades, friendship will be what secures your relationship. 

Share with us in the comment section👇👇👇👇 how you intend to invest in building friendship and love with you spouse today.