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The country accounted for 5% of global outbound student mobility in 2023, referring to students studying outside their home country.

With more than 100,000 Nigerians enrolled in foreign institutions, Nigeria now ranks behind only China and India in global student mobility.

If I Am Your Friend

By
Amb Eromaka Umunna Seth (Sir Orderlism de Counsellor)

If I am your friend, you will stand with me in good times and bad times without pretending when things get hard.

If I am your friend, you will tell me the truth even when it is uncomfortable, because real friendship grows on honesty.

If I am your friend, you will listen to me without interrupting or judging, so I feel safe to speak my mind.

If I am your friend, you will celebrate my success as if it were your own and never feel jealous of my progress.

If I am your friend, you will correct me in private and defend me in public.

If I am your friend, you will keep my secrets safe and never use them against me later.

If I am your friend, you will encourage me to pursue my dreams and remind me of my worth when I doubt myself.

If I am your friend, you will show up when I need help, not only when it is convenient for you.

If I am your friend, you will respect my boundaries and never pressure me to do what I am not ready for.

If I am your friend, you will forgive my mistakes and give me room to grow, just as I will do for you.

If I am your friend, you will share what you have without keeping score or expecting repayment.

If I am your friend, you will pray for me and speak well of me even when I am not around.

If I am your friend, you will be patient with my weaknesses and appreciate my strengths.

If I am your friend, you will be loyal, not switching sides when others turn against me.

If I am your friend, you will challenge me to be better but never make me feel small.

If I am your friend, you will communicate openly and avoid holding grudges that poison the relationship.

If I am your friend, you will respect my family and values as part of who I am.

If I am your friend, you will spend time with me, because friendship needs presence, not just promises.

If I am your friend, you will be honest about your own faults and not pretend to be perfect.

If I am your friend, you will stand for peace and unity between us even when misunderstandings arise.

If I am your friend, you will love me, care for me and tolerate me unconditionally.

At the heart of it all, friendship is built on love that chooses us daily, trust that holds us steady, empathy that makes us feel seen, positive self-regard that lets us stand tall without tearing the other down, and confidentiality that keeps our bond sacred.

So let us build a friendship tie that endures—rooted in these values, tested by time, and strengthened by the choice to keep showing up for each other.

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