Relationship clinic

DON'T MARRY HER!

1. Don't marry her if you don't love her, you must love your wife in marriage, I mean you MUST!

2. Don't marry her if you can't accept her past including the baby she had not surrendered her life to God.

3. Don't marry her if you don't want to have anything to do with all her family members.

4. Don't marry her if you hate her looks.

5. Don't marry her if she hates you or finds you disgusting.

6. Don't marry her if she does not believe in your vision and future.

7. Don't marry her if she is an unrepentant waster of resources.

8. Don't marry her if she is totally lazy, completely laid back and incorrigibly idle.

9. Don't marry her if she shamelessly flirts around.

10. Don't marry her if she is proud, rude, pompous, un teachable, abusive, saucy, sassy, arrogant, snobbish and high minded!

11. Don't marry her if she is an unrepentant feminist and you hate feminists.

12. Don't marry her if you are the very jealous, hot tempered type and she is very beautiful and intelligent. No matter how faithful she is, you will distrust, cage and abuse her. Men with borderline personality disorder, the alpha males, narcissists and paranoid can't handle an extremely beautiful and intelligent woman.

13. Don't marry her if you hate her religion.

14. Don't marry her if she earns more than you and you are jealous of her success. Either you go out and earn more or appreciate her, respect her and encourage her to earn more and succeed other wise, marry a woman below your size.

15. Don't marry her if she is not God's will for you.

Bottom line, marry someone who you completely agree with and agrees with you. That is what is in Amos 3:3.

Marriage is the complete acceptance of someone else while helping them to become better.

If you can't accept her totally and help her become a better woman, please, don't marry her. Marriage is not by force. May the good Lord grant you understanding.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!!

You can run through a million women, but u can't replace a real one. Respect that lady who wants nothing from You but Your love.

Marrying a graduate is not an assurance of beautiful marriage, sometimes even an illiterate can do better than a graduate.

8 SPIRITS THAT CAUSE DELAY IN MARRIAGE FOR LADIES

1. BOY-FRIEND
The last thing on a Boy's Mind is Marriage.
Boys don't think of marriage, they want to make money first, they enter into relationship just for fun and s*x, that's why if the lady should get pregnant, they ask her to abort it, or they'll deny her, because they aren't ready for Marriage..
Stop dating boys.
Boyfriends will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors because they'll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wants to marry you.

2 ENGAGEMENT RING
This is that spirit that makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man engaged you and when the serious suitors that are ready to settle down see the ring, they'll pass over you because the ring tells them you have been taken.
And time is going, uncle isn't saying anything again, the ring self have start to rust on your finger in protest.
Many engagement rings are actually handcuffs, some are not better than key holders.
Aunty, say no to Lord of the Rings.

3. HARD TO GET
This spirit tells you not to accept a marriage proposal in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary shakara so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate.
It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don't pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother.
This spirit will not leave you until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying "can't he even wait for me"
Wait for you? Because you are Jesus Christ?
Aunty, If you love the brother and you perceive he is God's will for you, accept the proposal and leave Matter for Matthias.

4. PROUD SPIRIT
That spirit that tells you to always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful educated, and anointed.
That spirit that tells you that every brother that greets you is not your class, so y

I'VE BEEN HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MY BROTHER'S WIFE.

I'm a 27 year old guy and I have been having an affair with my brother's wife for about five years now. They have been married for ten years and they only have one son who happens to be mine. My brother is a business man and he travels a lot, he's wife is very beautiful and I've always been attracted to her. We started seeing each other and we even have a son together, my brother thinks my son is his.

I haven't been able to fall in love with another woman because I'm in love with my brother's wife and I know she loves me too. She's only with my brother for his money. For the past five years, I've managed to control my anger and jealousy but I'm tired now. I can't stand to see the woman I love with my brother, I want my son and my woman to be with me and I'm planning on telling my brother about this. I feel bad that I have to tell my brother because he has always been like a father to me, he's the one who took me to school and even got me a job but I can't keep sacrificing my happiness for his sake. How can I tell him this in a gentle manner.
What is ur take on this?

A life well enjoyed!!!🤣🤣🤣

Governor Nyesom Wike and his girlfriend in law school, they later got married with kids, now Nyesom Wike is the Governor of Rivers State and his Wife is a judge and the first lady of the state.

LESSON: Value the little relationship you have today, tomorrow is unpredictable!!!

May u never marry someone that the devil will use to destroy ur destiny, may ur partner be ur helper and not ur destroyer

HOW LOVE MANIFESTS:

1. If you love me, let your actions to me be loving

2. If you love me, tell me. Actions are not enough

3. If you love me, make time for me. Whoever you love, you allocate time to

4. If you love me, try your best not to hurt me. And if you do hurt me be quick to apologize and change, don't make me beg for your apology

5. If you love me, listen to me, understand me. Don't judge me

6. If you love me, commit to me. Be my partner, marry me, secure a future with me

7. If you love me, make us exclusive. Don't claim I have your heart yet I share your heart with another. It is all or nothing

8. If you love me, protect me. Show me that I can trust you with me

9. If you love me, make it public. Love doesn't happen in secret corners but in broad daylight

10. If you love me, forgive me when I wrong you. Don't keep a record of my wrongs

11. If you love me, trust me with yourself, tell me when you need help. Allow me to be there for you, make use of my love

12. If you love me, defend me when I get attacked, when my name gets thrown in the mud. Look out for me

13. If you love me, let me see God in you, don't lead me away from God but lead me closer to God. God is love

14. If you love me, correct me, make me better. Gently confront me when I do wrong. Challenge me

15. If you love me, believe in me, be my number one fan. Know my dreams and help me to pursue them

16. If you love me, don't give up on me. I am not perfect. If I lose my way, come looking for me, be responsible for me

17. If you love me, involve me in your decisions. Let me be a part of the future you claim you and I have

18. If you love me, show me who you are. Remove your veil so that I know who you really are, so that I get to love you too

19. If you love me, love my child/children too incase I am a single parent. It is not love if you are good to me but mean to my child/children

20. If you love me, honour my parents. If you love the me I am today you will respect those who rai

WHO IS A HUSBAND AND WHAT IS HIS ROLE?
~ Rev Chris Oyakhilome Ds.c DD

Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master.

The reason for most problems in Christian marriages is the fact that women refute God’s definition of marriage and form theirs. They believe they are equal partners.

If most women had their fathers bold enough to talk to them, they will be very successful in their marriage and they will be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly and that’s their biggest problem because they don’t know who a man is, they think he is another woman.

In marriage, you have the man who is the head of that union and because he’s the head of that union, its important to understand him. You think he’s the one that needs to understand his wife and that is where you are wrong. He will eventually but you have to know the type of man you are married to and his needs.
When you say you are marrying a man, you are coming under his authority. The Bible says, the man is the head of the woman (1 Corinthians 11:3) so when you marry him you come under his authority, you are not authority sharers even though you are both heirs to the kingdom of God.

When you decide not to subject yourself to that authority, you are a rebel and God is not going to accept what you are doing because you are not functioning correctly. Why did God make the woman?
Making woman was not God’s original plan because after God created Adam and before He made Eve, He said in Genesis 1:31 “Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good”. God made woman because of man so woman was not His original idea. This is reality.

Genesis 2:18a “And the Lord God said “for it is not good for a man to be alone..” The Bible didn’t say “lonely” but “alone”. There is a big difference. Man wasn’t lonely but alone. Genesis 2:18b “…I will make him an help meet”. He didn’t say a partner or a supervisor or a special advisor o

MARRIAGE IS TEAMWORK.

Marriage is partnership.
Marriage is a joint venture.

Marriage is for two responsible, peaceful, tolerant, forgiving, caring, and reasonable persons.

Don't kill anyone's dream because of marriage.
We all have our distinct gifts, talents, and Purpose.

Be a pillar of support to your partner and not a dream killer.

Remain Blessed and do have a lovely Sunday.