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Ezemmuo has said that he doesn't advice women.

But I have not yet listened to him.

Last month, a 30-year-old lady was in my DM complaining about her boyfriend of 6 months, and how the relationship has not been going smoothly.

I told her that I would not advise her to continue or not to continue, and that it was her decision to make.

In her response she thanked me and said that she's open to being connected to other men.

A man indicated interest, and she said she was willing to connect with him. So I did what I normally do for people in that situation: screenshotted the handles and wished them good luck.

Today, she's back in my DMs saying that the ex is back and that both of them are willing to continue their relationship.

She showed him the DM she sent me and mentioned that I had even connected her to another man. He also read the comments on the posts and was angry with her and disappointed.

Her concern now is that she fears that because of what she did, her relationship may not last.

I told her that I am not interested in what she is coming to tell me, and I do not need all that information.

And I have wished her good luck.

End.

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When a lady keeps advertising herself to the streets while claiming to be off the market, it creates unnecessary temptation and erodes the exclusivity that marriage is supposed to protect.

I hope most people don’t misquote this, no one said you shouldn't look good or do what you love, you have to protect your marriage regardless.
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I just read a story of an Indian married woman.

In 2024, she was caught in infidelity, but her husband and her family made peace and they continued their marriage.

In January 2026 the woman disappeared from her matrimonial home.

Her husband alerted her family and they reported to the police with a complaint of a missing person.

In February 2026, her family turned around to accuse her husband of murder. Claiming that he murdered their daughter and disposed off her body.

Police opened a murder case against the man and took him to court.

By late February, the judge sent him to prison while awaiting his trial for murder.

By March ending, the police were able to track the wife, and found her chilling in her lover's house.

Same lover that she was caught cheating with in 2024.

Let this be a reminder to men again:

A cheating woman that has been caught is a dangerous woman.

And if you forgive a woman for what she knows that she shouldn't be forgiven for, she'll punish you for it and still blame you for forgiving her.

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If you want your wife to respect you and submit to you.

Make sure that she's not the one paying the bills for her feeding, the house rent and the school fees and upkeep of the children.

Then, you'd have every right to divorce her and not feel like a failure.

Because a woman that wants to stray would stray regardless.

But you as a man, should not give her any justification for that.

And it doesn't matter if you paid 10 school fees and she paid for just one.

That one that she paid for, is what she would use.

The 9 that you paid for is not her business, if she wants to destroy you.

But some of you men don't understand this, because you expect your women to think like you, and be as considerate as you are.

Isorite.

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A married man shared his story of how his wife was complaining about him not being present because of his job.

Then he planned with his boss, & told his wife that he has resigned so he can be more present.

His wife didn't take it lightly, & went ahead to plead with his boss to reconsider.

What does that tell you?

She knows that as woman, she can ruin her marriage when her husband is unable to provide for her and the children.

But she was in her feelings when she was complaining, and she just voiced it out not minding the consequences of what she said.

I have always said that: women's greatest enemies is not their fellow women, but their feelings.

If you are not wise as a man, you'd do their bidding at the moment to please them, thinking that you're doing it because you love them.

They would deny you ooo.

Imagine if that man wasn't wise?

His wife would just start cheating and insulting him for being a useless husband and father.

You must stay 5 steps ahead of your wife as a man.

Listen to her, but make sure you weigh the consequences of acceding to her feelings.

Otherwise...

"Are you not a man?"

"Did I ask you to resign from your job?"

"Even if I did, are you not supposed to be the head of this house?"

"Stop crying like a child, you married me, so deal with it"

"Can't see your mates?"

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This is the reality, do your best to get it right!
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Everyone would love to be rich, but not everyone would be rich.

For me, as a father and husband, once I am able to put food on the table for my family, provide shelter above their heads, and pay their bills, I feel fulfilled.

I am satisfied and grateful to God.

No matter how much you have, you won't take a penny to the grave.

I have programmed my mindset in such a way as to not envy people's legitimate wealth or success in a bad way.

What I pray against every day is that I don't want to have to beg to feed myself and my family.

And I want to be in the position of more of a helper than being helped..

You don't need to be rich to achieve this.

As long as not all fingers are equal, there will always be people who are better, richer, and more successful than you.

And there will be those whom you're better than.

Just remember something throughout your life's journey: do not burn bridges and do not betray people's trust.

Trees cannot survive for too long if all the branches are cut.

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These have saved many men from false ra//pe accusations!
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I saw a video, a man married his wife as a baby mama of two kids.

They also have kids together.

The wife's baby daddy visited her in her matrimonial home.

Her husband asked why her baby daddy was visiting her, and she told him that he had the right to visit her because his kids live with her. And she was unapologetic about it.

Makes me wonder...

Should men really join a family or start their own family afresh?

Or we should just take that incidence as an exception because clearly, that man's wife doesn't have sense, neither does her baby daddy.

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If you want effort, bring effort. If you want value, add value....simple
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