01/05/2026
The moment your wife says “I’m fine,” you should be worried.
Yes, I said it.
Ladies, I'm sure you won't beat me for telling the men this secret. We lied o, sir, we lied.
You see her looking worried, and you don't want to seem insensitive.
"Babe are you okay?"
You hear her say “I’m fine” and you relax. You think you have done your part and the conversation is over.
"But I have asked her"
Problem solved right? Wrong!
If you’re married, you should know this by now. That sentence is not the end, it's only the beginning. https://Priscillia.selar.com/673173375p
Let me tell you what “I’m fine” can really mean.
“I don’t have the strength to explain this right now.”
“I don’t think you’ll understand me.”
"You will just start giving me advice that I didn't ask for"
“I don’t want this to turn into an argument.”
“I’m tired, but I don’t even know where to start.”
She is probably thinking this, but instead of saying all that, she just says,“I’m fine.”
I know this, because I’ve said it too, more times than I can count. Let me block my husband before he sees this.
There was a particular day a while ago, I remember clearly. Nothing dramatic happened. No shouting or fighting. But in my head, a lot of things were going on.
I felt overwhelmed with work, the kids, clients, family, the entire thing! It began to feel like my efforts were not seen. And yes, it was that time of the month as well. Ha.
He asked me the men's favourite question, "Are you okay?”
I smiled. Inside me, I was in world war 3. Sir can't you see that I'm overwhelmed? We've been married long enough for you to understand! I'm so tired, I need a break to breathe!
“I’m fine.” I finally blurted out.
"Okay" And he continued what he was doing.
Jesu! I wanted to scream. Is that it? Why didn't you press harder sir? Can't you SEE I'm not fine? Do I need to explain everything?
I chose silence, I didn't say anything, and we both moved on.
The truth was, we didn’t actually move on. I just carried it. Until I decided not to, anymore. I spoke, clearly, and we resolved it.
Not every woman will build that courage. What if I never spoke up?
That’s how it happens. These things don't start out as big problems, they come as small unspoken things.
Things she didn’t say.Things you didn’t hear.Things that slowly build up, silently.
Until one day, resentment sets in, and she changes.
She talks less, she complains less and she expects less.
The sad part is, you might even like it at first.
Ehen! My wife is a peaceful woman! No more stress. No more nagging!
It's not peace, it’s silence. Distance in disguise.
One day, you hear, “You don’t understand me.” “I don’t feel connected anymore.” “You don't love me!”
And you’re wondering where it came from. You've been providing, you've been sleeping together, the kids are well taken care of.
In your mind, everything was fine. After all, she said so.https://Priscillia.selar.com/673173375p
I want you to hack the code to your wife's real thoughts. I want you to stop guessing and be the man she can say "understands her."
This is why I wrote LETTERS FROM YOUR WIFE. A special gift to the man who is tired of asking ‘are you okay?’ just for the sake of it. You, the lover man who wants to sweep your wife off her feet. You want to make her that soft princess again in your arms.
Dear husbands, this book is for you.
Inside these pages are the words many wives have said, but not completely or only in their heads, or in that friend's group chat.
In this book, she finally speaks. To you. Honestly
Somewhere while reading, you’ll begin to realise,
“Wait, has she been trying to say this?”
Yes sir. Many times.
You see, many women were raised to manage, to endure, keep the home, avoid unnecessary issues. So instead of saying everything, they adjust and swallow a lot of things.
They say, “It’s okay.” "Don’t worry.” “I understand.”
Meanwhile, there’s a lot they are not saying.
You love her. You’re providing. You’re trying.
But sometimes, there’s a gap. A gap between what she feels, and what you think she feels.
This book closes that gap.
It gives you access to her heart, without pressure, and without misunderstanding.
My colleague got to read a part of this book and said in utter shock: “I didn’t expect this to touch me like this."
I understood what he meant. This book will open your eyes.
As you read, take your time. Read it like she’s sitting in front of you, finally saying everything she has been holding back. https://Priscillia.selar.com/673173375p
Please sir, no defending yourself. No interrupting. No trying to fix it immediately. I know you're a fixer, but just listen.
If you want her eyes to light up again, get this book.
If you want her to turn on the "bad" girl you knew when you just got married, get this book.
If you want to start your marriage right, get this book.
If you want to truly be her man, in every sense, get this book.
Your wife is not nagging, she's at the last phase of trying. She's not 'peaceful' and quiet, she is checking out slowly.
This is my special gift to you.
The cost of this life changing book is ₦5,000. But for the man who is ready to understand his wife now, you can get it at a discount for just ₦3,000.
This is only for 14 days.
After that, it goes back to ₦5,000.
Comment LETTER below, or click the link provided in the comments or my bio, and I will be in touch.
If you’ve ever said,
“I don’t understand women…”
Start here.
This is the conversation she has been trying to have, in a way you can finally hear.
I’m rooting for you.
Priscilla
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