29/07/2017
I have a friend named Monty Roberts who
owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. He has let
me use his house to put on fund-raising
events to raise money for youth at risk
programs.
The last time I was there he introduced me by
saying:
“I want to tell you why I let Jack use my
horse. It all goes back to a story about a
young man who was the son of an itinerant
horse trainer who would go from stable to
stable, race track to race track, farm to farm
and ranch to ranch, training horses. As a
result, the boy’s high school career was
continually interrupted. When he was a senior,
he was asked to write a paper about what he
wanted to be and do when he grew up.”
“That night he wrote a seven-page paper
describing his goal of someday owning a
horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in
great detail and he even drew a diagram of a
200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the
buildings, the stables and the track. Then he
drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-
foot house that would sit on a 200-acre dream
ranch.”
“He put a great deal of his heart into the
project and the next day he handed it in to his
teacher. Two days later he received his paper
back. On the front page was a large red F
with a note that read, `See me after class.'”
“The boy with the dream went to see the
teacher after class and asked, `Why did I
receive an F?'”
“The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic
dream for a young boy like you. You have no
money. You come from an itinerant family.
You have no resources. Owning a horse ranch
requires a lot of money. You have to buy the
land. You have to pay for the original breeding
stock and later you’ll have to pay large stud
fees. There’s no way you could ever do it.’
Then the teacher added, `If you will rewrite
this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
reconsider your grade.'”
“The boy went home and thought about it long
and hard. He asked his father what he should
do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to
make up your own mind on this. However, I
think it is a very important decision for you.’
Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy
turned in the same paper, making no changes
at all.
He stated, ‘You can keep the F and I’ll keep
my dream.'”
Monty then turned to the assembled group
and said, “I tell you this story because you are
sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the
middle of my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have
that school paper framed over the fireplace.”
He added, “The best part of the story is that
two summers ago that same schoolteacher
brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for
a week. When the teacher was leaving, the
teacher said, ‘Look, Monty, I can tell you this
now. When I was your teacher, I was
something of a dream stealer. During those
years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately
you had enough gumption not to give up on
yours.'”
“Don’t let anyone steal your dreams. Follow
your heart, no matter what.”