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01/09/2026

Has anyone ever given you a "compliment" like this?
"Your dress looks good... but I don't think the colour suits you"

"That was a nice presentation... but I doubt if you prepared it yourself"

Or the classic: "You look good today sha" 😂

Aunty, is that a compliment or an insult wearing makeup? 🙄

A compliment is an expression of praise, admiration, or commendation.
It is a powerful way to make someone feel better, brighten their day, and it is a great conversation starter.

So if you are going to give compliments, please do it right. Here’s how:

1. Smile and use a friendly tone
Your face and voice should match your words. It shows you genuinely care about the person you are complimenting.

2. Be sincere
Mean what you say. Don’t say "I love your outfit" while your face is saying "what is this?" 😁 People can tell.

3. Be specific
Instead of "You are such a caring person," say "I love how you always check in on your friends and make time for them." Specific compliments land deeper.

4. Avoid the BUT
"Your presentation was great BUT..." That "but" cancels everything before it. Use only positive words. If you have criticism, give it separately and kindly.

A good compliment costs nothing but can change someone’s entire day.
Give them freely, and give them well.

Which of these "fake compliments" have you heard before? Share in the comments.

27/08/2026

Calling a woman by the wrong title is the fastest way to sound careless.

Especially a woman who is particular about her marital status. She is capable of giving you the correction of your life if you misplace the Mrs 😁

At my last post I mentioned that I prefer to be addressed as Ms Gloria instead of Mrs Emmanuel. I got calls and messages asking why.

So let us talk about the difference between Miss, Mrs and Ms.

MISS pronounced /ˈmɪs/
Use Miss for an unmarried woman, usually a young lady or a girl.
Example: Miss Amina Bello

MRS pronounced /ˈmɪsɪz/
Use Mrs for a married woman. Traditionally it is followed by her husband’s surname.
Example: Mrs Gloria Emmanuel or Mrs Emmanuel

MS pronounced /mɪz/
This is a title used before the family name or full name of a woman, to avoid stating whether she is married or not. (Cambridge Dictionary)
Use Ms when you do not know her marital status, or when she prefers not to use Miss or Mrs.
Ms is neutral. It shows respect without assumptions.
Example: Ms Gloria Boniface / Ms Boniface

For me, Ms Gloria represents me as an individual. As a professional. As the brand I have built.
It is not about rejecting marriage. It is about being addressed by who I am, not just by who I am married to.

Etiquette tip:
When in doubt, use Ms. It is safe, professional, and respectful.
And please, always confirm how she prefers to be addressed.

Titles carry weight. They communicate honour.

So the next time you meet a woman in business, in church, or anywhere, remember this.

I hope this was helpful to you. Which title do you prefer and why?

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25/08/2026

Sometime last week, a video made rounds of a young lady addressing Mr Tony Elumelu, Chairman of UBA, as "Tony".
And I couldn't help but wonder if it was over excitement or fear. 😁 Or the Gen Z style. Or she was thinking we were abroad. 😂

Whatever the case may be, I think I should add my two cents on respect in formal places.

In formal and corporate spaces, titles matter.
"Mr Elumelu", "Sir", "Chairman" shows respect for the person, the position, and the room you are in.

Until someone tells you otherwise, use Sir, Ma'am, Ms Bello.
Dropping titles to call everyone "bro", "sis", or first name too quickly comes off as familiar and unprofessional. Stick to using titles.

Also in a professional environment, you must always remember that hierarchy comes before personal opinion.
Even if your boss is younger than you. Even if you do not agree with them or like them.
Titles like Sir, Ma'am, Mr, Ms, Dr, Chairman are not outdated. They are signals that you understand boundaries.

Lastly, respect at work is not just for some people, it is for everyone. Respect them equally.
Also use preferred titles for people in lower ranks.
The cleaner, the intern, the driver, the Cook. How you treat people when no one is watching is your character.

I hope you find this useful.

07/05/2026

Don’t mistake client hospitality for friendship. You’re there for business, not for leisure. Cross that line once, and you’ll lose respect, trust, and contracts. The client who gave you water today can cut you off tomorrow.

What’s the most awkward thing you’ve seen someone do at a client’s home? Be honest 😂👇

04/11/2025

Good communication is key to building strong relationships, whether personal or professional.

Let's review some simple video call and voice note etiquette tips to help us interact with confidence and respect in the digital world.

07/10/2025

When preparing for a presentation, your attire plays a significant role in conveying professionalism and confidence. Opt for clothing that fits well, aligns with your brand’s image, and resonates with your target audience. Sharp, clean lines and appropriate colours can enhance your presence. Ultimately, dressing purposefully can complement your message and bolster your impact.

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26/09/2025

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21/03/2025

An idiom a week keeps your English polished.
Today's idiom is 'win hands down.' Check the attached image to get the meaning and sentence example of this idiom.

But remember... If you want to win hands down, you need to be willing to put in the work, to push yourself to the limit, and to never give up.

Have a great weekend and don't forget to tag a friend who loves learning idioms!

15/03/2025

Confused about it's vs its? You're not alone! Let's break it down!

14/03/2025

An idiom a week is sure to keep your English sound!

Everyone wishes for things to turn in their favour, right? From struggle to success, from good to better... and that's exactly what today's idiom, TURN THE TIDE, means- to change a situation from bad to good or from unfavourable to favourable!

Try using it in a sentence and let's practice together!

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