Motherhood WITH MERCY

TRAIT:-Our trait atimes affect our be ing. We don't always put this into co nsiderations especially when we want to embark in setting up a famil y.The more civilize we become, the more we neglect this.It's more ideal if we can take time to find out what are our traits are in term of how natu re had made us when falling in love. Love is always sweet at first sight but there are much to real love, which demand lots of patient, prayers and perseverance. We can't just run away from this fact. Our trait s always justify our output in term of procreation. May we be guided by Go d, Ameen.

What mercy from Allah can I deny?

PRICELESS JEWEL: -Looking around m e,with my years of experience of being a woman,having be ing outside my fami ly to live with other families,being at co llege,higher instituti ons and graduating to face life by worki ng as a civil servan t in various schools and meeting with di fferent people amo ng who were Rome n of different chara cters.Women u me et and never wante d to part with while u pray to God not to let u meet again du e to how they portr ate their own woma nhood.I have being with women who in time of difficulties,t heir egos of calmne ss and courage to a rrive at good soluti on through prayers and patient were ra ised.They could not be convinced,they s olely put everything in the hand of God. They never doubted what God will do fo r them.I seriously r espect and love the se women in line wi th my own priceles s jewel,that is my o wn mother....a mot her,a pillar,a woma n who mothered so many children with mercy.

ANCIENT WEAPON:-Prior to mo dern religions, every home has its weapon of tackling with this odd life,especially the one that h as to do with lives of their childr end.For ages,men and women h ad suffered lots in darkness due to ignorant on how to find soluti on to tradition that negatively af fects their nature.Many men and women had wronged their souls due to one slogan"If u cannot be at them...u join them",not every soul God has created can abide by this slogan.The tradion that p promotes enemities between sib lings is no tradition.Many home s of larger families had become desert due to this.Envy of one a nother by siblings had led to tot all destruction.Even then,there w as a very strong weapon our fat hers used,that was going out to marry women from other tribes, who by virtue of their own tradit ion cannot easily join the cue of their husband tradition,especiall y the one that did not compromi we with peaceful coexitent at ho me front.No man in his right sen se will not want to be a total con troller over his home but when the reverse is the case....the up is down.In this case,the woman from outside surfers most but to me always tell if she has been lo yal all along to her husband.Loy ality of every woman reflects on her children's future no matter t he circumstances surrounding h er children,no weapon forges ag ainst them shall prosper.

SO MUCH TESTS....Every good faith are exposed to so many tests that are neither essay or objectives but of spiritual and physical that reflect on emotion al capacity of the one that is bei ng tested.It takes only the grace of God to pass all tests in life es pecialy the one that threatings o ne's life over a choice between t he satan and God.Total darknes s eludes every place with all fak e luxuries over the earth,but with total guidance from God,one has it behind one's mind that every s mall ray of light over power all f orms of darkness,hence one kno ws that truely God's existence is over everything on earth,all tests are known to Him,surely He will make one excel if one is steadfa st in calling on Him with total su mmit.

BEING original:Life is tough,rough,very lenghty and voluminious in term of who is who and what? one c hooses to be.Many had derived so much pleasure in living in another man's world to the extent that they had sold their birth right wh ile they choose to live a fak e life.No matter how life trie s to shape itself,each soul t hat has been created by GO D has a mission that must b e accomplished.None can s tand in for u,no matter the c ircumstances ,the purpose f or which one is created mu st through much prayers be fullfiled.Though one is bou nd to be faced with lots of c hallenges,GOD will always b e there to guide, protect and ensure everything works we ll.

NATURALY:-Neither u nor I are created to adapt to situations the same way because we donot reaso n the same way.Our level of unders tandings are differ,so also we are not on the same mission.Each of us has a mission to accomplish. This w e cannot do by remaining stagnant in one area,we have to move .Our e xposure atimes aid the mission we are created for.Yes,no matter the c ircumstances,we must shift base.N ot minding all the challenges accrue the task must be done.For every mi ssion that brings about positive ch ange,GOD is always at work to ens ure the mission is well accomplished .Great people in history,who had m ade positive changes in their societ y did not do these by remaining in t heir abode.You cannot bring about a new change by not moving.From every movement u make u gain kn owledge.No knowledge is a waste.

WHY?:-Ideally,we must have friends but not all friends we keep are our friends and not all friends we have we must relate with the same way. Why we must do this?Friends are lik e melons,not all friends are good so also not all bad friends are useless. From good and bad friends we lear n and gain knowledge.By nature,all animals are equal but more are mor e equal than others,hence it takes much intelligent to deal with so ma ny people we come across in life.Ma ny u come to meet once in life and u pray never to meet again in life for they are not created to have any positive effect on any other person's life ,that is just how they have been created,but they always find people they will lean on,no ma tter how much they gain from thos e they lean on,they will never appr eciate them instead they prefer to lean on them until they bring them to nothing. Hence,much care has to be taken b y whoever that has frn s. There are friends who lean on on e and one can as well lean on.such are the ideal friends to have.

BLESSED HEART:-The "HEART" is a powerful organ in human's body.To every soul is a"BLESSED HEART"but being currupted by so many circum stances of life.As it is often said,es cially when one experiences sorro w in Yoruba land that"okan mi baje".Okan here means the heart while baje means spoilt.This we cannot avoid as far as we continue to live.The only thing we can do as to keep our blessed heart is to be strong in the heart thru our believe in GOD.We ca nnot live without experiencing a broken heart which we can easily amend by our attitud e towards the root cause and our not giving up with prayers with absolute believe that no problem has come to stay,for after every darkness,there will always emerge lightness,after every storm ,there will surely comes sunshine.For every strong hearted soul that st and firm with prayers and focus in no one except BABA GOD is the one that is really gifted with a"BLESSED HEART".

MUCH CHALLENGED:-Life is never an arena of peace.It is full of so many risks to be taken to make it meanin gful.In the process of risking one's li fe,other people take advantages of these to make ways for themselve s not minding if one looses one's lif e in the process.Every action is judg ed according to intention.Not every one who takes advantages of reapi ng where they donot sow,enjoy everlasting peace.It is al ways better to bear one's cross an d face all challenges with absolute believe in GOD.He knows everythin g concerning all HE has created and knows all HE has destined for them .Why has GOD not destined twins c hild to share the same destiny?It is not always the same hence each h as to toil his/her own way to reach his/her destiny.Everyone has to be conscious of his/her nature so that he/she will live in his/her own worl d with what is best fit to face ever y challenge of his/her life.Of what is more benefit most is PRAYERS.

SPECIAL GRACE:-Inside the odd life,s ome are bestowed with special grac e from the above.They are just not made for fun but for a mission that has been timed by GOD and must b e achieved.Along the line,so many c hallenges are encountered but GOD remains their strenght and keeps e nriching their power.So many times, they feel they are lonely on the bat tle field yet the spirit of GOD renew their fa ith up till when all challenges and battles are warned and the set do wn objectives are achieved for GOD has his own ways of tackling the o dd life.