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If the iron be blunt, and he do not whet the edge, then must he put to more strength: but wisdom is profitable to direct.
-- Ecclesiastes 10:10

13 WAYS TO CORRECT YOUR WIFE WITHOUT HURTING HER FEELINGS

1: LOWER YOUR VOICE
Don't shout at her, she is not your child. You can correct, yes, but why shouting?

2: DO IT IN LOVE
Correction should be done in love. If done in any other way, it turns to criticism and condemnation.

3a: DON'T CRITICIZE
Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Most will say it's constructive criticism. But truly, It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes.
Correction is the act of offering better options to mistakes
Correction and criticism are never the same

3b: HUSBAND A SAYS
What manner of food is this?
Is this popcorn or fried rice?
how I wish I marry a more sensible wife with better home training, who can cook better.
HUSBAND B SAYS
sweetheart this rice it too salty and dry unlike the one you did yesterday. I think salt should be reduce any other time because of our health.
Husband A criticized while Husband B corrected his wife in love
STOP CRITICIZING YOUR WIFE

4 PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT
It will be wrong to correct when it's not well done, when you don't praise when it's well done. Form the habit of praising and appreciating your wife for good deeds.

5 DON'T DO IT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN
Avoid correcting your wife in the presence of your children. Incessant correction of your wife before your children will make them disrespect her.

6 DON'T CORRECT HER IN THE PUBLIC
Avoid correcting your wife in the public, it does not show you as a gentleman, and will affect her self-esteem.

7 AVOID CORRECTION IN ANGER
Stop correcting your wife in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Real men don't do that.

8 DON'T COMPARE HER WITH ANY OTHER WOMAN
In your thought of correcting her, you might have been comparing her with other women.
"Don't you see what your friend is doing?" Can't you learn from our neighbors wife?" "and so?"

9 AVOID REFERRING TO OLD ISSUES
Avoid referring to issues discussed and settled. Stick to the present issue, discuss like adults and move on.

10 DON'T ATTACK HER WOMANHOOD
"And you call yourself a woman?, Virtuous women don't behave like this, you better change before I change you!." This is very wrong, don't do it

11 DON'T ATTACK HER DIGNITY
You don't behave like someone with sense, do you think at all? And you said you went to school, I doubt it."
This is very wrong you also are not talking like someone that pass through a college.

12 DO IT IN TIME OF PEACE
Most husbands do want to correct in the heat of anger, at the height of misunderstanding, when temper has already hit the roof. That is not the best time to correct, it will yield little or no result.

13 GIVE A HELPING HAND
The best way to correct is to lead by example, step into the kitchen to give a helping hand, don't just sit in the front of the television correcting what goes on in the kitchen.
Wives are doing a great job, appreciate yours and support her to be better wife and mother.

IF YOU EXPECTS YOUR WIFE TO BE AN ANGEL IN YOUR LIFE, THEN YOU SHOULD FIRST CREATE A HEAVEN FOR HER👌

Edith Paul ✍️✍️

DANGEROUS THINGS WIVES ARE DOING

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses s*x as a weapon in the home – placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers – lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of “women’s rights” to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends’ influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man’s aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and pap. You go to bed wearing grandmothers’ clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks – we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don’t be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, “not in the mood,” you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a “useless man”, is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband’s girlfriend in word and in deed?

13. When you rely on your beauty, cookings, character, connections and bedroom performance alone to keep your man and your home intact without putting God in the picture, you’ve missed it. Without GOD, it cannot be GOOD.

Put God first in your home.

AMP:Those who hate you will be clothed with shame, and the tents of the wicked shall be no more.
Job8:22

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BELIEVE THE WORD OF GOD TO YOU-1 SAMUEL 1:12-28
Then Eli answered and said, "Go in peace, and the God of Israel grant your petition which you have asked of Him." (v.17 NKJV)
Why allow yourself to be burdened when you can actually place the burden at the feet of Christ in GOD. Why allow yourself to be troubled by the unpleasant words of others to you when you can search out the word of GOD and place it over the situation. May you find favor in the LORD’S sight this time; may you be empowered with HIS grace to pray and to do according to HIS will. May you have joy and peace in Jesus Holy name. Amen!
Hannah had a serious issue to resolve in her life; she had listened to the words of her partner (Peninnah) and perhaps to the words of neighbours and others; she had also listened to her husband, but none of their words had the power to resolve the crisis in her life. And no word can resolve any crisis when it is not the word of GOD. Hannah found her way to the temple of GOD; she made her prayers to GOD in the best she could. The word of the servant of GOD came to her and she was lightened. This word eventually came to pass because it was GOD’S word.
Beloved of GOD, have you located GOD and HIS Christ? Have you found the true word of salvation and solution to the cries of your heart? Have you settled down to study your Bible and pray righteously the word of the Holy Scriptures and in the Spirit?
Jesus Christ said in the Gospel according to John 14:1 - "Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me.” Can you trust GOD to make this word settle well in your heart and mind? May you by grace act well on this and be fulfilled.
I do not know what the trouble of your heart is; but I care a lot about the peace you must have because Jesus Christ is involved. Believe Him and believe His word to you. Your tears shall be wiped; the cries of your heart shall be comforted. The pains in your body shall have relief and you will know it no more. That family crisis shall be ended and all evil incensed against you, your home and your business shall become as nothing. The fear of your heart shall become a relief by the power GOD through Christ. It shall be well with you and with all that concern you. May GOD give answer to your prayers in Jesus name.