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The reason we hide our faults is pride. We want others to think we have everything "under control." The truth is that you can still take control of everything without pressure but persistent and consistent. You can also need a small group or an accountability partner who will encourage you, support you, pray for you, love you unconditionally and hold you accountable. Then you can do the same for them. Problem shared most time is half solved.

‎January 2025, Chief Priest and Burna Boy were trading shots on Instagram. To prove a point, Burna dropped $30,000 on someone who claimed he was CP’s cousin—and Lucky Udu was the middleman who made the handoff happen, escorting the guy to collect the cash...

Now ‎Just Barely 1 hour after Lucky Udu said he's struggling, Cubana Chief Priest reminded him of the $30k from Burna boy... and surprised him!
‎Fast-forward: Lucky Udu publicly seeks financial support and reveals he’s struggling currently. Chief Priest jokingly reminded him of the role he played when Burna Boy was trading shots with him and Suprisingly sent him ₦10m
Money NA pure water.

Getting married while you’re still finding your feet as a man might look r!sky to the world, but in truth—it’s one of the smartest and most genuine decisions you can ever make. When you choose a woman at your humble stage, the love you both share is tested and proven. She’s not there for your possessions or your status; she’s there because she believes in you.

A woman who stands by a struggling man is one who sees gold in the dust. She’s the one who prays with you when things fall apart, who encourages you when everyone else doubts you. And when success finally comes, she deserves the best life has to offer—because she helped build it.

But when you wait until you’ve “made it” before choosing a partner, love becomes complicated. It’s hård to tell who’s genuine and who’s attracted to the glow of your success. You start to question every act of kindness, every show of affection—wondering if it’s you they love, or your comfort and money.

True love is not found at the finish line; it’s built during the race. So, young man—don’t be afraid to marry when you have little. A woman who chooses you at your lowest will be the one who celebrates you at your highest.

Marriage is not about finding perfection—it’s about building it together. 💍❤️

~ Ekene Umenwa

If you can consistently save ₦2,000 daily, in one year you’ll have ₦730,000!

Saving should be a lifestyle — something every living being should practice.

Now imagine effortlessly gathering ₦730k from daily savings and using it to invest in land🤔 Some villages still sell land for ₦500k–₦600k.

Saving is good, no matter how small.
You can save to invest,
You can save for rainy days,
You can save to buy something valuable.

At the end of the day, it’s your money — just more organized.

I hope you understand.

Udo dikwa.

Marriage is sweet o, but let me tell you the truth, night time is when the real family meeting starts.

Husband: Goodnight, my love.
Wife: Goodnight, dear.

Two minutes later: somebody is shifting body like generator wey dey start.

Before you know it, love talk will enter, giggle will start, hand will begin to move like police patrol.

Marriage is not easy, but na inside this “goodnight” many babies are planned and many quarrels are settled.

So tonight, may your quarrels end with laughter, may your goodnights be followed by sweet dreams and sweeter touches.

Sleep well, and if you’re married, abeg, close curtain

Your single neighbours need to sleep too.

Sweet dreams and see you tomorrow.

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GehGeh may sound like a total joke to you, but as a young man still building your life from scratch, if you can filter his words and teachings, you will go far in life.

Avoid adding too many early and unnecessary responsibilities to your life, especially dating a liability as a girlfriend.

- Avoid urgent 2k girls
- Avoid Hookup girls
- Avoid Broke girls
- Avoid playing fatherly roles when you should be focused on building your life.
- Avoid singu modas
- And finally avoid jobless but materialistic girls that need you to spend to prove something. Very inhealthy combination.

You will get your life wre cked.

Ignore him at your own peril.

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Another very foolish trend I’m seeing is a young man who is still struggling to take care of himself and bills;

- no stable source of income
- no real and major savings
- no investment of any sort
- and no single revenue-generating asset

…will just wake up one day and decide he wants to marry.

You’re struggling to pay your own bills and take care of yourself but you want to invite another person to your life because you feel butterflies in your stomach?

Better tell the butterflies to rest before it put you into trouble

Enrol in GehGeh University today and learn wisdom that will help you navigate the stormy weather of modern day dating pool.

This is not a joke.

Written and Signed
~ fimber Chijioke

While you and your cousins haven’t spoken in years, Davido and his cousin B-Red are proof that family can be best friends for life.

For over a decade, we’ve watched these two stand by each other through thick and thin. B-Red may not be as successful in music as Davido, but not once has he shown jealousy. Instead, he cheers the loudest for Davido’s wins — and Davido does the same for him.

Even B-Red’s father is Davido’s biggest fan — a man who has never been seen dancing to his own son’s songs, yet beams with pride whenever Davido is on stage. That’s how deep their bond runs.

They travel the world together, share milestones, and remind us that real love between family isn’t about competition — it’s about lifting each other higher.

Moral Lesson: A family that truly supports each other will always rise together. ❤️

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“When I told Burna Boy my wife was expecting a child, he didn't seem happy for me. The first question he asked me was, ‘Bro, do you know what you are doing?’. I'm sure he was feeling my wife would run me street after we have children,” — Zlatan Ibile reveals!

One thing I've realized is that a lot of people who get b!tter because of their past relationships and experiences find it difficult to celebrate when love is working for someone else.

They think their story is the ultimate process for everyone which is a big fat lie.

Burna Boy is 34 years old with no child, and he's not married. That kind of person will hardly give you positive advice when it comes to relationships and building a family because they have never experienced it.

Zlatan did not listen to Burna Boy, and he kept loving and supporting his wife. He even sent her to the UK to study, and today she has a master’s degree.

I see a lot of young boys out here listening to GehGeh and worshiping him like their messiah. GehGeh will brainwash you into thinking marriage is a bad thing and make you treat them anyhow.

We need to be careful with the kind of bitter people we take advice from.

We have our parents who have been married for 60 years plus, and we don't take advice from them but na GehGeh who has never been married to a woman you dey worship online.

GehGeh is using you to make cash out from the engagements and you think he cares about you ?.

Continue. You go cry big cry when your friends get married and have children, but you are single at 60.

Congratulations to Zlatan and his wife on their graduation 🎓 🎉

Hello Ladies, Biko while going to visit a guy for the first time, especially someone you have never met before, pls make sure you go with some money (For transportation To & Fro)... 😢

Stop suffering Okada and Keke Men for no just cause 😢

What happened in this case is that 👉 this Umueri girl 👇went to visit a guy for the first time, on getting to the address she was given, the guy (Nwoke Nnewi) sighted her from afar and was shocked to realize that she looks nothing like her beautiful social media pictures and videos which was what attracted him in the first place, so he quickly blocked her line and switched off his phone, and now the poor girl who doesn't have even N100 on her is stranded.

The worst is that she chattered an Okada hoping that Nwoke Nnewi will pay for the transportation cost 😢

. Jesu Mere This Generation Ebele 😢

Dear Young Graduate,

DO NOT BE ASHAMED OF THE WORK THAT PUTS FOOD ON YOUR TABLE

We are living in difficult times.
Jobs are scarce. Opportunities are few.
Many of you have graduated with degrees and big dreams, but now you find yourselves sitting at home, waiting, hoping — for a white - collar job that may never come.

I know it hurts.
I know it feels unfair.
You studied hard, you passed your exams,
and now the country offers you very little in return.

Even business is not easy.
Prices go up every day.
Customers complain.
Capital is hard to find.
Our leaders have failed us in many ways.

But in the midst of all this, I want you to hear this truth clearly:

“Do not be ashamed of what puts food on your table.”

There is no shame in honest work.
There is no disgrace in using your hands to provide for yourself and your family.

If you must sweep, sweep with pride. If you must make shoes, do it with all your heart and mind. If you must push a wheelbarrow, push it with courage. If you must learn tailoring, hairdressing, or plumbing—do it with joy.
If you sell bread, cook food by the roadside, or ride okada or Keke — stand tall while doing it.

You are not a failure.
You are not useless.
You are not less than anybody.

Remember, Jesus was a carpenter.
Saint Paul was a tentmaker.
They used their hands to live, and they were never ashamed.

It is better to work with dignity than to beg with shame.
It is better to hustle than to steal.
It is better to be tired from labour than to be empty from idleness.

Do not let pride, or the fear of people’s opinions, keep you from moving forward.
Those who mock you today may secretly admire your courage.
And one day, they will see how far God has brought you.

Start small.
Do what your hands can do now.
And as you remain faithful, God will bless the work of your hands.
He may not answer quickly, but He will not forget your efforts.

Your story is not over.
This season is not your end.
What matters most is that you are standing.

POPE LEO XIV INVITES PRESIDENT TINUBU TO HIS INAUGURATION ON SUNDAY

President Bola Ahmed Tinubu will depart Abuja for Rome, the capital of Italy, on Saturday at the invitation of Pope Leo XIV.

Accompanied by top Catholic leaders, President Tinubu will attend a solemn mass marking the beginning of the Pontificate of His Holiness Pope Leo XIV, the 267th Bishop of Rome and the new leader of the Roman Catholic Church.

In the Papal invitation sent by Cardinal Pietro Parolin, Pope Leo XIV underscored the need for President Tinubu's physical presence "at this moment of particular importance for the Catholic Church and the world afflicted by many tensions and conflicts".

Pope Leo further stressed: "Your great nation is particularly dear to me as I worked in the Apostolic Nunciature in Lagos during the 1980s."

President Tinubu's entourage includes the Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Ambassador Bianca Odumegwu-Ojukwu, Archbishop of Owerri and President of Catholic Bishops' Conference of Nigeria, Archbishop Lucius Ugorji, Archbishop Ignatius Kaigama of Abuja, and Alfred Martins of Lagos.

The Catholic Bishop of Sokoto Diocese, Mathew Hassan Kukah, is also in the president's entourage.

Pope Leo XIV, formerly Cardinal Robert Francis Prevost, will be formally installed to the exalted office on Sunday, May 18, at St. Peter's Square in the Vatican.

The Conclave of Cardinals elected him 27 days after his predecessor, Pope Francis, died on April 21.

President Tinubu will return to Abuja on Tuesday, May 20.


Bayo Onanuga
Special Adviser to the President
(Information & Strategy)
May 15, 2025