24/03/2022
*WHY YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP ON CAMPUS*
*Relationships! A relationship is the way in which two people are connected or the state of being connected. In this connection, we are referring to “Boyfriendship” and “Girlfriendship”. I want to show you some Reasons why should and shouldn’t have a relationship on campus.*
1. EMOTIONAL STRESS
*Have you ever experienced a broken or failed relationship? Do you remember the trauma and stress it put you through? One of the major reasons you shouldn’t have a relationship on campus is because of the emotional stress it puts you through. Especially when you have a fight with your partner or you break up. Emotional stress can actually make you even fall sick at times. I had a friend whose heart got broken by his girlfriend for 2years. He couldn’t eat for two days and almost collapsed. Funny right? But very true. The amazing part is that there is no drug that can heal emotional stress. You will just keep on being sad and sometimes even cry. This keeps your mind away from more important things you should be thinking about on campus.*
2. FINANCIAL STRESS
*This may not necessarily apply to everyone, but some relationships put you on financial stress. Especially when you have a partner who has ‘longer throat’. “Honey buy me this, honey buy me that”. Most times, you tend to spend even money you do not have just to please your partner. So as a result of this, you become financially stressed and unable to handle other pressing campus responsibilities you have. What do you think?*
3. INSECURITY
*Another reason why you shouldn’t have a relationship on campus is the insecurities it brings along with it, especially when there is no trust. When you’re away from your partner, you are constantly thinking about what they doing, hoping they are not cheating with you or hoping they are not having fun with a different person. These thoughts flood your mind and get you worried, when you’re supposed to have other important things on you