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19/11/2025

8 ways to stay ahead

1. Show up to work early
2. Take the initiative to ask questions
3. Ask for advice, use it, then thank who gave it
4. Do more than your share of work
5. Be willing to work odd shifts
6. Every morning, come prepared to work hard
7. Continue to grow professionally
8. Read whatever you can about your field

11/11/2025

Feel positive emotions

Think positive thoughts

Focus on the positive in people

Offer positive prayers

Speak positive words

Practice positive actions

10/11/2025

ACTIONS THAT TAKE COURAGE

Admitting you are wrong.
Doing what is right when everyone else isn't.
Saying "no" when people are trying to get you to do something you know you shouldn't.

Telling the truth and accepting the consequences.
Standing up for something you believe in even though it might mean rejection or ridicule or even physical harm.

Defending someone who is considered unpopular or unacceptable.

Facing a limitation and giving it your very best regardless of pain or discomfort.

Confronting a fear without running away.

Giving sacrificially to protect or promote either someone you love, someone who has been wronged, or someone who is in need.

Being the only one.

Taking a risk.

Sharing your heart honestly.

Living your faith with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength regardless of the cost.

The Dark Political Economy of Calabar Rent: Is time to come homeThere is something profoundly unsettling about the renta...
10/10/2025

The Dark Political Economy of Calabar Rent: Is time to come home

There is something profoundly unsettling about the rental economy in Calabar. In a city largely inhabited by civil servants, rent has become an act of punishment rather than an exchange of value. A one-bedroom apartment now costs between ₦800,000 and ₦1 million per year. And this is a state where the minimum wage is still oscillating between #30,000 and #70,000 a month.

The arithmetic is merciless: a worker’s entire annual salary barely covers a year’s rent. This is not an economic accident. It is a symptom of a dark political economy—a system that thrives on inequality, silence, and the slow suffocation of the working class. It is a system that inadvertently breeds un-intentional and reluctant thieves!

Debt as Housing Policy

For the average civil servant in Calabar, home ownership is a dream deferred; rent payment is a nightmare renewed every twelve months. The rental calculus is cruel.

To pay ₦800,000 when you earn ₦840,000 a year means dedicating your entire income to shelter—before transport, food, school fees, or electricity. The rent is often paid upfront, forcing workers into loans from banks, cooperatives, and salary advances. Today, many civil servants are more often in the banks, negotiating one overdraft/loan or the other than being in their offices. The story has it that, there is even a civil servant who goes by the name Mr Overdraft because of his overdrafting frequency!

This turns housing into a debt trap, not a human right. Civil servants spend the year repaying the loan they took to pay last year’s rent, only to borrow again for the next. What should be an annual transaction has become a permanent economic captivity and agony. Of course, delayed payment of rent may elicit Court injunction or traditional injunction depending on the religious status of your landlord!

After rent, survival becomes a second problem. Parents skip meals. Children’s education is compromised. Health suffers. No thanks to the herbal concoction called "agbo", the name of my aboriginal tribe. The human spirit bends under the arithmetic of despair.

A Market Fueled by Greed and Neglect

So, how did Calabar, a once-affordable and serene city, become this expensive? More expensive than Uyo? More expensive than PH? In fact, Abakiliki is not our mate; na small pikin for rent! The answer lies in the politics of property and the economics of neglect.

Landlords and agents, emboldened by the absence of regulation, have formed a silent cartel. Agents push up prices to earn higher commissions. Landlords treat rent as a speculative asset, pe***ng their annual increases not to reality, but to the chaos of national inflation.

This has created a bubble economy detached from local incomes—a system where the rent is set not by what people earn, but by what landlords in connivance with agents want. And in the absence of rent control, greed becomes another diabolical policy.

The Hypocrisy of “Development”

Government officials love to speak of “development” — new roads, new estates, and grand tourism slogans. Good! Yet, development that excludes the people who keep the government running is nothing but hypocrisy. Development that emasculates the people is simply leprous.

Cross River cannot become a socio-economic hub if its civil servants, teachers, and healthcare workers cannot afford to live decently. The city is gradually becoming one where comfort is for the rich, and debt is for the loyal.
The irony is painful.A state that prides itself on hospitality is now inhospitable to its own workers.

The Urgent Need for Intervention

This crisis will not fix itself. The government must choose whether to remain a silent spectator or become a defender of its people by extending the Era of Sweetness to civil servants in particular and residents in general. The People first governor, I greet you!
The way forward:
Create a Rent Control Board:
A statutory agency should regulate yearly rent increments and license agents to stop speculative practices.

Build Affordable Housing:
Civil servant housing estates and rent-to-own schemes can cut costs and restore hope.

Review Housing Allowances: Wages and allowances must reflect the current rental reality — not the illusion of a stable economy.

In sum, indulge me to remember Abraham Maslow. Oh! Maslow, home has become a luxury close to the apex of your triangle, no longer at the base. A basic need has become a status symbol! Wherever you are, I know you're weeping if dead men do cry!

However, the dark political economy of Calabar rent is more than an economic issue — it is a moral question. A city that cannot house its workers is a city in crisis. A city in ruin!

If this trajectory continues, Calabar may become a place where only politicians and landlords thrive, while the very people who keep the system alive are trapped in debt and despair.

Real development begins when dignity returns to labour. Until then, Calabar will remain a city where survival costs too much — and home has become a luxury. A deadly slap on Maslow's postulations!

IDAKA IDAKA is a University Don and a Public affairs commentator.










DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BUSINESSMAN AND ENTREPRENEURThe terms "businessman" and "entrepreneur" are often used interchangeably...
31/03/2025

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BUSINESSMAN AND ENTREPRENEUR

The terms "businessman" and "entrepreneur" are often used interchangeably, but they represent different ideas and mindsets. Here are the key differences between the two:

1. Definition and Focus

- Businessman: A businessman is usually someone involved in commercial activities, primarily focused on managing established businesses. Their main job revolves around handling resources, boosting profits, and sticking to tried-and-true business models.

- Entrepreneur: An entrepreneur, on the other hand, is someone who spots opportunities and takes the leap to create new ventures or improve existing ones. Their attention is on innovation, taking risks, and turning ideas into successful businesses or products.

2. Risk Attitude

- Businessman: Businessmen generally take a more cautious approach to risk. They often prefer stable, established markets and tend to optimize existing processes rather than diving into uncharted territory.

- Entrepreneur: Entrepreneurs are usually more open to taking risks as they aim to create something fresh or shake up existing markets. They’re often willing to take calculated risks to chase innovative ideas.

3. Innovation vs. Management

- Businessman: While businessmen might make improvements, their main role is often about effective management and operational efficiency within existing structures. They usually focus on sustaining and growing the business through conventional methods.

- Entrepreneur: Entrepreneurs are often viewed as innovators, motivated by a desire to tackle problems or fulfill unmet needs in the market. They prioritize creativity and innovation to come up with new solutions.

4. Vision vs. Ex*****on

- Businessman: A businessman usually works within a set vision or framework, focusing on executing that vision effectively. They might not be the ones who came up with the original business idea, but they play a crucial role in keeping things running smoothly and profitably.

- Entrepreneur: Entrepreneurs, on the other hand, often develop their own vision and take charge of making it a reality. They actively steer their businesses and make key decisions that can influence the entire industry.

5. Motivation

- Businessman: For many businessmen, the drive comes from achieving financial success and stability. Their main objectives often center around generating profits, increasing market share, and maintaining a competitive edge.

- Entrepreneur: While entrepreneurs also aim for financial success, their motivations often run deeper. They might be fueled by a passion for their ideas, a desire to make a difference, or a commitment to social change. Their goals can include personal fulfillment or addressing societal challenges.

6. Growth Orientation

- Businessman: Businessmen typically concentrate on steady growth within their established markets, optimizing operations to ensure ongoing success. Their strategies often involve gradual scaling and sticking to tried-and-true methods.

- Entrepreneur: Entrepreneurs usually set their sights on rapid growth and scalability, constantly on the lookout for ways to shake up industries and dive into new markets. They’re often quick to adjust their strategies based on what the market tells them.

In summary, while both businessmen and entrepreneurs are vital to the economy, their approaches, mindsets, and definitions are quite different. Businessmen tend to focus on managing established companies and optimizing for success, while entrepreneurs prioritize innovation and risk-taking to create new ventures or transform existing ones. Recognizing these differences can shed light on the various ways individuals contribute to economic growth and progress.

04/02/2025

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“Whatever happens, stay alive.Don't die before you're dead.Don't lose yourself, don't lose hope, don't loose direction.S...
31/01/2025

“Whatever happens, stay alive.
Don't die before you're dead.
Don't lose yourself, don't lose hope,
don't loose direction.
Stay alive, with yourself, with every cell of your body, with every fiber of your skin.
Stay alive, learn, study, think, read, build,
invent, create, speak, write, dream, design.
Stay alive, stay alive inside you, stay alive also outside, fill yourself with colors of the world,
fill yourself with peace, fill yourself with hope.
Stay alive with joy.
There is only one thing you should not waste in life, and that's life itself...

| Virginia Woolf

17/01/2025

Six ways to bury a good idea:
1. It will never work
2. We've never done it that way before.
3. We're doing fine without it
4. We can't afford it
5. We're not ready for it
6. It's not our responsibility.

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