06/08/2026
PRIORITIZE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
The older I become, the more I realize why I must prioritize certain relationships in my life.
There are relationships that deserve value, and even first place, in my life.
We have biological relationships, marital relationships, childhood relationships, school relationships, social relationships, career/workplace relationships, professional relationships, and religious relationships.
Some relationships are seasonal, some are reasonal, some are transactional, some are translational, positional, or even contractual.
No relationship remains the same throughout our lives — except the ones we choose to prioritize.
Childhood friends do not always remain friends. With time, even the best of friends can become strangers. As you grow, you must weigh, calculate, and discern which relationships truly matter at each phase of your life. At every stage, there are important relationships that must be valued. Those are the ones you must prioritize.
To prioritize is to give value to the relationships that matter most to you — and to where you are heading in life. It is about giving and adding value to those relationships.
A married person cannot prioritize a relationship with an ex over their spouse.
A man in his years of wisdom must give priority to his family and close relationships. A man who is obsessed with ambition may sacrifice his loved ones for his career, only to end up with no one to stand with him in the solitary years of his life.
You cannot keep hanging out "with the boys in the hood" forever. Everyone eventually finds their lane and their pace in life. Purpose, plans, pursuits and priorities will definitely bring a shift in your relationships as you grow in life.
Only the relationships that matter to you deserve your attention, time, energy, resources, and commitment. Be wise enough to know when not to invest yourself in casual, toxic, energy-draining, resource-consuming, time-wasting, and destiny-destroying relationships.
Shalom!
©️ Jonathan Gershon Ministries 2026