Captivity of the Mind

Sometimes God pauses your life not to punish you, but to protect you.
What you’re calling delay is preparation.
If God releases you too early, what is meant to bless you will destroy you.”

Reality of marriage

HOW TO KNOW A SMART PERSON

They are quiet – Smart people usually listen more than they talk.
They know they don’t know everything – They understand there’s still much to learn.
They don’t show off – Instead of bragging about what they can do, they let their work speak for itself.
They are humble – Even though they are smart, they don’t think they are better than anyone else.
They might have fewer close friends – It can be hard for them to connect with others because they see things differently.
They ask good questions – Smart people like to ask questions that help them understand things better.
They notice mistakes – They often look for problems in ideas or systems.
They love to read – Smart people enjoy reading books and learning new things.
They trust their gut feeling – They can often tell how others really feel or what they want.
They don’t like to argue – Smart people try to avoid fights and disagreements whenever they can

The Mind Set

Men typically have two main reasons for being with women: S*X and LOVE. However, when it comes to marriage, most men don’t marry for these reasons. They marry for STABILITY.

What I mean by that is:

A man can love you and still not marry you. He might be with you s*xually for years without proposing. But once he meets someone who brings stability into his life, he will marry her.

By "stability," I mean "Peace of Mind." Men often say, "I love this woman, but I don’t think I can spend my life with her." When men think about marriage, they’re not focused on things like wedding dresses or bridesmaids, like many women are. Instead, they think, “Can this woman create a home with me? Can she take care of our children and me? Will she give me peace and comfort?”

Men seek peace. They avoid women who bring stress into their lives. This is why a man might stay with one woman for years but marry someone else after a shorter time.

For men, it’s not just about s*x or love; it’s about RESPECT, because respect brings STABILITY.

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